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  1. Dear young lady, If you are indeed in need of a Disciplinarian in Grand Rapids Mi. I am a 66 year old Dom/Disciplinarian that lives in Grand Rapids. I am an experienced Disciplinarian not just a spanker. A session consists of scolding and lecturing before, during and after the spanking , An OTK bare bottom spanking, corner time to reflect on what you just learned and finally closure. If this sounds like what you are looking for and you want someone that will hold you responsible for you actions, then drop me a note and we can see if we can work something out. Spnkrdom52
  2. On line mentoring can work but to be affective a load of commitment is needed. To on line mentor it requires someone who can self spank as directed. Video chat like Skype is used, there is scolding and lecturing like R/L, the spankee is told how to spank and how many swats like R/L, corner time after your spanking and about the hardest part of On-line mentoring is closure. But for some, this is a way that works. I have become friends with a few ladies by doing this.
  3. Actually it was at our house, yeah she knew I was going to spank her. Actually she wanted me to whip her with a single tail. And over a dress? Any spanking isn't a spanking unless bare bottomed. As I said, we were and still live the BDSM lifestyle. We're getting old and we don't play too much anymore and with other people almost never. I do still Mentor ladies that need and want discipline, but that's about it.
  4. She got great pictures, most are in our private album.
  5. 12 years ago when my sub became my bride, it was a true lifestyle wedding. Even the person who officiated was a Dom. And yes, after the I do's I sat down and gave my new Mrs. a good spanking in front of everyone there.
  6. Lot's of good comments. Most of my mentee's don't cry, I found out that the scolding and lecturing bring tears faster than the actual spanking, Just an old Dom's 2 cents worth.
  7. Can some one help out an old Dom? A while ago someone had sent a guideline of a writing assignment. I am Mentoring a woman on line and I want to give a writing assignment, just spanking and grounding doesn't always get a point across so I'd like to try something else and I heard about writing assignments. Can someone here help me out? Thanks much.
  8. Thanks much young lady, from the responses I think I'll try..
  9. Thanks for your input, I am going to Mentor on line and see what happens. We already chat everyday and we have been on Skype just to chat and get to know each other.
  10. I agree about communication is one of the most important thing along with honesty. Thanks for your input.
  11. Hello everyone, I'm an old Dom (almost 65) I've been Mentoring ladies for over 10 years now real time, I've tried on line mentoring a few times and it didn't work for me and then it didn't work for her either. Now I've been approached by a young lady that told me about Skype. It sounds like just a way someone can get his jollys. But thinking about it does seem to have some merit mostly that you can verbalize not just typing. My question is if any of you have tried this and how it worked for you, both Mentor and mentee. Thanks ahead of time for your impute.
  12. Wow, first impression, I would say about 100 hand swats, 50 swats with a paddle 25 swats with a hair brush anf 25 more with the strap. That would do more harm than good. First off you need to sit down with whoever is Mentoring you for a long talk. Discuss what you want to change. Talk about how you can reach goals you will set. There's too much for me to type all day but you get the point. Make it known what the punishment is for, be specific. My first session with a new mentee would be the talk before hand, don't spank someone until you tell them why they are being punished, what th
  13. As you get older there are things that you just can't do anymore or you aren't as good at it as you used to be, spanking isn't one of those things for me. When someone willingly goes over your lap with the intensions of getting a sore bottom the power thing is a very big power trip, but the biggest reason for me is because I love to spank. I love to see the bottom jiggle, I love seeing it get redder and redder, I love the more wiggling and squirming as the spanking goes on, the more pleading and promises to behave. I guess there are more reasons but the biggest love for me is because it's just
  14. Counting swats is a little different for each spankee, some like it and some don't. Sometimes after a hand spanking I use a paddle, hairbrush or whatever, I swat each cheek once and for corner time they consider what 20, 30 or whatever you agree on will feel like and if it will be worth whatever rule they break again will feel like. It's a good way to make them stop and think before leaping so to speak.
  15. Hello, I just had to put in my own two cents. My wife/sub and I have had an open marriage for 15years (17 together). We both have lived the BDSM lifestyle for most of our adult lives. When we decided to get together we were both going on our 3rd marriage and we both knew what we wanted and we both agreed to have an open marriage. Most of our play was as a couple but once in a while it was 1 on 1. Now my wife because of health reasons doesn't play anymore. For the most part I stopped also but (On her suggestion) I started seeing other women for discipline. There is no sex mandatory but sometim
  16. Hello young lady, I would very much like to talk with you to see if on line Mentoring is the way to go. Contact me at mstr_bill@yahoo.com or here at Spnkrdom52. Thanks much. Spnkrdom52 (Bill)
  17. I always start a spanking with a warm up. A lot of spankers feel a discipline spanking should not have them, a warm up cuts down on the bruising plus it makes the spanking longer. A warm up in no way take away from a good and sound spanking.
  18. Hello all, I've never heard your first discipline meeting but I do think the first is the most important, Yeah you've spent hours getting to know one another on line, you've met for coffee and now the time has come. From a Top's point of view you've discussed tolerances, any medical concerns and all the appropriate measures but everyone acts differently. For the first meeting I have I always just give a hand spanking, when it's over you are told to get the implement, (Whatever that is) I give 1 swat to each cheek and while in corner time think of how the paddle felt and imagine what a spank
  19. From the spankers point of view a spoon is almost as good as a hairbrush, if turned over and used inverted it leaves a really good mark. Have fun.
  20. Hello dinah and welcome. There are a lot of good people here with the occasional not so good so if you want to know anything just ask. Now young lady, I am a 64 year old Mentor, I offer lecturing and scolding before, during and after a bare bottom OTK spanking, then corner time and finally closure/after care. I'm also in the Midwest, Michigan to be exact. Hope to hear from you. Spnkrdom52 (Bill)
  21. I'm an old Dom with a lot of experience in disciplining lady's. Not just spanking but lecturing before, during and after a spanking, A very thorough bare bottom OTK spanking, corner time and closure (after care). I am wanting to hear from women that want/need someone that will hold them responsible for their actions. I am completely safe and sane and very much for real.
  22. Spnkrdom52


    Good luck young lady. You will get some good advice here and this being your first discipline spanking I agree whole heartedly with caningabottom. Some people say that a discipline spanking shouldn't have a warm up. I feel all spankings should start with a warm up. Not only is the spanking longer, it's easier for the Mentor to keep from bruising. (Unless marks are wanted) Once again, Good luck
  23. Some good stuff here. I am a 64 year old Dom, spanking and the reasons for spanking have changed quite a bit. I love the power exchange, the knowledge that someone trusts me enough to submit to me is a turn on. I guess also there's a little sadist in me, I love to give pain to those that want it, of course it's a good feeling when you see that what your doing actually does help someone. One of the big thing I like about giving a spanking is that when you get older there are more and more things you can't do anymore or are not as good at it as you were. Spanking is one thing I do as good or bet
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