JoKitten

All I can say is I needed a negative consequence in the background even if you did praise or reward good behaviour although everyone's different.

Welcome Borehamwood Man from the jolly cold Midlands.

Normally if I'm away it's usually littles get togethers and discrete spanking can and does happen with the person looking after me by consent putting me over a spare chair as needed.

Welcome back from the frozen Midlands, Oldhand.

Happy Christmas everybody and hope things are okay for you all. Regards Jo.

Wildflowers & All the rest by Tom Petty, 2020 3 lp version. Originally issued in 1994, this just has some great playing and on the record very natural wide ranging sound joined by ten tracks Warner Bros didn't want on the album for cost issues but restored to this edition.

I was on my Windows laptop using Pale Moon, thanks. It looks like it does to you when I used the Chromebook that uses Chrome exclusively.

Speaking personally, for me that is better so I can see and read replies although the quotes remain full white background, thank you.

Thanks Drooaygah and Spanknutt for joining the Moderation team

First off you getting better is MY priority C.O.L. I did try the Blue theme but I had a number of problems with it. The first was the expanse of brilliant white drove my eyes crazy to the point I could not focus on it. It's not uncommon with those of us like me with severe dyslexia, it's usually better filled with light to mid tone such as light brown or my favourite vanilla as that stops the dazzling effects. The second is the contrast of the black text on that theme is too low for me to read clearly - I can't seem to lock on to the text - which preversly is easier on the whit

Not getting into the politics (we don't need that on here) but a part of you are saying rings true for those of us over here with the Brexit Referendum and last years General Election where those tensions and attended divisions within families and friends still remain like a itchy scab.

It's a bit dark in here,what😁 I'm sure it will be fixed so if you're like me and not great with white on black for readability it's best not to get in funk over it. I mean that's a great way to end up over a chair...

I don't hold personally in using spanking in preference to seeking appropriate professional advice in the instance of clinical depression but would agree that can help with procrastination issues that may be impacted by a more general 'feeling low' or overloaded at a sensory level I fail to take a necessary action.

Unless the spankee is hug averse (and a few folk are) then I do think there's a lot to be said for hugs afterwards not least for those of us who come at this thing from a neo-parental "loving discipline" angle as its an opportunity to affirm you love and care for them and for us to express our regrets for letting ourselves down.