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Spankenstein last won the day on March 28 2017

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  1. So I am going to be back in town ( Cincinnati) over Easter...I am vaccinated and ready for some recreational bottom spanking for some lucky females who are as anxious as me! I am what you need me to be- that strict former teacher or the guy who administers funishment. Can travel within reason and will have a place to host. If you are interested, I do prefer private messages...However if you like to be public, go for it.
  2. So I do have a question...To the point of masochism and its sister/brother sadism. I do find it interesting that some of you do not see this as a classification that includes spanking. I have had it brought up as a personal question when asked "Why do you like/enjoy spanking people" causing pain to others etc, and it does not seem to be an unreasonable assumption or a totally unreal diagnosis. Same for masochism if you are a bottom/spankee. So what exactly divides the spankos from these categories? The expressions do elicit some strong reactions from the crowd. I do suspect that the comparison
  3. 23... I don't believe I have that many, but I can relate to the experience. Of course there is NEVER an explanation. It does make one wonder about the social dynamic, since many of these women seem to want a strong authoritative, dominant sort of guy who takes charge, but that is really hard to do online when the other party chooses to disappear. I usually am not a pushy sort, and I do not like to beg so I just have to let it go. But those big strings of emails are a drag, and it does make me wonder what exactly it was that I said wrong, if they got a better offer, or if they were just jerkin
  4. On the age discrimination issue, I would tell you that I have definitely experienced that...But you know I never thought I would be 66. I don't feel differently and in some ways I am better the the 30 year old version of myself. I certainly know more than I used to, and I have a lot more self control as well. I prefer to think that maturity may be a trait to consider and one may find that in an older person. So I hope those of you who eliminate the "older guy" at first glance may reconsider next time. From personal experience, I think the partners (all female) have been about half and hal
  5. One think no reason except both parties are willing, ready and able seems to work fine for most folks...
  6. I am fine with whatever folks want to add, whether that is a question or comment, or a statement of personal experience. Conversations work that way. I am just providing a topic. I am interested in what you may think number are like in the spanking world. One could also speculate from spanking sites like spanking tube. Just what kind of population do we have? Where do we rank? I do wonder how we compare to other stuff. How unique are we?
  7. I do wonder if one advertised that HE had been spanked would take one off the radar so to speak...While one likes to think everyone is 21th century , woke etc. This may actually be a detriment to some females, as it makes them less dominant - Like once you stray from the path, you cannot get back on... I think a few on the site do look at the population as being black and white in the realm of EEs and ERS.
  8. I will say as a spanker, the act is erotic to me...and it has been in the majority of partners I have spanked even though it was not originally advertised that way. I think perhaps as the spanking occurs, the endorphins released are more concentrated in the person experiencing the actual pain and physicality, but in the spanker something similar is happening that is more like a slow burn- not as extreme but no less satisfying, and sexual. I like sex and I like having an orgasm , but performing a spanking over a longer period and being in control, fully clothed, is an incredibly awesome feeling
  9. So. anyone else want to comment on this? I do get the idea that lots of folks on site do not actually participate in person with anyone else or self spank.
  10. I think I would be interested in recent participation, membership. genders, sexual orientation and roles. The number do not lie. I always wonder just how many folks are active in a six month period. I am thinking it is not a high number. On a bigger scale, think the breakdown on the site is male heavy with equal numbers wanting to spank or be spanked(esp by females..) . Thinking females are about half of the males with most being spankees and a few being spankers (probably the most sought after group...) Anybody else want to weigh in here?
  11. So when I started here long ago, the search function allowed one to explore a lot more options, and would tell you things like who had been on in the last week, month, year etc and you could actually break down some data. I am curious about the site as well as a larger picture of the spanking community. That would be how many people are on site, gender breakdown, percent active in the last year, percent inactive and stats like that. It would also be interesting to know the numbers for spankers, spankees, switches and how that breaks down. I do notice it has been a long time away for some membe
  12. I am kind of surprised all of this is taking place in public...I would have sent a private message in all likelyhood. Just saying...
  13. I do remember getting very excited when I found this cartoon in PLAYBOY sometime in the seventies...Of course I was only reading the articles! Okay, I was checking out the photos, especially the rear view shots. Spanking did show up once in a while... So if you missed the 70's here is your treat.
  14. I have also found that sometimes people will react really strongly to something that one has written, like you have crossed a line you did not even know existed, and then you are banished. I find it odd. I like to think we are on the same team here and that whatever is said is at least coming from someone who has the same basic kink. To make it a bit worse, sometimes they won't even tell you what it was that incurred the wrath. It is not always easy to put thoughts and words down the same way you might say them in person so interpretation is not a perfect skill. It might be nice to give folks
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