Ill Tempered Brat
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Newly accepted spanko in a difficult dilemma
Ill Tempered Brat replied to VanillaProblems's topic in Introductions
The fact that you just used the analogy of spanking as your own personal @curse”, and the the extent you are willing to go to eliminate all of this. I can’t help but ask, as a wife myself, when you spoke to your wife did you have this same passion in your conversation? If not my suggestion is to go back and talk to her but get her to feel you and what this means to you! I personally, would struggle with truly changing an individual from who they are? -
Welcome to SN 😊
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Oklahoma I hope all is well ☹️ I haven’t seen you around for quite awhile, and you’ve been on my mind 😉. Hugs
ITB
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Maybe I should consider updating mine 😉 .... nah mine is pretty accurate !! 🤣🤣🤣
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I am married to a vanilla spouse and when I came upon this site searching I made a post in the forums. To my surprise I was met with lots of feedback which I was grateful for. However this feedback sent me back to my vanilla spouse as I hadn’t looked at it as people were telling me, which was that it could be see. As cheating. So there I was face to face with husband having the conversation about how he was constantly complaining about A, B, and C and how I wanted to work on it & is hat I needed him to do. It was the typical situation you read about of how he didn’t think he could do it. Now I have a pretty dominant personality (for those that don’t know me lol). And although he would never admit this I feel that deep down my husband would onky be willing to challenge me so far before backing down. Which I know could be a problem but I was willing to give it a try. Now since I’d never been spanked before, not even as a child. We decided to go with no implements just his hand, and the OTK position. At first things were going smoothly however sadly I had to relieve him of his duties, as this was nit going to work for us. I say this because when I end up being rewarded for something that I was supposed to be punished for, well there just isn’t any logic to that is there? I’m sure some of you are wondering just what I’m referring to so let me explain. He found out that this role was more of a turn on for him than anything else so it ended up as more of foreplay than any type of punishment. 🤣🤣🤣
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Happy October 🤣🤣🤣
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I’m in Riverside, Ca
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I’m actually the oldest middle child as there are 4 daughters in my family. I was also not spanked as child.
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Yes one of my fault 🤦♀️
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Story of my life
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@Oldspanker60 North Carolina is a bit far from California don't you think? 😝 Just saying
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Thais 1% can really do a number on me and get me in some trouble (like currently)! 🙈
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that’s right.... Congrats on your sobriety! ITB
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Just not today lol
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It has worked for me but now I’m more of what you call a analytical person anyway. So words tend to be more powerful to me. Meaning a person can really get in my head if used correctly. Which my mentor has mastered and used on many occasions. Now I feel the assigned essays for me were given as a way for me to work through/process things on my own. I say this because I can appear to be quite stubborn at times if I can’t see the logic in things. I also just can’t accept a person telling me cos i said so. So Doing the writing exercises helps me get to where he’s at on my own, if that makes sense. As for the lines, those tend to come with repeated minor offenses like saying whatever 🙄, which is a bad habit I have 😬. But it works for us which is all that matters
