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FirmSpankerMD last won the day on December 21 2015

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  1. I need a firm hand.

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    2. needafirmhand


      I need help in changing a bad habit - eating too much!  I need to lose about 30 pounds and I am hoping you can motivate me with a spanking (probably more than one).

    3. crash20636


      Where do you live in VA?  General area, or you can message me


    4. needafirmhand


      I live in Burke, VA

  2. I am a firm believer that safe-words should be set before any relationship. Even if a punishment is earned (While technically, not allowed) if used, punishment stops to discuss. I ultimately have the final decision as to if it would continue. I have been very blessed to not have to deal with the issues others have had to, where a sub basically uses a safe-word as a way to top from below and guide a punishment.
  3. My doesn't have origins in my youth.. LOL I came across this because I needed some $. It turned out that I loved it. I explored all aspects, and found by becoming a mentor I could make some very good positive changes.
  4. I have broken several brushes off of Amazon. My favorites are a wav enforcer hairbrush from Walmart and the cactus bath brush from The Body Shoppe.
  5. I think there are regional posts for this type of posts..
  6. I was walking with a GF in a antique store. We went to the basement and I found a display of wooden spoons. I of course tried out the one on her ass before we decided to get it. When we went upstairs to the register, the clerk said, Did you find one that works? As she grinned we saw the display banks of camera monitors. I responded, sure did and there was a giggle..
  7. Ooh.. I for got about one. A pair of plain white panties that have “bad girl” written with sharpie on the back, that are worn the day prior, to work, school etc.. If she does bend over etc.. Possibility they get seen
  8. I went through this earlier this year. Very complicated situation. As friends we went on a hike. I explained that I enjoyed control and spankings. A few weeks later she told me the hamster was running and she wanted to know more..
  9. Can start over panties, but will end up bare.
  10. I honestly could add a ton to this. But, I will say this.. All of them have been done with consent.. I never did anything that the ee did not agree with.. 1-Taking by the hand, grab around the wrist as leading to the punishment. If seen, someone may think its holding hands, but she knows differently. 2- Diaper position is definitely more exposing then anything, but also allows to get to the sensitive sit spots much easier. 3- Pillow? No, that adds comfort, I bought one young lady a cutting board to be used if she sat down and there was a cushion. That drove that spanking in good
  11. Some need bruises.. Some need tears.. For me, its a gut feeling when I am giving it, that I know the point was made. I cannot really explain that "feeling", but it is very accurate.
  12. Been a LONG time.. Just wanted to say Hi

  13. I had a young lady that I worked with for quite a few years. I always called her my brat. My brat was in a local community college that was near my work. I would pick her up sometimes when she had a long break between classes. We would study together and when she has a test/quiz coming up, she would make up study cards and then we would hold OTK reviews. She hated OTK reviews, as if I asked a question and she didn't know the answer, it would lead to spankings. I would say it really help her in the learning process!
  14. Personally, I have seen someone experience both subspace and then the quick drop. As someone has already stated, aftercare is a MUST! It may not need to be a long period of time, but always be there for the possibility of the drop.
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