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shygurl last won the day on March 15

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About shygurl

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  • Birthday 06/28/1970

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  1. shygurl

    Being over heard

    Radio or TV work great, so do quieter implements.
  2. shygurl


    Welcome to the site. Please follow the safety guidelines and good luck in your search!!
  3. Cooking a traditional St. Paddy's dinner. Smells yummy!!

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    2. shygurl


      I'm one if the best cooks you'll ever meet. I know how to do things.

    3. AfterGeometry


      Thats cool.ย  ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Žย  I can dig it.ย ย 

    4. shygurl



  4. shygurl

    new male spankee here

    Welcome to the site!!
  5. shygurl

    My Two Sides

    Awww, not sure how interesting either side is, but it's me.
  6. shygurl

    Hello from CA

    Nice intro and welcome to the site. Lots of info here regarding Domestic Discipline. I am in one of those myself. Check out the forums and don't hesitate to ask questions if you have any. Chat is another place to ask questions. Welcome~~
  7. I wantย to thank my boyfriend for coming over and taking care of me today. I feel so much better. Wish I could say I got a lot done today because of it, but after 3 nights of being sick and no sleep, I slept all afternoon. Thanks for the swats with the Lexan as well. I think I needed them!

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    2. shygurl


      Well, I have a dog named Chaos. If I don't like it, I don't tend to follow it.

    3. AfterGeometry


      That's a cool name for a dog.ย  ๐Ÿ˜

    4. shygurl


      He's a Beagle and he is chaotic.

  8. shygurl

    My Two Sides

    Thank you so much Spike!! You're very sweet!!
  9. shygurl

    New in Tampa, FL

    Welcome to the site!! Enjoy!
  10. shygurl

    Lead By Example

    First of all, anyone can call themselves an ER. An 18 year old, just out of high school, can come in here and call himself an ER just because he has a fantasy of spanking some girls bottom. Calling oneself an ER means little. ER = Spanker. Meaning one may be mature and wise and another may be a disrespectful, immature idiot!! It's those who call themselves Dominants, Mentors and/or Disciplinarians that should hold themselves to a higher level. Those are the ones who profess to be able to help and guide. They need to have a certain amount of maturity, life skills, etc. They should have the ability to lead by example. Although I have never felt that they should have to follow the same rules as an EE or submissive. Those rules are usually made in her best interest for a reason. It's just like the idiot who has been going around the chat room private messaging women and telling them that they need an online Mentor. He's at an age where he should have a certain level of maturity. Calling himself a Mentor means he should be respectful and yet even when you tell him you are involved with someone he pushes and pushes. He then has the nerve to tell you to quit talking in main chat and only talk to him...to answer him quickly when he asks a question!! Seriously?? He said that to the wrong submissive!! I don't give a damn who you are, when I say NO or I say I am involved with someone...I mean back off!! So, yep...lead by example and have some respect if you want to be respected in return.
  11. shygurl

    My Two Sides

    Thank you Sweetie!!
  12. shygurl

    My Two Sides

    Thank you so much!!
  13. shygurl

    My Two Sides

    Thanks for the kind words you guys. Sometimes it helps to get your thoughts down on paper one way or another.
  14. Having to adult today when I don't want to. Would much rather crawl back into bed!

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    2. AfterGeometry


      That hurts shygurl.ย ย 

    3. shygurl


      AG, your humor and wit is what I love most about you, but there is a hint of Brat in there!! I'm sorry if the truth hurts, but I believe in honesty!๐Ÿ˜

    4. Poison's


      Besides, it's a good thing Geometry!ย  Or I think it is anyways lol.

  15. shygurl

    My Two Sides

    I knew that....just enjoy pointing out mistakes!!!