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  1. Welcome to the site. I hope that you find what you are looking for and I hope that you have fun on this site.
  2. Dayton is a hotspot for spankos
  3. Hello SpankingNeeds. I am looking for a spanker to help me with some motivation and to hold me accountable in my life. I have some goals that I want to achieve and some really bad habits that I need to kick so I can make sure that I don't not reach those goals. I am willing to drive to Chicago and Ohio if I get to know the person really well. I am not looking for a sexual spanking or anything of the sorts. Limits: Being restrained, Yelling, and use of a belt. If you are interested then please either PM me or send a response here.
  4. Hello all, I am going to college here soon and I need an implement that I can use to self spank with that is relatively quiet. No canes. Any ideas would be welcome. Thanks.
  5. Hello Ladies and Gentleman. I have a friend who is a spanko and who is looking for a female spanker to be her mentor around the state of Maryland. My friend is on the site but she will remain nameless for right now. My friend is going to Maryland and is looking for a strict but caring female spanker to take her under their wing and help her become the best version of herself that she can be. She is funny and smart as a whip and she is very serious about this it's just that she is shy and is new to the scene. So if you are in Maryland or close then please reply and I will give her your contact info. Thank you all and have a nice day Brandon
  6. As someone who has struggled with self harm for about 3 years I can honestly say that the reason that I self harmed was either to feel punished or to some type of release. I didn't really think about using spanking as a form of getting that release that I was looking for because I just didn't know that a spanking can be very cathartic and cleansing at the time. I wish I knew that a spanking could have given me that release that I craved but that is neither here nor there. I know that when I have talked to some counselors they have said that the spanking was self harm by proxy and I guess I can see that argument but from my point of view it isn't because you are doing it in a healthy way and with someone else to help you through it. I could see if you were spanking yourself until you were bleeding and bruised but if you are doing a self spanking then most likely you would have a person conducting the session who would be in charge so that wouldn't happen. Let me know if that made any sense. Good topic Poison. I have wanted to ask the same question for awhile now but I was just too scared. Thank you.
  7. Welcome to the site. It's good to see someone else from Indiana on the site. Mind if I pm you?
  8. NewBrandon: truly, I can understand your situation, as I have found myself doing just what you describe.

    On the other paddle: I do NOT know what you are going through, as you are you and I am me.

    However, I do know that what you seek can and does help; many times in the last year of my current 61 years of life, I have sought and wanted someone to "discipline" me for a number of reasons.

    A website you may want to check out is Man's Hand Films; every July they sponsor a spanking camp that I have attended each and every year--I am the only one next to our fearless leader Gil Connerly who has. Worth a check see, and maybe we can meet at camp this year; you will get what you want.

    Blessings on your search; if I may emphasize: YOU ARE NOT alone; blessings.

    George Lust 

  9. So the last two months have been pretty bad for me but I am trying to figure out what I need and Its like I know what I want in my head but its almost as if I am scared to come to terms with what I need/want. I am thankful for the friends that I have met since I have joined this site. I can't tell you how much of an asshat I have been at times when I am going back to my old habits. I have a bad habit of wanting change but as soon as I feel control slipping out of my hands I tend to do just about anything to get some sort of control back, and recently that has meant me trying to push people who are good for me away, and for that I am truly sorry. I am trying to break that and I am making progress but I am far from where I want to be. Thank you for all the people that are like a boulder when I try to push them away, the people who I am trying to thank know who they are and I can't thank you enough for putting up with me.
  10. I just saw Sinclair College in your message below.  I live in dayton and have 'helped' a couple of college students with proper motivation--OH and IN.  If yoiu woiuld like to meet and talk I am available.  I am a healthy 69 and have had two sons graduate UD already--got grand kids now.    : )  I am an experienced switch.  

  11. I am talking to a couple of people but nothing is set in stone yet. I will be attending Sinclair Community College in Dayton Ohio. If you want to talk email me, Flamingtiger10@gmail.com
  12. Welcome to the site. I hope you find what you are looking for,
  13. Ditto what redhunterae said. This site has some really good people but just like any site we have our members who are in it for something totally different. Just be safe and take your time. I cant stress that enough, Listen to your gut and I hope you find what you are looking for -Best Wishes Brandon
  14. Happy New Year everyone. I hope that it is filled with new and better surprises. Lets make this year our year.

    1. JoKitten


      Sure and have a happy new year too.

  15. To find someone who I can work with to push myself to become the best me that I can be. Hoping for all A's in College. Wish me luck
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