Bratspanker42

Her pillow at work is an essential piece of equipment.

Best of luck in your search and as others have said, basically, don't jump until you have checked the waters sufficiently. Make sure anyone you meet with has your best interests at heart and allow you the freedom to be yourself with stifling your personality. Spanking you for acts that may be harmful to your welfare is primary and protective, but nurturing and hugs are necessary as well. Have fun.

Being a male who establishes a "No Panty" rule, I expect a female to wear panties at all times when we go into public. I do check if I feel that there are no panties beneath her outergarment, and will spank her prior to leaving. When I raise her skirt/dress, or lower her shorts/jeans, I expect to see full panties covering her bottom. If not, her bare bottom is given a good hand spanking with promise of more to come when we return, and she then must put panties on. This is for both health and covering of intimate areas for her own good.

I wish I were younger but, alas, unless you want an experienced disciplinarian, I am afraid that I am a tad too old for you, Young Lady. But, I do wish you the best in your search and hope that whoever you find treats you with patience, compassion, understanding as well as being stern, fair, and strict with you. He must be able to protect you, not just from others, but from your own actions, as well, that may be harmful to you and/or your welfare. Take care and stay safe, Young Lady.

Fortunately he was a gentleman with a soft, yet determined tone to his voice, immediately commanding her attention and realization that he wears the pants and she had better be wearing panties. Weak in the knees and chills running through her womanly figure, she felt the warmth of the blush on her facial cheeks and her imagination had her already thinking that she would like this man to put a nice blush to her other pair of cheeks.

I am sure that your spankings are completely justifiable if you have the potty mouth of which you speak, but I also think you realize that a "chat room spanking" would not do you a bit of good. In reality, you are telling us, I think, that you need to be dealt with in a very harsh manner that would curb (not cure) the loose lipped potty mouthing that you claim to be much like a "sailor" or "truck driver." Not being able to sit down for a number of days and having to sleep on your tummy during the same period of time will serve as a reminder, at least during that time period, for you to think before you speak.

No, it doesn't make you less likely to "re-offend" but it does give you something to think about when you do offend again. And it should make you uncomfortable.

Exactly!! When a lady is going to be spanked it is a pleasure to see her go through the various indications that the thought is going through her mind. Indicators? Gnawing on lower lip, shifting weight from one foot to the other, hands placed instinctively behind her as if protecting her soon to be spanked bottom, looking away from her spanker, (if seated) squirming in her seat, legs crossing and uncrossing repeatedly at the ankles. Those are just a few of the indicators and all a joy to watch taking place.

Darn, forgot to click on the notification button. LOL

I see that there are some who like my post (s) but would like to know who they may be. Thank you ahead of time. Michael

I have learned that the embarrassment of a fully grown adult lady being over the knees while being spanked helps, along with thorough scolding, to bring about tears in a woman. Many females would like to cry and think that the physicality of the spanking produces the tears, but they need someone who will look past the physicality and center on the emotional aspect. This produces the lovely tears streaming down the face of the beautiful lady, making her even more beautiful in a different way.

I too prefer these three implements and all are capable of being used while the woman is over my lap, even the leather belt when folded properly.

Alas if you read my post further down, you would learn that I have nothing but respect for the diva like lady who is in a position of authority and is successful in her career. It is only through consensual understanding that she accepts the fact that she desires to be spanked whether it be for guilt, stress, or pleasure. She is still human, and has human traits with her desire to be spanked being one of them. Patronizing? *chuckling* Far from it, but if that is how you interpret my post, then so be it. And you can interpret the picture as you desire, that was strictly my interpretation.