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That reminds me of an old joke that has shown up here several times..... While dining at a fast food restaurant....I saw an attractive individual spank his / her child for childishly throwing french fries on the floor. The spanking was: in public, severe, and occurred immediately. So....when the attractive individual glanced my way.... I quickly threw my fries on the floor too.

Yep.... different spankees seem to respond differently. And, it seems almost impossible to predict the responses. The crop is an interesting implement. Its most unique characteristic is - it is easy to control and extremely accurate. A “crop swat” is almost always perfectly “on target”. It is perfect for the “sit spots” or “lower cheeks” area. However, the crop seems to scare some spankees. Some might even prefer a more painful implement like a rod, cane, or paddle. It is definitely difficult to predict a spankee’s reaction to implements.

Like many others here, I feel that “corner time” can be effective. Corner time allows a spankee to “gather thoughts” and consider the reason(s) for the spanking session in the first place. Also, corner time gives a spankee some time to: make better plans, consider good alternative actions, and learn to make more appropriate choices. Yep.... it’s embarrassing. But, it seems helpful. Corner time can also be used as a good transition option during the various steps within a spanking session.

While I never feel that a “script should be followed” during a session, having some consistency in your spanking routine is definitely acceptable. Like most of you, I am a fan of “after care”. Corner time is often a good option. Finishing a spanking session with a nice hug or embrace strengthens the conceptions that the spanking was not delivered with anger or harmful intentions. Having a “after spanking discussion” is always helpful.

While I never feel that a “script should be followed” during a session, having some consistency in your spanking routine is definitely acceptable. Like most of you, I am a fan of “after care”. Corner time is often a good option. Finishing a spanking session with a nice hug or embrace strengthens the conceptions that the spanking was not delivered with anger or harmful intentions. Having a “after spanking discussion” is always helpful.

I also believe that “gift of submission” can be a honored concept. It obviously involves respect. In return, spankers should recognize the “gift” and should strive to reciprocate a comparable gift to the “submitting” individual. The sacrifice and submission being offered should be: recognized, honored, and reciprocated. In other words- know what your spankee seeks!

If you are considering taking it bare... I hope that you can be assured that you will experience greater pleasure or beneficial feelings. In other words, by taking a “bare spanking” you may simply show that you completely trust your spanker. That would likely benefit the relationship you and your spanker share. By taking it “bare”, you (the spankee) may just enjoy the additional submissive feelings created. Anyway- IMHO... if you want...strip and enjoy whatever brings you: fulfillment, good feelings, and benefits. But remember- you are always in control of yourself.

Omg 😳 15+ years without PU$$Y 🥺😬😦.... forget “triggering extra punishment”..... that would be considered cruelty (in my way of thinking)!!! Bhaha 🤣 Oh... maybe you meant something different... never mind

Oh wow 😳.... I bet that earns extra punishment every time. A definite trigger!!!

I specifically like “...failing to honor yourself -or others”. Yep... it’s vague. But, it is a limit that everyone understands when crossed.

Lol....... exactly!!!!

Disrespectful = (some examples) - not paying attention, not listening adequately, constantly interrupting others, being consistent tardy, not honoring yourself and others, being associated with gossip or drama, using unneeded profanity....oh - and “rolling one’s eyes”. LOL

You’re correct: eye-rolling, being disrespectful, not following simple instructions, doing something potentially dangerous, not being considerate of others...

I’d like to believe that most -ers prepare and administer sessions that focus on the needs of the -ees. Yep, it likely takes some effort. But, administrating a beneficial spanking session can also be extremely satisfying.

The fact that a spankee is so cognitively, mentally and emotionally involved and simulated by the spanking session originally described is a “good thing”.