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Jimmysquest

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About Jimmysquest

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  • Age
    50
  • Location
    New Orleans, LA
  • Gender
    Male
  • Experience
    Novice
  • Role
    Spankee

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  1. Thanks to everyone for your insightful thoughts on my initial post! Being that I am a complete novice in terms of real word experience, I was a little hesitant to post my thoughts, but you have made me feel welcome and among friends. The common thread which I distill from most of your replies is that there is a certain learning curve to any new relationship, and during that "probationary period," the use of limits and safewords is an appropriate way to ensure the interests of both parties are protected. Nonetheless, I would respectfully adhere to my original position that once a suitable l
  2. "What has been will be again, what has been done will be done again; there is nothing new under the sun." Ecclesiastes 1:9

  3. After reviewing numerous profiles both here and elsewhere, it occurs to me that many disciplinarians discuss limits and indicate they will respect the submissive’s limitations with regard to corporal punishment. It seems to me this is counterproductive to effective discipline. I understand the desire to make the submissive feel comfortable with the relationship. However, I think giving the submissive too much control over the nature of the punishment severely reduces any deterrent value the discipline might otherwise have. Discipline is and should be an unpleasant experience. But if I am
  4. I am a 50 year old well educated male living in New Orleans. I am seeking a female mentor for guidance and discipline if needed. I am not interested in the fantasy aspects of discipline, nor do I believe discipline needs to be exclusively corporal in nature. Rather, I'm seeking someone who can provide me with structure and guidance. I have been very financially successful in my career, but this has caused me to lose focus on other aspects of my life. I believe a mentor could give me boundaries and a sense of control over my life. I realize there aren't many true female mentors out there, bu
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