SpankerGeek

Please don't use spanking as a substitute for actual treatment for ADHD. That is not a smart idea.

This sounds like an interesting project to work on.

Welcome, I love your videos, I am really gad you have joined the site. It's an amazing site that is spanko paradise.

As a mentor it doesn't matter. In a relationship it matters a lot, I definitely want a cute bottom to spank.

This is possibly the biggest violation of trust she can commit. No discipline is appropriate for this. Run away. Fast, and don't look back.

I swear I have answered this question before, but I guess not on this specific post. I take the pants and panties down. This has been the case in 99% of the spankings I have given. The only times I didn't have been for trigger related reasons.

When I was very new to the lifestyle maybe 19 or so, I was spanking a friend from college at a motel and in the early stages of the spanking when she was just getting vocal we had a knock on our hotel door that sent us scrambling, her to cover up and me to answer the door. It was the lady from the front desk who stated that although she was sure that the spanking was well deserved, we should try covering up the noise with the TV. She even suggested the Spanish tv channel because that has shows with a lot of yelling in them. For reference this motel room had a nice living room area with tables and chairs and a couch and then a back bedroom area. We were doing the spanking in the front living room area because the light from the window reflected nicely on her bare bottom (I was young as I said). We quickly realized that doing it in the bedroom area provided more sound cover. There is a follow up to this story, a few weeks later we went back to the same motel and the same lady was at the front desk. She smiled when she saw us and she assigned us the room at the far end, away from anyone else. It wasn't busy so there was nobody within 6 or 7 rooms of us.

Welcome, The answer is simple, if both consenting adults want the spanking to lead to other things (including sexy time) than it can/will. If one or both doesn't, then it shouldn't because consent is everything* *I am ignoring CNC relationships here because the consent is given as a result of the type of relationship both parties are in.

As a spanko for me, yes it's sexual. Spanking is my number one kink/fantasy. It is the most frequent "adult video" that I watch. That above being said I think it's important to point out that spanking doesn't have to lead to sex, and it can be done in a completely non-sexual manner to a female mentee and still be something that turns me on when I think about it. Spanking doesn't replace sex for me, but I find that spanking enhances sex. Anal for example is better when the bottom is red and sore. I truly define spanking as sexual and as a fetish for the simple fact that I have to have it in my life. I can't deny who I am or that I enjoy spanking women.