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Wifey last won the day on September 21 2018

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About Wifey

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    Nj
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    Female
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    Spankee

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  1. Dear Hardhanded, It’s hard to believe it’s been 3 years. I think of you almost every day. Missing your hellooo.  Missing your corny songs. Missing being your sunshine and being cared for in the special way you did. Missing your hard hands and beautiful soul. I imagine that you sometimes visit. Thank you for the gifts you gave me and the things you taught me. Xoxo always 

    1. sweetpea

      sweetpea

      Wifey it's been three years already.  I miss him greatly. He always had the best advice and listening ear.

      ((((Hugs Wifey)))

    2. badboyotk47

      badboyotk47

      It is hard to believe it has been 3 years since you lost him. My heart goes out to you. I know how much he meant to you!...Hugs my friend!!

    3. Wifey

      Wifey

      @sweetpeahe always enjoyed you. I know you made some of his last days better. Thank you @badboyotk47for your empathy. 

  2. Dear Hardhanded, It’s hard to believe it’s been 3 years. I think of you almost every day. Missing your hellooo.  Missing your corny songs. Missing being your sunshine and being cared for in the special way you did. Missing your hard hands and beautiful soul. I imagine that you sometimes visit. Thank you for the gifts you gave me and the things you taught me. Xoxo always 

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    2. rubyredd

      rubyredd

      I did not know of him, but my hugs to you.

    3. Wifey

      Wifey

      @Powpaulieit means so much to know that some remember him. He enjoyed charting with you, too. @shygurlhe was wonderful to chat with. He was genuinely interested in hearing what was going on and how you were. @Ill Tempered Brathow could he not enjoy you, especially with such a great screen name. He had a great head on his shoulders and I’m glad he helped you. Sometimes I ask myself what he would think about something I was going to do. Although I still drop the f bomb a lot more than he would like, lol. 
      @AfterGeometryyou are someone whose opinion means something. Thanks for your kind words. If you look through his comments on posts etc you will get a pretty good idea of the kind of person he was. 
      Thank you all for remembering him and taking the time to post. 

    4. Wifey

      Wifey

      @rubyreddsorry to leave you out. Thank you!

  3. I’ve used Skype, same concept. It all depends on you and your Spanker. For me, he directed it. Told me where, who hard, how fast, how long. We agreed that the only way I would stop is in asking for a short rest or safe word. Sometimes it was with me faxing the laptop other times my bottom was. Hope that helps.
  4. There are many Ers who think counting takes away form what the ee should be feeling.
  5. I hate it. Someone starts chatting. Maybe sends messages. Pm. And then poof. They disappear. While it’s better to find out they Are jerks before things go too far, it is still frustrating and a little hurtful.
  6. I try not to read into messages and take them at face value. I’ve talked to too many people who truly don’t understand the basics. Honestly any Er who even asked that of me wouldn’t be my Er for long.
  7. This sounds more like a fantasy than reality. For the most part, spankers don’t inform an ee of something like that unless it has been agreed upon.
  8. A few things. No aftercare? Perhaps if he spend a little time with you after it would have gone differently. Here is the thing. Safe. Sane. Consensual. Nothing should happen that you don’t agree to or with. The bath brush turned out to be too much for me. So we discussed it. You are not a slave or a child. Take responsibility and communicate.
  9. The “purported owner?” If you have any doubt that someone is masquarading as the owner, please report it.
  10. Like @Ill Tempered Brat I met my mentor/Daddy/er here and he also died. He became my best friend and I still miss him. I have made a few good friends here as well. as @HerrBlacktoothsaid, there is a lot of risk and precautions should be taken although I never thought of using a VPN
  11. I’d say consent shouldn’t ever be implied it should be explicit.
  12. I’m sorry this happened. I don’t understand why you would be putting people at risk. It’s a good reminder to be carefully who we share information with. I hope you reported this to the admins.
  13. As we approach midnight, I’m up way too late to be the first to wish Hardhanded a happy birthday with the angels. Miss you and think of you often. You were taken too soon xoxoxo

    1. Spankwhisperer

      Spankwhisperer

      Happy Birthday to your man in heaven..... I’m sure he feels your love from all the way up there. 

    2. sassylittle

      sassylittle

      Hugs, wifey. I'm sure he would be happy knowing that you are thinking of him😀

    3. Ill Tempered Brat

      Ill Tempered Brat

      Big ((Hugssss)) wifey I completely and utterly sympathize you right now. I believe he is smiling down on you and that you will see him again one day ❤️! Happy birthday HH! Oh how I do miss our chats and you! I hope your having one hell of a celebration up there 🍻cheers 

  14. Enjoying the new look. And I’m one who has not liked many past changes. Great job!
  15. Longtime no see, COL! No answer, just wanted to say hi
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