Bobbyt42
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Love such posts...reminds of mad magazine in the old days... with a tasty twist
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I'm not sure that the intent here is to say DDD wants his real dad to spank him, unless I'm reading his post all wrong. Sounds to me like that would have had its place in the world he wished he'd had.... rather that plus emotional connection seems to have been missing. I can relate on both scores. The longing to be spanked today (by a fellow spanko I'm sure) seeks to at least partially fill that hole. Touching post, at least for me.
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Generally thinking that this is what I deserve
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Ah for a simpler day...
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Switch mostly spankee here in central NJ
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Centipedes. Camel back crickets. Agree I prefer a nice living room with a straight backed chair right smack in the middle of the room.
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Scary powerful things...words
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Strange how such simple things with no intrinsic symbolism hit us a certain way...who would think THIS would seem to us like OBNOXIOUS SHOUTING. But it does. It's funny creatures we are.
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Curious if anyone remembers an old screen name covenvetion used on the old irc spanking channels wherein an ee begins their name with lower case and an er with upper case. Made it easy to identify perhaps the central characteristic of another in the room, except of course for us switches.
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Concur...otk with brush if most effective. Hard to say if it's preferred whilst going on, but before it's the most dreamed about and after the most memorable.
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Perfectly possible
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I'd almost forgotten what a delightful time one can have wandering through the caneiac site. Every implement conjures up an exquisite mental image...and the little write ups by various pros are pretty sweet too.
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Often the trouble in all this comes unbidden... in the wee hours when the glass of wine has had its effect and the pending day ahead crashes in to otherwise peaceful and oh so necessary rest time. It's useful at such moments to ask ones self...ok..it's two am on a Tuesday here in February 2018.....what exactly can I do about this right now... not generally or eventually...but right now..this moment. Then deliberately make the effort to Segway into a more peaceful thought pattern. ...even a joyful post spanking hug remembrance ... I find it helps in this oh so intrusively stressful world to acertively let go of the toxic stress and give yourself permission to just be. Just for that moment. Let peace wash over you just that brief moment. Much more able to do later what you must when you've taken the moment you need afore. Akin to the surrender in taking a well deserved spanking. It's about letting go. Pardons please for such carrying in.
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Also in nj happy to chat about meeting
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Watched Hitchcock's To Catch a Theif last night and was treated to two delightful spanking references; first where Cary Grant threatened Grace Kelly with a spanking, and second where she was again threatened with a spanking by her mother...this time WITH A HAIRBRUSH! Back in the day such references were common on TV and in movies, and always gave me a thrill...even when I was little. I remember seeing the wagon train spanking scene back when it was a first run on prime time tv...my heart right nearly jumped out of my chest. Identifying with being spanked as a boy such scenes were a particular and very rare delight. Anybody have any favorite recollections of such startles? Could be a fun topic to revisit....
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You love a thread like this and agree with every thought expressed
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Interesting thing the robo spanker, but nothing compared to the real thing I'm sure
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All but impossible to do, in part for the reason you mention, but also that tears are more an emotional response for an adult.
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And btw Bruce, I'm in NJ too. Give me a shout if you'd like to chat.
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Rey similar story for me. Zero accountability at home meant zero preparation for the real world, which frankly led to some pretty bad outcomes early on. I've often thought this vacuum of accountability in the form of some convincing otk time led to the hunger formspanking I feel these days, and even back then truth be told.
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Seems it would require a special relationship between er and ee, but oh how wonderful for those who find it.
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I agree in general with oklahomaspankee, give a chance for someone struggling to settle in. Compassion first and foremost differentiates a spanking relationship from something ...... other, shall we say? Caring comes first, followed by stern measures. Just my 2 cents.
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Nice to hear such an amazingly straight forward discussion of the subject, together with the participation of experts on the subject!
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I take the punishment spanking to depict ones hair standing on end in shock
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Emotional journey...
in General Spanking Discussion
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It's wonderful and exciting that you see this as an opportunity for self discovery and perhaps resolution of such emotional unresolvedness, if that's a word. Very good wishes for your journey.