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redzonedefense_F last won the day on August 5 2019

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  1. It’s time to step away 

    (Apologies to Amethyst_Moon.  I was not intending to be redundant.)

    I wouldn’t feel right leaving without saying goodbye.  If you know me, you understand that life has been challenging.  But, that is likely not to change and not the reason I am stepping back.  I’ve lost something along the way and it’s disconcerting to feel as if I am no longer myself, not as I would like to be to be of use, anyway.

    Thank you to all of you who encouraged a welcoming community, shared your thoughts and experiences and lifted each other up.  Thank you to the friends I’ve known since my time on another site, wide-eyed and tentative.  Thank you to those that expressed appreciation for something I posted or thoughts I shared.  I hope it helped.  Thank you to those who took the time to speak not only about our shared interest but about life outside of it.  Thank you to those with whom I shared a special connection.  Whatever label we ascribed each other, thank you for your time and for your friendship.  If you broke my heart, thank you for the life lesson.

    Life is hard.  Please try to be there for each other.  Your act of kindness may be what makes the difference.

    One of my life goals was to leave this world a little better than you found it.  I tried, done what I know how to do, given what I have to give.  And it will either mean something or it won't ... but I tried.


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    2. goodboy_will


      I enjoyed our times together Red (Heather).  I wish you the best and I think that you have been and are a Great Lady.  Take care.

    3. Jaded


      Sorry to see you go.  Although we never chatted, I always enjoyed your forum responses and status updates the most. I’m sure we were going through different things, but your status updates always hit home for me.  They were just what I needed to see some days.  I respect your outlook on things.  I know you will be missed here.  Wishing you all the best for the future.  

    4. Detroit Pete

      Detroit Pete

      Long may you run Red.

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