For me:
For the most part, the reason it works is more because of the accountability than it is the spanking. When we use spanking as a tool to deal with something like procrastination, it becomes an admission of failure - of "losing" so to speak. In my mind, it is almost like wagering a bet. Sort of "if I lose or am wrong, you get to punish me" - and two things I HATE are to be wrong, and to lose; so even if there is a part of me that likes/needs a spanking, there's a bigger part of me that does not like "losing".
Now that said, I also have to admit that I've experienced discipline f