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Becka last won the day on June 26 2020

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  1. Since so many people lately do not seem to read my About Me page, I am going to say this very clearly right here where it can't be missed. I DO NOT DISCIPLINE MEN. I DO NOT DO IT IN REAL LIFE OR ONLINE. NO I WILL NOT PRETEND YOU ARE A WOMAN. NO I WILL NOT MAKE AN EXCEPTION. NO I WILL NOT DO ANYTHING SEXUAL WITH A MAN OR ANYONE ELSE. 

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    2. AfterGeometry


      The -About Me- section is not at all obvious and definitely not intuitive to find.   I would not make any presumptions that anybody bothers to read it.  

    3. crash20636


      Almost read like a Dr Sues book :)

      Sorry you have to go through this.


    4. Becka


      I agree the About Me page really needs to be more prominent. It is buried and really pointless to have if no one can find it. Sorry that I was a bit explosive with that update. 


  2. Happy New Year! Hope your ee's are behaving themselves ( smirking)

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    2. michgal.k


      They lasted three days? Must be an ee record!!😏

    3. Nightowl08


      Becka, hehe, we had to make sure you knew we would still brat in 2021.  We didn’t want you to forget 😁.  

    4. michgal.k


      Nice job!

  3. Thank you everyone for your condolences on the loss of my husband. I am very grateful for the support you have all offered. 

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    2. Rosy3457


      I am sorry for your loss

    3. too cheeky

      too cheeky

      Sorry I just stumbled here.   You're in my prayers over your loss.

    4. Lineok


      I did not know about your loss very sorry to hear it 

    1. Becka


      This is the Go Fund ME page for my husbands funderal expenses. 

    2. Ms.Mary


      Becka I am so very sorry. You are n my prayers🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  4. This is hard to write, as many of you know, my husband has recently had an amputation and several health issues. Early this morning he passed away peacefully at home. I may not be on as much over the next couple weeks. 

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    2. detredwings


      Very sorry for your loss, God bless you.

    3. dmirk


      Very sorry to hear this.  

      We are here for you. 

    4. MottLee


      I'm so very sorry for your loss. 

  5. You have come to the right place to find a spanker in Michigan. Depending on where in the state you are there are a lot of great spanker here. As far as I know all of them are relatively close to sane. lol I hope you find what you are looking for.
  6. Happy Birthday, now you're OFFICIALLY in your 40's!

    1. Tal


      Late happy birthday! I hope your day was special! 

    2. Becka


      I was 40 last year.

    3. michgal.k


      I know,  now you're IN your forties.  😁

  7. I was 11 when I first self-spanked. I had been a spanko my entire life but didn't really understand it. At that time it was a full obsession. it was mostly what I thought about. I was also being sexually abused. For me, self-spanking was my coping mechanism. It was my form or cutting or self-sabotage. The first thing I ever used was a thin paddle I had bought on a school field trip. I was so desperate for a release of the internal pain. I laid into myself really hard till I was exhausted and couldn't do anymore. From then on I used whatever I could get my hands on that I thought would hurt the
  8. Are you able to travel? I am three hours from Chicago but would be hapoy to help.
  9. There are many spankers in Michigan. If you need help send me a message. I know a couple of male and female.spankers aside from myself.
  10. I have asthma too. I always keep my inhaler with me whether giving or receiving. Ive never had a spanking trigger sthma but have come close. All i had to do was tell the spanker i was having trouble breathing and we stopped till i could breathe better. All that should be needed is open communication. I would never push a spankee to any unsafe place either. If they have issues we stop and work through it.
  11. Yed we do. We have the same issue from spankees. It doesnt take long to read a profile and about me page before contacting someone. As a rule i don't reapond to anyone until i have looked at there profile. It is also good advise to not assume that because a person is a spanker that they are just going to spank every random person who messages them.
  12. That does look vicious
  13. As long as it isn't me. I am the good one.
  14. Stricthohcple is in Traverse City. He ia really good at what he does and always willing to talk about spanking.
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