too cheeky

Just say: "I like that T. Where can i get one like it?" Worn in public? As a natural 'e' or one directed by an 'er' comments might be appreciated. Find ouit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Welcome back from Dayton.

"VERY BRATTY" usually requires more than "a lesson or two." Good luck finding the strong hand you need.

As a couple just moving from play to serious spankings, AND, being the husband getting spanked -- please keep us informed about your progress in this life style. I switch and would be interested in finding a woman friend willing to switch with me.

I am in Dayton and willing to apply color to your cheeks for the first time. We must meet first so you know me, I know what you are looking for, and we both agree on the parameters of your spanking. It will either be a gratifying first or your 'first and last' if you don't like it.

MI? You live in the right state. Try a state search here and at other spanking sites.

I would be happy to chat with you. I have a son near Indianapolis and a spankee in Indy. I will chat here with you or exchange emails.

Other than not being a woman I 'fit the bill' and live in Dayton.

Maybe you "don't think he wood" because you are afraid he will say "OK, off with yoiur panties." or "OK, but I want to meet him or her." If he is a true HOH and you a true wife to him, you disobey by not asking. Ask, then, you talk it through and obey him.

If you ask your husband's permission, show him a video of what you need from one who loves you, he might be moved to love you to tears. Is just fantasizing about it enough?

Good luck. There are men out there who fit your description. Try multiple websites to expand your search.

Christy has been my Er for years. Even though this post is RIGHT ON and this last sentence: "The most important thing to always keep in mind, is that the Power is ALWAYS ultimately yours; to grant permission, or to withdraw it." is true, one minute into a session I often both regret and feel thankful for what's happening to my bottom. Trust is critical and most of the =time she stops because the looks of my bottom are almost "TOO WELL DONE." Point is: know your spanker. Ask around this site for feedback with private messages. Find out where your ER posts and read them. Never met? Call them and talk on the phone, then, meet them first and talk truth about spanking; and, if all is well, take your nervous bottom to the session's location and mostly 'enjoy' the experience, especially when it's over. Message me to chat more if you wish.

Bumping???

I am a male switch so I can talk spanking from both sides now. Welcome to OHio.

Seems to me-- require him to relieve himself in the corner. Wait 2-5 minutes lecturing him. Cage him--not to prevent erection but to put him in his submissive place, then spank him hard in the position he dislikes the most.

TOO LONG AGO.

Mine stings admirably both cheeks, when in use. My er bought one and used it on me --O what a stinging session!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Host a costume party. In the invite mention a few possibilities-- Soccer mom, football player, any sport, femme fatale, nun, a dad [if you are a woman], a mom if you are a man], a cone head, etc ad infinitum.

VERY WELL SAID.

What about, in an FLR relationship, whatever and whenever she says or does anything -- everything goes her way. That includes punishments.

Get a room? Play music. Up TV volume. Use a cane, loopy johnny, or narrow strap [only real noise from the 'ee]. Use a rolled sock as a muffler. It's none of their business. I live in an eight unit condo. No one has ever mentioned noise or sounds. If anyone asks, offer your services. : )

Hi Cyndy. I was born in Chicago, raised in Indy and OK, spent time overseas, now living in Dayton, OH, thinking about moving to New Mexico -- typical American. I have a son /daughter-in-law and grand kids near Indy plus an 'ee who occasionally calls for bottom care. What would y like to chat about? Bryan

Yes, a little, daily, self spanking with a good paddle [research with your 'er] ought to do the trick.

Yes, SS&C. I Found my 'er here, messaged a bit, met her in a public place for lunch, [GREAT CONVERSATION ABOUIT WANTS, NEEDS, FEARS], followed her to THE place and got just what I wanted and needed. For years she has paddled my backside 3-6 times a year. She lives 3 hours from me by car.