Child of Light

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This is exactly part of the reason why we have the "spanking safety and advice" section. Thank you for sharing your story. Sometimes it's needed as a reminder for even longer term spankos to put into prospective. There are certainly spankos who don't set correct boundaries; or take it over the top, and need reminding of this as well.

I would say it's possibly related to your medical treatments. Those sort of treatments have made me more sore and sensitive to any type of pain. After an infusion a couple days later I am hyper-sensitive to pain.

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I think it's great your commenting on old conversations! Feel free to start new ones with questions of your own.

I think a spanking that leads someone to the hospital from impact is abusive or 'over the line' vs. severe.

For me they can be the other side of each others coin. I have a moderate to higher pain tolerance and a hard spanking, leaves me in bruising, and in tears. I should be able to feel it for a few days. For some it would be severe. A hard spanking pushes at the physical limits for me, gets my attention for a bit of time, and a severe spanking would be at my very end of my limits.

Welcome to the site, feel free to ask a lot of questions about things

Unless the spanker is not a spanker, and doesn't receive any enjoyment in helping you grow and thrive under their structure, a caregiver role can still be very rewording for the Top.

For the 6th time I told you tonight, I was not site owner in that timeframe. I asked the past admin who has no idea what this is about. When you expressed concerns about someone knowing your username last year, and being harassed, you stated that you didn’t know their username. You stated it was a friend in real life who found it and that they where telling your circle of friends, that it was 'complicated' because you were friends with his friends. We encouraged you to call the police and block the member. You are slightly slandering the community and deceiving people too by claiming it was a “PM” in your original post. **Thread Lock - OP is throwing out misinformation.

I wouldn't be completely against optional usage, but I would be a bit concerned about the method. Most people don't use real avatar pictures. I don't like the idea of people sending me their ID's and we can't ever guarantee the 'verified' person is who they say they are or they are of that age with 100%. That would be my main concern.

Staff note: I asked the OP to report the PM he has cited and verify that it came from our website. He sent me a PM with a slightly different breakdown of what happened. Reporting the private message log would allow us access to see if people are bullying. In the past we have asked him to provide proof and had failed to do so (clicking the report button); and he has not. Blanket statements like this need to be followed up with a report so staff can address it.