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  1. I’ve used Skype, same concept. It all depends on you and your Spanker. For me, he directed it. Told me where, who hard, how fast, how long. We agreed that the only way I would stop is in asking for a short rest or safe word. Sometimes it was with me faxing the laptop other times my bottom was. Hope that helps. 

  2. On 1/31/2021 at 12:21 AM, Bramblewine said:

    As well they shouldn't.

    But I think what the OP is asking is how well this scenario fits with our fantasies. Is it something that would work for you if it had been agreed upon?

    For me personally, no, and I wouldn't agree to it. But not everyone necessarily feels the same way.

    I try not to read into messages and take them at face value. I’ve talked to too many people who truly don’t understand the basics. Honestly any Er who even asked that of me wouldn’t be my Er for long.

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  3. A few things. No aftercare? Perhaps if he spend a little time with you after it would have gone differently. 
    Here is the thing. Safe. Sane. Consensual. Nothing should happen that you don’t agree to or with. The bath brush turned out to be too much for me. So we discussed it. You are not a slave or a child. Take responsibility and communicate. 

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  4. Your purpose is greater than taking care of your parents. I understand the pride you have in having taken care of them. Yet as a mom I can’t help but think that was a little limiting and maybe even selfish. You have proven yourself capable. Maybe it would help if you think of life more a journey with a number of important stops as opposed to one destination. 
    Nothing will ever feel quite like the love you had with your parents. That doesn’t mean you can’t have something else that is beautiful in its own way. 

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