gingerlee

Going back to the secondary discussion on this thread (of photos in the feed), is there a way to at least get additions to a particular gallery to post only the most recent pic (like the forum threads)? Once clicked on, they could see all photos. It's just ridiculous to try and look at my news feed and have to scroll past pages and pages of pics just to access my unread forum content. (Also, I realize I can set up an activity stream. I've actually done that, but I tend to forget until I'm multiple pages into it.)

AG is banned for thinking his version of the rules is the official version when we all know that @Poison's is the queen, so her (original) version stands. (and she needs to come back because we miss her)

The most important thing is to get to know your spanker well enough to truly and fully trust them. I have had panic attacks while being spanked. For me, it came from not trusting the situation. In that situation, you may not be able to say your safeword, I didn't even think of it, but my distress was very clear. Thankfully, in my situation, the EE stopped, but not everyone does. You would do well to discuss this ahead of time. Ask how they would respond if you started having a panic attack, if you suddenly stopped reacting to things, or however your PTSD manifests. Formulate a plan together. But never get spanked until you are confident that you can trust them when you are at your most vulnerable.

You do know that you don't have to know them individually. You could just search for names. Of course, you could pay attention to people that post on the boards that you supposedly read. Then, you'd recognize this one.

Your horizons are sadly small. I can think of several off the top of my head. We'll go with @Handily

Honestly, you made that WAY too easy

IKR?!?

Happy late birthday, AG. I mean, after all, when was I ever on time for anything anyway?

Banter is literally in the name of the forum SMH

I don't mind it being in the gallery, I just don't like having it on my activity feed. As far as avatars go, it doesn't bother me but I do turn them off in chat. I don't have anything against such pics, I just like to choose when I see them.

And why I miss you so much when you disappear. (Please note I passed up the perfect opportunity to use it to begin this comment )

I know, right?!? She's just the best!

I understand that but a picture may be seen from further away. Tiny text is not so likely to be viewed clearly enough to be read. Also, reading the text requires commitment to reading it whereas just seeing a large pic is possible whether or not someone is trying to see it. Beyond that, it would be nice to have a setting to hide the posts just because sometimes I'm not in the mood for all of that.

I know, right?!? It's super annoying. :P