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  1. Welcome. Hope you enjoy the site, there aren't that many Pro-Dommes who hang around and participate in the forums, so it would always be informative to hear your take on things.
  2. I think I've come up as INFJ as well! I think that since with some qualities, you can be on the cusp - 55%/45% depending on how you're feeling in your life you can go from one to the other. I would imagine they have a more thorough test that gives you a more reliable outcome, but I also think it must depend. Yeah, its interesting. In my experience people who are spankers & spankees come in such varieties and with such different personality traits that led them to wherever they are that I'm not sure how consistent it would be in predicting. There are definitely spankers that are intro
  3. I'm sure some of you have come across this test - based in Jungian Psychology. https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test I'm INFP - the "Mediator" - hits pretty spot on. each type has personality compatibility for partners - I wonder if it matches differently for Spanker/Spankee What should mine be?
  4. Thanks for your perspective Annie! It's interesting that you've already come out once before and that this has some similarity, at least in how difficult it is first to talk about. I hear you on talking about it to Therapists. Early on, when I started seeing shrinks, I would mention it, but would never really dwell very long on it or want to tell them how strong the fantasy was. I think I was in the closet with myself even, so it was difficult to speak about it openly even with a shrink. The difficulty I found later was the fact that talking about it would make me embarassed a little yes
  5. How many are truly Vanilla is the question? Too many to risk revealing ourselves, or too few to not risk being fully authentic? I don't know the answer nor do I think that being authentic with oneself means that you have to be public, but I do think if the desire to reveal is there, perhaps there is a larger grey area than some of us are aware of.
  6. Perhaps. But would you accept someone (provided they are close enough to you) telling you about something that isn't part of your own daily routine of life? Would you judge them or want to quiet them? I don't think you would. Now you might say that is because you too have something you'd like to share that is unusual, however my theory is that most people would fall into this category and welcome having someone be truly vulnerable with them. That said, spanking, a fetish or what have you is not something that you can really share easily in everyday conversation, so I'm not saying it shou
  7. Real talk Sydnee. I'm reminded of a story Dan Savage shared recently about a Police woman who was fired because she had previously been a Domme and fetish model. Our society is still very close-minded when it comes to sexuality but I would hope that this will change, and I feel that it is. I concur that feeling comfortable talking about in the privacy of a forum is the first step, and also agree that the company of spankos would be next, perhaps I live in a progressive enough city that I think it might actually not be such a big deal to out myself among friends. It's interesting to hear
  8. haha. I would not recommend bringing it up with a customer, definitely. the "if the only knew" is interesting...I kind of feel like everyone has something that they like that they might second guess about sharing, so I think it could go another way - the person might find the courage to share something about themselves.
  9. A + . I hope you write a novel someday.
  10. Laid across her lap she spanked my fire out entire
  11. Really? No one? Come on....maybe an accidental "outing?"
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