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    Ontario Canada-Golden Triangle area
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    Spankee

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  1. I believe OTK is the most submissive. Lying across the spanker's lap is giving yourself or surrendering yourself in a non sexually intimate way to the spanker and the spanking to be received. It makes the spankee feel powerfully vulnerable.
  2. Hello and welcome from yet another Canadian. I also want mine on the bare with a strap.
  3. I was spanked as a child on the bare behind over a parents' knee. Both parents spanked, although dad's were the worst. His would go on forever and if you were over his knee you knew you would be there for a long time, while Mum's were short and to the point. Both parents spanked with their hand. My spanking fetish began when I was in school and discovered the strap. In school the strap was applied to the palm of the hands, not the behind, but I began to fascinate about bare behind spankings with the strap and that fascination continues to this day.
  4. I have had an almost lifelong interest in spanking. My fascination with spanking came when I was in school and discovered the strap. In school the strap was applied to the palm of the hands, not the behind, and I was the recipient of that once…one whack on one hand. None the less, I began to fascinate about bare behind spankings with the strap and that continues to this day.
  5. I self spank out of necessity and it is not particularly satisfying. I can't spank hard enough to hurt with any intensity, although I can cause bruising on occasion which I have to hide. The very odd time I can get the pain level up, I can't force myself to continue to take myself beyond the point of pain tolerance. Finding someone who would be my spanker is not easy for me. Beyond the fact that my personal situation makes entering a spanking partnership extremely difficult, I am very nervous about entering into a spanking partnership. I'm not sure I can find a compatible person that I could trust beyond infinity with whom I could form a discreet spanking partnership.
  6. I am much the same as Pavium. Every 4 to 6 weeks or so I become completely overwhelmed with the need to be spanked. Apart from the fact that I have had an almost lifelong fascination with spanking, I have no idea where this need suddenly comes from. It is not because of something I have done. And it’s not because I have done something different or have not done for some time. And it’s not because I like or look forward to being spanked. It just happens right out of the blue and has to be resolved. The resolution is to be spanked. It is never immediate, but it comes. I do not look forward to it. I do not like to be spanked. I do not want to be spanked. It really hurts and I don’t like to be hurt. But it has to happen and, when the time does come and I am undressed and getting into position, the bottom falls out of my stomach. After it’s over – not immediately after, but later, I feel better and back to normal, until the next time.
  7. The strap. I have had an longtime fascination with being strapped on the bare behind which began when I was in grade school and became aware of the strap which was used by some teaches and the principal for serious discipline issues. At school the strap was applied to the palm of the hands but my imagination went into overdrive and my fascination blossomed. Nothing fancy - a standard one piece strap such as was used in the school system, size adjusted, of course, to accommodate the fact that I am an adult and my butt is bigger than it was back then.
  8. It is okay now. The site is up and I was able to log in, but I didn't just join so I don't know anything about the issue of not being able to register. Maybe you should try again.
  9. Absolutely no one other than the spanker.
  10. This may be all in my head, but to me being partially dressed gives the sense of providing protection and takes away from the spanking, while being completely naked there is nothing between me and the spanker and whatever implement the spanker is going to use (in my case a strap) which makes me feel much more vulnerable which in turn heightens the anxiety which increases the overall effectiveness of the spanking.
  11. Every 6 to 12 weeks I become overwhelmed with the need to be spanked. It seems to come suddenly out of no where and lasts for up to a week regardless of whether or not the spanking has taken place.
  12. There is no particular reason that I should receive a spanking. I am certainly no angel and there are probably many things I have done for which I should be spanked but I am not looking to have some serious misdeeds dealt with by being punished. However, I have had an almost lifelong interest in spanking and, in particular, spanking with a strap. My fascination with spanking came when I was in school and discovered the strap. In school the strap was applied to the palm of the hands, not the behind, and I was the recipient of that once…one whack on one hand. None the less, I began to fascinate about bare behind spankings with the strap and that continues to this day. Absolutely no one is aware of my fascination. I have shared it anonymously on a couple of online spanking forums, including this one, but, apart from that, it has been my secret. I have tried self spanking over the years, when possible, using various strap like implements that I have made from suitable available material, but it has never been satisfactory. To achieve the proper results requires someone else to be the spanker. For some reason I envision my spanker to be an older woman with a very strong arm, based on an Ottawa area spanker known as Auntie, Jane but I expect, with the proper due diligence, it could be either male or female.
  13. I am glad to find that here is someone besides me that is into spanking for spanking itself.

     I have had an almost lifelong interest in spanking. My fascination with spanking came when I was in school and discovered the strap. In school the strap was applied to the palm of the hands, not the behind, and I was the recipient of that once…one whack on one hand. None the less, I began to fascinate about bare behind spankings with the strap and that continues to this day. Absolutely no one is aware of my fascination. I have shared this with no one, ever. I am married and have been for many years but I cannot discuss this with her as she would never understand and I’m afraid it would cause issues between us that I do not want. And I would be devastatingly embarrassed if anyone I knew ever became aware of my fascination. 

    There is no particular reason that I should receive a spanking. I am certainly no angel and there are probably many things I have done for which I should be spanked but I am not looking to have some serious misdeeds dealt with by being punished. I am also not into being brutalized, beaten, tortured, dominated, belittled, bullied, injured. I just wish to experience a real punishment spanking administered with a strap to my bare behind.

    I have tried self spanking over the years, when possible, using various strap like implements that I have made from suitable available material, but it has never been satisfactory. To achieve the proper results requires someone else to be the spanker, but to discreetly find someone that I do not know and that I could come to trust to engage in a platonic spanking partnership is next to impossible.
     

    1. Amethyst_Moon

      Amethyst_Moon

      I understand, it can be hard to find others who are into spanking without the discipline or domination aspects. 

      I wouldn't say proper results require a spanker...I am able to give myself perfectly satisfactory spankings that have the results I desire. But self-spanking doesn't work for everybody, I get that. A spanker would be great, but I'm fortunate that I can give myself just as intense of a spanking.

      I agree, a platonic spanking partner to engage in spankings out of pure mutual enjoyment is very difficult, unfortunately. Hopefully, we both eventually find that.

  14. Too many "spanking" websites are much more than spanking. I am not interested in what, to me, amounts to hardcore porn. Nor am I into torture. I would like spanking websites strictly devoted to spanking.
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