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Love the honesty... That is a profound insight...that spanking, or being spanked is a kind of sacred territory...that would be a great discussion. Admittedly, i'm biased on whether someone (and especially You, Ms. Chawsee!) should spank outside men. From everything we've read and heard from and about You, You keep this well under control. Receiving a spanking might stir sexual feelings in some men, although maybe these men deserve some credit for keeping their feelings in proper bounds? And i think You get to know the men You spank before You meet them. For me anyway, a serious paddling tends to eliminate sexual feelings, and about all i can think about is the paddling and strapping (if that!). Regarding inappropriate bonding, i sense that You control that, too, as would responsible spankees. Spanking participants would normally and typically address relationship status, expectations, and limits before meeting. They may re-address those areas during meetings and throughout the spanking relationship. Respect for, admiration of, and liking another person need not violate sensible boundaries. When, or if, the respect, admiration and liking evolve beyond sensible boundaries, the participants should recognize that, identify problem areas, and discuss it honestly. The result may be to limit interactions as needed, or if required, discontinue activities. Completely foregoing the value and benefits of (un)pleasant spanking interactions seems like going too far, like maybe going beyond the mark or target of sensible interaction and behavior. That step might be appropriate for some persons or in some circumstances. Some things, like smoking, for example, we should avoid completely (in my view). Other things, just as an example (that may not be entirely fitting), like eating, we have to do. Yet, we should strive to eat properly, for nutrition, health, sociability, and enjoyment.

Sounds great to me....i've even offered several times...without success... i think it would be an honor to help someone that way... i wonder how we would feel about each other afterward?

i really appreciate this site and all the Child of Light and Mystery Man do to maintain the site. i'm also experiencing serious chat issues...long lag times, glitches that require refreshing often, and then not being able to get back into chat. i've been trying to get back in for around 45 minutes. It's distracting when we're in the middle of fun conversations!

We look forward to updates with details from you on 9/20/2022! Thanks for sharing these events.

How do you get spanking started at a birthday party?

Agreed!

The whole paddling need and scene makes no sense to me. i also really need paddling, but very much dislike the paddling while it's taking place--but knowing i really need it and so, need to continue to submit... Likely part of it is being overdue for paddling and strapping, although even when it happens, i know i'll continue to need it...

Put color on all 4 cheeks? What would the 4 cheeks entail, Ms. Chloe?

We'd love to see the list, Ms. Chawsee! My bucket list item is to meet Ms. Chawsee!

Let us know how that works out!

Thank You, Ms. Chawsee, for all the wonderful service you provide, and have provided!

Is the redness, heat, and maybe bruising from a paddling actually inflamation? Is it harmful?

Great story, Mr. Otkpantsdown49; glad he gave you what you needed, and then some. You were courageous to go for round 2, but congratulations! Isn't it ironic how often we really want to repeat our most serious paddlings? They are so unpleasant, they hurt so much, and usually hurt for 2-3 weeks afterward, yet many of us really hope to repeat those experiences. What sense does that make??

Another possibility is that maybe you would enjoy watching a man spank and paddle a male? Maybe watch your boyfriend paddle another male, or watch another male paddle your boyfriend? (i wonder how many would enjoy those scenarios?) If your boyfriend likes to spank, and wouldn't mind spanking a male, lots of guys would line up for the spanking, especially with you watching.

Let us know what happens!