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About akadad

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  • Birthday 09/25/1941

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  1. THE CHOICE IS YOURS TO MAKE: Have you ever noticed how people who live to please their fleshly nature, always make the wrong decisions in life, and keep repeating the same mistakes over and over again? Have you ever noticed how many of these type of individuals spend time in jail or in mental health facilities, over and over again? While the fear of jail can motivate some to do better, in time the fleshly nature can over rule this factor and take charge of the individual again. Others may be placed on a regiment of drugs that alter or subdue their carnal self, without truly addressing the spirit of rebellion that is waiting for the right time and circumstances to resurface and ignite the old desires and addictions of the individuals past. While there is no “pat” answer or remedy for people enslaved by self, there are things they can do to overcome their addiction to self-pleasure. Most people who are truly loved, and submit to discipline based accountability, have “beat the systems” and are able to resist the things that easily beset them. When they agree to be firmly disciplined by a trustworthy mentor for their offenses, their fleshly nature will begin to “change it ways” out of fear of the pain wrong doing brings upon it. If spanking based penalties work well for you, why spend time in jail or a mental health program instead? infobyrequest@yahoo.com
  2. Some Considerations Regarding Cyber-Based Self Spanking: While submitting to discipline from an online mentor helps overcome restrictions like distance between spanker and spankee, it also offers many other safety factors many feel comfortable with. As with almost everything else in life, there are limitations and other negatives associated with the practice too. I am not here to tell everyone how to work out their personal discipline plans, but I want to share some of my thoughts as to how safe, workable, and practical arrangement can become a beneficial plan of action. I have found the most effective plans include a provision whereby the session should be carried out over the telephone, or by using a device with two-way voice connections abilities. (personally, I don't believe video sessions are necessary) I usually start off with a new spankee by having them spank themselves in a rather easy manner, then moderate, and finally applying rather hard licks. (to start about 10 licks per set, at a steady pace as I direct) This type of discipline will NOT WORK, if I cannot actually hear the impact of the implement upon the bare buttocks. Remember, I hear what is going on but I cannot SEE what is going on. Besides hearing the impact intensity, I can also hear the degree of stress from the pain of being spanked. Believe me, a proper spanking will be EASY to monitor as it progresses. The lick limit will be determined by the offense, the attitude of the offender, etc. I have decided to only use Skype calls for discipline sessions, almost anyone has Skype on their computer. (or can download a FREE version at will) I don't use my desktop for Skype, because it is ion my home office where privacy is frequently limited. I have a cordless Skype phone however, which insures no one will be aware of who and what I am talking about. The best part is we can talk using our Skype ID's and keep our phone numbers private if desired. While Skype will do video chats too, you have the option to not use it. My Skype phone has no provision for video, insuring your privacy. To get started you can email me at infobyrequest@yahoo.com I will need to know your age, male or female. I recommend you obtain a heavy wooden hairbrush, so you will be ready when it's “spanking time.” PS If you don't have the time and privacy necessary to become part of a cyber-discipline plan, please don't start what you won't be able to complete.
  3. I am about 40 miles from Birmingham and provide real discipline in a fatherly manner... infobyrequest@yahoo.com
  4. Pictures, details, perfect environment for a select few... http://gospelministry.9k.com/homefam.htm
  5. HELP IN ALABAMA FOR YOU? Many adults who have attended collage, including those who have graduated, find it too expensive to live on their own because they simply can't find jobs that will pay enough for their essential needs in life. Their old bedroom in their parents home becomes more attractive as their bills mount, and their resources decline with each passing day. Other adults who are basically uneducated usually have a hard time coping in today's world, as they are not trained to do things that will produce a livable income either. The simple truth is, many adults don't have the skills necessary to do well enough to provide for their essential needs in life. Both educated and uneducated adults may be living “out of control” lifestyles, no matter how much money they make. Those who need structure and discipline, need to find such help before they get into trouble beyond the point of return. From a parental viewpoint, most parents believe the old school saying, “you will be expected to abide by our rules as long as you live in our house” no matter your age. If you are considering moving back home, save yourself and your family a lot of trouble by accepting this common sense policy, or forget relocating back home. Of course some no longer have living parents, or they have parents who are too abusive to live with again. If this is the case, you may have to find a suitable place to live that is within your budget limitations, or seek help from a friend or relative who may agree to take you into their home. My wife and I may be of help to you in this regard, email us if you want to discuss this matter in greater detail. infobyrequest@yahoo.com
  6. ADULTS RETURNING TO FAMILY HOME BECAUSE OF ECONOMIC & OTHER PERSONAL REASONS Many adults who have attended collage, including those who have graduated, find it too expensive to live on their own because they simply can't find jobs that will pay enough for their essential needs in life. Their old bedroom in their parents home becomes more attractive as their bills mount, and their resources decline with each passing day. Other adults who are basically uneducated usually have a hard time coping in today's world, as they are not trained to do things that will produce a livable income either. The simple truth is, many adults don't have the skills necessary to do well enough to provide for their essential needs in life. Both educated and uneducated adults may be living “out of control” lifestyles, no matter how much money they make. Those who need structure and discipline, need to find such help before they get into trouble beyond the point of return. From a parental viewpoint, most parents believe the old school saying, “you will be expected to abide by our rules as long as you live in our house” no matter your age. If you are considering moving back home, save yourself and your family a lot of trouble by accepting this common sense policy, or forget relocating back home. Of course some no longer have living parents, or they have parents who are too abusive to live with again. If this is the case, you may have to find a suitable place to live that is within your budget limitations, or seek help from a friend or relative who may agree to take you into their home. My wife and I may be of help to you in this regard, email us if you want to discuss this matter in greater detail. infobyrequest@yahoo.com
  7. Happy New Year everyone, live for God as His Son died for you!
  8. Merry Christmas to all, please remember the best gift available is Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. (any day of the year) Receive His gift of salvation, and pray for those who fail to accept it. Eternity is your destiny, make sure you spend it with Jesus and His family and not with the family of the god of this world...
  9. http://akadad.spankingneeds.com/yourdad.htm It's a two way gift, because I gain a new son or daughter. No matter how close or far away you may be, you are most welcome into our family by an Adoption of the Heart... dad
  10. Got plenty pages here, as usual thanks for your help and interest... http://akadad.spankingneeds.com/
  11. EMAIL ME PRIVATELY infobyrequest@yahoo.com
  12. The real deal for those seeking a "second chance" in life... http://akadad.spankingneeds.com/
  13. If anyone here is looking for discipline, feel free to contact me at: infobyrequest@yahoo.com I do my best to fit my discipline to fit an individuals needs, let me know what you are seeking so I can determine if I have the approach that will work best for you...
  14. Many fail to understand erotic type spankings have no therapeutic value, and simply add guilt to those already seeking forgiveness for wrongdoing. Others use spanking as a way to enter into sexual play, using spanking as a means to justify their desire for sexual intimacy. Even those who seek spanking for valid reasons, are often taken advantage of by those they assume to be safe and trustworthy. While I don't have any actual figures to cite, I have received enough input over the years that indicates around 90% of those offering to mentor people will redirect spanking sessions to sexual play when it is far too late for the spankee to get out of the situation they are in. If you want to give or receive sexual activity, be honest and say so up front. Be thankful for dedicated mentors who really want to help people, but avoid others no matter if you have to wait years to receive the discipline you need and seek in life... PS Enjoy the holidays, and te best to all of you...
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