Hi,
this has been asked before, got a similar kind of response. I think Star asked the question in good faith, and, please note she writes
"Does your ER ask you to shave your bushy or not so bushy hair"....
Ask, not order. And, her question implies a relationship, she's not asking about a random stranger.
This has been asked before, and I remember the question getting much the same response.
Here:
Communication and caring and consent....