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Alcina

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Alcina last won the day on October 10 2018

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    Nigeria
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    Spankee

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  1. It has never really been about the looks, maybe because it’s more about accountability for me. Connections would always trump any physical attraction or age. I’m learning through my different experience who works for me and who doesn’t. SN brought two amazing spankers my way at different points in time who were really strict but fair and genuinely cared about me becoming a better version of myself. The last however was a complete nightmare and very manipulative and he was the oldest of all three. sometimes, age doesn’t bring about experience.
  2. It has never really been about the looks, maybe because it’s more about accountability for me. Connections would always trump any physical attraction or age. I’m learning through my different experience who works for me and who doesn’t. SN brought two amazing spankers my way at different points in time who were really strict but fair and genuinely cared about me becoming a better version of myself. The last however was a complete nightmare and very manipulative and he was the oldest of all three. sometimes, age doesn’t bring about experience.
  3. I’m not a constant on here and I can’t promise to either because life happens every once in awhile I find solace in the isolation, but I’m here now and I would really love to connect with people and just talk about every and anything. Feel free to send me a message if you are interested in making a new friend🙂

    1. Alcina

      Alcina

      ...and I find solace in the isolation***

    2. shygurl

      shygurl

      Welcome back!!

    3. Alcina

      Alcina

      Thank you shygurl 💕

  4. For me, i guess it was when i started surfing the internet for clarity. The internet really is your best friend because you get to ask the silliest and most personal questions and get honest replies.
  5. Welcome Nightskyrivers. I totally can relate. Just take your time to get to know the people here and remember to enjoy the ride.
  6. Welcome to SN Nightshadexx and Sidneymysnake. I hope the community is everything you hoped it would be. ?
  7. I don't believe I'm just seeing this. Thank you Poison for being you as always ?. Well, I'm also guilty of a lot of things you've mentioned. I wish i could be a little more interactive on here than i currently am but real life matters won't let me sometimes. Yes, SN is totally different from what it used to be and it sucks but i'm grateful for the few friends i have here and my mentor. I miss hardhanded (HH) alot too because i always had a friend in him. On my own part i can promise to be a little more welcoming and open to meeting more people because you all are amazing. I hope we all can do better. ❤️
  8. • I’m a christian • I love all things Art • My dream is to own an art gallery some day. • I love music, it’s my escape. You can guess the person I am just by going through my playlist • I have 2 older sisters and a younger brother • I don’t have any relationship with my dad, but my mom is my best friend, she’s my world. • I love to reward myself for wins • I always get myself something very special on my birthday. • I am a hopeless romantic; my future husband isn’t even ready for my ‘awesomeness’. • I love children, can’t wait to have mine someday. •I never wear my heart on my sleeves but when I love, I love deeply.
  9. Thank you BansheeGal, I would definitely check out the Ted talk. For the spanking machine... hmm, I don’t know about that, It kind of still falls under the self spanking category for me.
  10. Well I guess so Poisons, but the last mentor I had resorted only to spanking as his means of motivation and correcting bad behavior. Maybe I need to reorient myself on a lot of things.
  11. Is hardhanded still on here?

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    2. Wifey

      Wifey

      Please don’t be mad at yourself. If he could, he would tell you that the things you need to do are important and while he loved talking with you he understands. Feel free to pm me or messsge me any time. Hugs!

       

    3. Alcina

      Alcina

      Thank you Wifey. ?

    4. sweetpea

      sweetpea

      So true wifey 

  12. SN isn’t as interactive as it used to be.

    1. Accountability

      Accountability

      You're right, unfortunately. We need a better alternative. 

    2. BansheeGal

      BansheeGal

      But I just got here! *bounces off to revive as many old threads as possible* :P

  13. Thank you Sir Square. Really appreciate your reply, though it’s easier said than done but I would ‘try’ to be a little more disciplined and deliberate about adopting your approach. I hope I can be consistent with that. I know I need a mentor for accountability but the online mentoring won’t work for me, just because I personally find self spanking really weird from experience.
  14. I’m just back in school for a new session and I already feel the pressure. I have to review a minimum of 25 journals, have my chapter 1 ready before the end of next week and still work on a paper due soon but I honestly can’t get myself to start any. I’ve gotten to a point where I ask myself why I started in the first place because I really just want to throw in the towel. I know I need a mentor but honestly I can’t get anyone around me and self spanking won’t work for me. suggestions please?
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