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  1. Hello all, I am going to college here soon and I need an implement that I can use to self spank with that is relatively quiet. No canes. Any ideas would be welcome. Thanks.
  2. Hello Ladies and Gentleman. I have a friend who is a spanko and who is looking for a female spanker to be her mentor around the state of Maryland. My friend is on the site but she will remain nameless for right now. My friend is going to Maryland and is looking for a strict but caring female spanker to take her under their wing and help her become the best version of herself that she can be. She is funny and smart as a whip and she is very serious about this it's just that she is shy and is new to the scene. So if you are in Maryland or close then please reply and I will give her your contact info. Thank you all and have a nice day Brandon
  3. NewBrandon

    Spanking/Self Harm

    As someone who has struggled with self harm for about 3 years I can honestly say that the reason that I self harmed was either to feel punished or to some type of release. I didn't really think about using spanking as a form of getting that release that I was looking for because I just didn't know that a spanking can be very cathartic and cleansing at the time. I wish I knew that a spanking could have given me that release that I craved but that is neither here nor there. I know that when I have talked to some counselors they have said that the spanking was self harm by proxy and I guess I can see that argument but from my point of view it isn't because you are doing it in a healthy way and with someone else to help you through it. I could see if you were spanking yourself until you were bleeding and bruised but if you are doing a self spanking then most likely you would have a person conducting the session who would be in charge so that wouldn't happen. Let me know if that made any sense. Good topic Poison. I have wanted to ask the same question for awhile now but I was just too scared. Thank you.
  4. NewBrandon

    Indiana: Spanking, Discipline, and Mentoring For Men and Women

    Welcome to the site. It's good to see someone else from Indiana on the site. Mind if I pm you?
  5. NewBrandon

    Thank you

    So the last two months have been pretty bad for me but I am trying to figure out what I need and Its like I know what I want in my head but its almost as if I am scared to come to terms with what I need/want. I am thankful for the friends that I have met since I have joined this site. I can't tell you how much of an asshat I have been at times when I am going back to my old habits. I have a bad habit of wanting change but as soon as I feel control slipping out of my hands I tend to do just about anything to get some sort of control back, and recently that has meant me trying to push people who are good for me away, and for that I am truly sorry. I am trying to break that and I am making progress but I am far from where I want to be. Thank you for all the people that are like a boulder when I try to push them away, the people who I am trying to thank know who they are and I can't thank you enough for putting up with me.
  6. NewBrandon

    Spanko Resolutions for 2017

    I am talking to a couple of people but nothing is set in stone yet. I will be attending Sinclair Community College in Dayton Ohio. If you want to talk email me, Flamingtiger10@gmail.com
  7. NewBrandon

    Hello from TN

    Welcome to the site. I hope you find what you are looking for,
  8. NewBrandon

    Spanking mentor

    Ditto what redhunterae said. This site has some really good people but just like any site we have our members who are in it for something totally different. Just be safe and take your time. I cant stress that enough, Listen to your gut and I hope you find what you are looking for -Best Wishes Brandon
  9. NewBrandon

    Spanko Resolutions for 2017

    To find someone who I can work with to push myself to become the best me that I can be. Hoping for all A's in College. Wish me luck
  10. Wow that is amazing. Christian I can relate to you somewhat and I must say that it seems that you found where you were meant to be. I'm happy for you man. You deserve it
  11. NewBrandon

    Midwest Mentor

    My school is in Dayton. And to be honest I couldn't care less about the sex of the disciplinarian.
  12. NewBrandon

    Midwest Mentor

    I thought I should mention that I will try to get to know anyone who replies.
  13. NewBrandon

    Midwest Mentor

    Good evening everyone. I am looking for a mentor in either Indiana or Ohio.I am from Indiana but my school is in Ohio.One of the reason I am trying to find a mentor is because I am in school and I can not afford to slip and mess up. Another reason I am trying to find a mentor is because overall I'm a well behaved guy most of the times I do things that aren't very safe and are dangerous. I really do not care the sex of the mentor, in my limited experience they both do the same. If you are interested please either message me or reply here. Have a nice night. Edit: Thought I put my reason for trying to find a mentor in the original post but I guess I didn't.
  14. I am on the same boat as pixel. I have always wanted to try it bUT I tend to not do things that I know for sure are 100%
  15. NewBrandon

    Thank you

    Just before I start this is going to be a bit cryptic I am trying to not say anyone's name but you know who you are. Thank you for being my friend the past year and I think it's been about 18 months total but I suck with time so maybe a bit more or less. I know I screwed up and you have made up your mind but this isn't going to be me trying to change your mind. I know that I can't and only you can. I wanted to say thank you for being there for me when I needed you and I wanted to say it to your face but since I can't this will have to work for now. You were and in my mind still are one of my best friends I have ever had and I know you said you want nothing to do with me but that isn't the type of person I am. I will still be there for you if you call at 2:18am on a Sunday I will always be there if you need me. You are one hell of a strong person you have had a lot of shit happen to you that nobody should have to go through but it happened and we don't have the tech to build a time machine because if we did I would be the first test subjects going through it. But anyway you said that you and me were like family and if that is true then I'm glad I made your life a little bit brighter if it wasn't then I am sorry that I was such a horrible person. I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need me or just want to catch up I will be there ready to help you at all times