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If you are trialing out something with someone new -- one or two templated rules may help break the ice of things to see if the discipline dynamic is compatible (on both ends).If your looking for more of a mentoring/ discipline only dynamic and not a D/s; than the rules should be tailored to you, for you, and your needs. Not the Tops needs. Obviously there are deal breakers in every dynamic. If I was a Top in the scene of discipline I would not associate with certain behaviors and make those a dealbreaker/ rule if they struggled with them (and they wanted to change them) or I would not work with them. Ultimately it's up to the EE and what goals they want to focus on. I prefer tailed rules that my Dom puts time into creating; not a cookie cutter that has been used multiple times.

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Unless the EE has said they want attention drawn to it, than no - you ignore it.

I would start off with getting her normalized to your partner giving you a few playing around hand swats around the pup. Nothing very hard and showing love and affection to each other after. One of my cats has laid on me and seemed to be thrilled when I received punishments at one point. For a puppy, or dog I would leave them out of the room but comfort them after so they know their humans are okay.

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