spankme95

In my opinion and experience, it does not work in the long run. While support is extremely important when it comes to handling addiction, I don't think a spanking can prevent an addict from using.

First Name: Franzi Age: 22 Sex: Female Spanker/Spankee/Switch: Spankee Country you are from: Germany State/Providence: Bavaria

Everyone is different and this is a quite complex topic. I don't think self-harming and a need for spanking necessarily have to be interrelated. I also have a history of self-harming that started at age 11 and I consider it to be self-destructive whereas I don't consider spanking self-destructive at all. Obviously that only applies when the spanking is done in a both consensual and safe way. Personally, I think one major difference between the two is the fact that spanking generally involves another person (the spanker) who, ideally, is interested in my well-being which makes me feel safe and cared for.

Patrick Dempsey, Marilyn Manson, John Stamos

I got spanked in the Badlands National Park. Twice.