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RamieLee

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About RamieLee

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  • Birthday 05/13/1995

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    25
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    Ohio
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    Female
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    Spankee

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  1. Still looking for a brother figure, if you want to know more see my post or status updates. And if you are interested please feel free to message me! Please make sure you have the time available for this before messaging. I will say I'm extremely busy with moving a new job and classes so it would start off slowly as we get to know each other, but in a few weeks I'll have much more time to talk. I think it's good to let things naturally progress anyway.

    1. rocketboy717

      rocketboy717

      I sent you a message.

  2. I have had so much anxiety this summer, something I have never really felt with,what do people do for anxiety? I honestly don't know what to do?

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    2. gingerlee

      gingerlee

      I'm late to the game but I've seen lots of families posting for someone to basically teach their kids or be responsible for their school since the parents both work and the kid is having to do virtual or the parents want the kids to stay home. 

      Not the same but someone would probably be grateful to have you. 

    3. RamieLee

      RamieLee

      Thanks I did consider that, I did get a job not teaching but it's a foot in the door in a good school system.

    4. gingerlee

      gingerlee

      That's awesome! I wish you luck in your other quest as well. 

  3. I know spanking is so many things to different people. But to me it's always been about having someone there who cared enough to do it. I've always eqated spanking with a deep sense of care. That's why for me any er I have has to care, or it would never work. But finding that bond takes time. I know you can because I have found it before, I also know what it's like when it's not there. I'm convinced it's better to wait then to compromise when looking for what you want and often need. Doesn't really make it easier in the search though. Not that I'm in a hurry to get a spanking knowing it's been the better part of a year and I'm definitely out of practice. But it's also hard when you know what you are looking for and need, but can't seem to find it. I'm not saying I've lost hope or anything just venting for a moment.

  4. I have been in this community for like 8 years now. And I have taken brakes as needed to heal when things went wrong. I have made poor choices in the people I gave my trust to, and am honestly still to quick to trust people. It is just the way I am I look for good in people not bad. But because I know this I force myself to thoroughly vet potential er's now. It has actually been over a year since my last er. I am not in a rush, I know I can handle adult life with out one. The truth is I am a confident capable person. There was a time when I felt so week like I could not be constructive without the presence of an er in my life. I know that is not true now, and all things considered I am in one of the best places I have ever been Mentally, physically and just in life in general. So I can't say I'm actually looking for an er at all. I think what I really have been craving this whole time is a connection to someone who is there when I need them, for the good and the bad, someone who can hold me accountable when needed without being overly strict because I actually don't need that. The closest title I can think of for what I really want is like an older brother, although I'm not completely tied to that. I'm not even sure if what I am looking for actually exists but if someone is reading this and can relate I'd love to hear your thoughts.
  5. I have been in this community for like 8 years now. And I have taken brakes as needed to heal when things went wrong. I have made poor choices in the people I gave my trust to, and am honestly still to quick to trust people. It is just the way I am I look for good in people not bad. But because I know this I force myself to thoroughly vet potential er's now. It has actually been over a year since my last er. I am not in a rush, I know I can handle adult life with out one. The truth is I am a confident capable person. There was a time when I felt so week like I could not be constructive without the presence of an er in my life. I know that is not true now, and all things considered I am in one of the best places I have ever been Mentally, physically and just in life in general. So I can't say I'm actually looking for an er at all. I think what I really have been craving this whole time is a connection to someone who is there when I need them, for the good and the bad, someone who can hold me accountable when needed without being overly strict because I actually don't need that. The closest title I can think of for what I really want is like an older brother, although I'm not completely tied to that. I'm not even sure if what I am looking for actually exists but if someone is reading this and can relate I'd love to hear your thoughts.

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    2. ponchy_63

      ponchy_63

      I’m a year younger than you but would love to be a brother figure to someone who needs it. Pm me if interested :)

    3. RamieLee

      RamieLee

      I would be interested, but for some reason I couldn't pm you feel free to pm me though.

    4. ponchy_63

      ponchy_63

      It says you can’t receive messages. Maybe your inbox is full?

  6. I am not just looking for a spanker, I have for a long time craved a brotherly figure, someone who would care about me and not just spanking me. But that being said someone who could discipline me as needed. I want someone who I have a friendship with and whom I can share more then just spankings with. The person does not have to be in Ohio but real life meet ups needs to be a possibly. If you think that maybe you would like to get to know me please feel free to message me on the site.
  7. It's 4am i should really go to bed alredy.

    1. Accountability

      Accountability

      I was up at about that time, too. Couldn't sleep.

    2. RamieLee

      RamieLee

      I could sleep just didnt

  8. Today has not been my day.

    1. AbleHanded

      AbleHanded

      Sorry to hear that. But every day starts out fresh. 

      My morning includes a mantra style meditation “Hayom Harat Olam” - this is the day of creation. 

    2. trunks1999

      trunks1999

      "The struggle you're in today is developing the strength you need for tomorrow" 

  9. Tommorow will be 3 weeks seince he left. And after 2 years with him, All things considerd I'm ok. Considering looking again. Getting back to my new normal.

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    2. Accountability
    3. shygurl

      shygurl

      Sorry to hear this Ramie. Glad you're ok and considering looking again. Hope you find "the one" soon!!

    4. DBuck

      DBuck

      Sorry to hear. I think I am local to you if you want someone to talk to

  10. So how is it that after knowing someone and haveing a meaningful relationship for two years you get gohsted? I just really never saw this one coming.

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    2. AfterGeometry

      AfterGeometry

      That's rough but it's the internet and it happens.  Take the lessons learned and move forward.  

    3. RamieLee

      RamieLee

      Our relationship went pas tthe internet though, we had met before. Its happened to me a few times two, I just thought that with 2 years I would at least get an explination.

    4. dmirk

      dmirk

      Happened to me beginning of the year.  Went from, "when are you coming back?  Soon please," to gone and answers not at all, no matter how I try.

      By coincidence, a young woman your age from Ohio.

      Pm me if you want - more about where you feel you are in life and where you want to go.  I'm an old guy with lots of advice.  Typical for my age, I give lots of advice.  It isn't always good, but it's free.

  11. 2 hours time diffrence seems small but sometimes it is a huge diffrence... i hate it.

  12. Hey little lady! I messaged you, hope all is well 

  13. I think if your hands are not on the phone then its ok. I mean its no diffrent then talking to a passenger in the car, i think somone stated that. So if someone was in your car are you suposed to not talk to them? As humans we multi task, our brains have the ability to focus on lots of things at one time even with out phones our minds wonder too all kinds of thoughts while driving. And how often do we not even remember the drive home? I think that when I talk on yhe phone I am more alert and less distracted when I dont talk while driving. To me if your not texting with your hands then its no worse then talking to a passenger.
  14. Im boerd and i dont feel like doing any of the things i need to do and there is nothing fun to do :(

  15. I have the same problem, what i do is type a random letter so it scrolls up and read the newessege then reapon it is annoying still though
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