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Kim Raver from Grey's Anatomy ever since I saw this pic of her with a stern face, hands on hips, wearing a pretty, sexy skirt... needs to add high heels to it though. and Colby Smulders from How I Met Your Mother, once I saw this pic of her smirking in a form hugging dress, showing off her sexy cleavage and equally sexy lap

wow! ... that is a deliciously lovely image Lynn

... please share with us, one (or two or all three!) of the following: 1) What types of things/people/places/words etc... did you experience that caused you the most embarrassment as you were about to be spanked, were being spanked, or in the aftermath of the spanking? 2) What scenarios or aspects (i.e. things/people/places/words..etc...) do you think would cause you the most embarrassment? and/or 3) What were the aspects of a spanking you witnessed or read about that you thought were 'cringe-worthy' or 'exciting' (depending on your perspective) that caused major embarrassment to someone or some group of people (most likely to the person(s) being spanked!)? I'll start out by answering #3. As several of you may know, I once accidentally walked in on a mom giving her very pretty daughter, a high-school senior who I had a huge crush on, a bare bottom spanking over her knee. I was several years younger than this girl, and when she looked up and saw me standing there wide-eyed watching her being spanked, the look of horror and embarrassment as she turned beet red was priceless and something I'll never forget. I credit that event with being my first spanking experience and what likely sparked my interest in the subject. So its no surprise that for #2 I would put being spanked in front of someone you know (for me someone of the opposite sex), and someone you flirt with or know in a fun-friendship (non-sexual) way. It might also be being spanked in front of someone you really dislike (like a bitchy female neighbor or co-worker who sports an evil ear-to-ear grin as she relishes what she's about to witness), and for women I can imagine that being spanked in front of a female nemesis would be super embarrassing. For you ladies who may enjoy the thought of seeing a guy embarrassed and spanked, I'm reminded of a few F/M stories where the guy was very embarrassed (and I don't blame him!).. such as 40-ish yr old male boss/business owner being surprised on his birthday with a paddle from his younger all-female staff, and ends up with his pants at his ankles getting a bare bottom birthday spanking from all of them... or a male college senior getting caught by his (platonic) female roommate's mom with a F/M spanking mag and ends up submitting to getting his first-ever spanking over the pretty mom's knee, and in the middle of it, the female roommate and her girlfriend accidentally walk in on them ("OMG Mom what are you doing?!?" giggles the shocked female roommate as she and her girlfriend suppress their giggles and laughter), and the spanking and ensuing cornertime proceeded in full view of the smiling girls. On that note, I cant imagine doing cornertime with your freshly spanked bottom on full moon display counting down the minutes (which cant pass fast enough) until you are done, and dreading that your spankers girlfriends who are due over any minute, don't suddenly open the door! And finally on a tamer note (and this has been debated on this site before, but 'bare' with me) to hear my female partner teasingly (and in good fun) tell the pretty female waitress I've been flirting with that I've earned a good 'pants down trip across her knee" when we get home. Shopping with a female friend for a leather belt or a wooden spoon and having her say something witty to the checkout salesgirl that I have a spanking coming when we get home would be right up there too. Delicious and fun.... no harm done, and would all make for wonderful memories for everyone involved in any of these scenarios.... I bet years down the road even the spankee will see it as such! Let's hear yours please!

a woman in a skirt... especially a pencil skirt... also a woman on the beach wearing a full bikini bottom (not a thong, and not a grandma's panties bottom), just a full on bottom strategically covering a shapely bum... and imaging if a rogue crashing wave were to yank those flimsy bottoms down to her knees...would we treated to the site of a full, lilly-white, bare moon? or one that is nicely reddened and may have some red stripes nicely kissed onto those cheeks? also I agree with the 'belt' images... especially when catching someone at airport security pulling their belt off... or a woman holding a hairbrush or brushing her hair

I think it is hot all around... whether giving, receiving (I imagine), or just watching... no doubt it adds an extra level of intensity to the whole episode.. watching can be done in silence, or with verbal participation as needed... corner time done with the spanker and the witness discussing the spanking and the wonderful view on display definitely adds to the excitement imho

My answer is a bit different. I'm a spanking switch but have never been spanked. Somewhere along the way while spanking women, I started to get curious about being spanked. My curiosity grew to where it was more than just that, but it hasnt happened yet. I simultaneously really enjoy the excitement it gives me when thinking about any one of the many pretty women I know putting me over their knee, but also I 'd be absolutely mortified if that were to happen (although I fantasize that it would). No sex..just me bare bottomed over their knee and getting spanked (birthday surprise? lost a bet? ..something like that). Anyway, it has become quite a haunting fantasy. In lieu of that, I have tried self-spanking with a hairbrush and a spanking leather paddle on occasion. wow! it hurts a lot more than I thought! One time I was in my garage with the door halfway open, and a bunch of boxes placed in a way that no one could see in, but through the gap between the door panels I could see outside. I was alone in the house, and started to get a spanking urge, for some reason, and next thing I knew, I saw that a neighborhood mom, who is extremely attractive (and can spank me anytime!) was outside adjacent to my house in her yoga pants playing with her dog. I feel a bit foolish and guilty saying this, but I went inside, grabbed the leather paddle and went back to the garage. Peered through the gap out toward the park where she was about 30-40 feet away with her back to me. My heart was pounding out of fear of somehow getting caught, but also from the thrill of it all. I pulled my pants down -imaging that I was standing in front of her and following her orders to "pull down your pants" and then red-faced placed over her lap. I knew I only had about 2 'spanks' to give to myself (as I didnt want it to be obvious what the noise was), so wound up and delivered two hard spanks CRACK - CRACK in quick succession, one to each cheek. It was nerve wracking and exciting to feel the sting in my rear end and see her head snap around toward the door to see what that noise was. I have no idea if she thought "hey, that sounds like someone getting spanked!" LOL probably not, but it was fun to see her reaction and put myself on that edge of where I might have been caught... or at least fantasized that she did catch me... (and finish the deed herself!)

the first time I spanked a female was when I was 20 and spanked my 19 year old girlfriend... I first witnessed a very exciting spanking of a girl several years older than me when I was 12, so from 12-20 I was fantasizing about spanking every pretty girl at school (!) but knew it would never happen LOL when I finally did get a chance, it was because my gf and I were laying in bed on a lazy Sat morning and suddenly she wanted to grab something on the bedside table on my side. .instead of asking me to hand it to her, she just propped up and reached across me to get it... essentially put herself over my lap as I was sitting up in bed, and the only thing she had on was a short t-shirt which rode up from her waist leaving her laying over me, with her 2 wonderfully peachy cheeks just staring me in the face... well about 4million years of evolution took over at that point, and whats a red-blooded horny guy going to do (!)... I knew instantly I had no more than a second to act, so wrapped my left arm around her waist and rained down a series of quick sharp (but not too hard) spanks... she 'freaked', "omg.. what are you doing?"... but as much in shock and OMG laughter as she tried to escape, which just made me want to spank her more and harder... which I did, but also only had it last couple seconds... after I let go, we were both breathing heavily and it totally put us in the mood... later though she did tell me that those last spanks were WAY too hard for her, and had I not let her up, it could have gone south fast.. but in my fantasy world (and the spanking I witnessed) the girl was able to take a very good hard spanking... in reality (both with this girl and the next one I spanked), I found my eagerness took over and I was spanking too hard too soon...