shygurl

Radio or TV work great, so do quieter implements.

Welcome to the site. Please follow the safety guidelines and good luck in your search!!

Welcome to the site!!

Awww, not sure how interesting either side is, but it's me.

Nice intro and welcome to the site. Lots of info here regarding Domestic Discipline. I am in one of those myself. Check out the forums and don't hesitate to ask questions if you have any. Chat is another place to ask questions. Welcome~~

Thank you so much Spike!! You're very sweet!!

Welcome to the site!! Enjoy!

First of all, anyone can call themselves an ER. An 18 year old, just out of high school, can come in here and call himself an ER just because he has a fantasy of spanking some girls bottom. Calling oneself an ER means little. ER = Spanker. Meaning one may be mature and wise and another may be a disrespectful, immature idiot!! It's those who call themselves Dominants, Mentors and/or Disciplinarians that should hold themselves to a higher level. Those are the ones who profess to be able to help and guide. They need to have a certain amount of maturity, life skills, etc. They should have the ability to lead by example. Although I have never felt that they should have to follow the same rules as an EE or submissive. Those rules are usually made in her best interest for a reason. It's just like the idiot who has been going around the chat room private messaging women and telling them that they need an online Mentor. He's at an age where he should have a certain level of maturity. Calling himself a Mentor means he should be respectful and yet even when you tell him you are involved with someone he pushes and pushes. He then has the nerve to tell you to quit talking in main chat and only talk to him...to answer him quickly when he asks a question!! Seriously?? He said that to the wrong submissive!! I don't give a damn who you are, when I say NO or I say I am involved with someone...I mean back off!! So, yep...lead by example and have some respect if you want to be respected in return.

Thank you Sweetie!!

Thank you so much!!

Thanks for the kind words you guys. Sometimes it helps to get your thoughts down on paper one way or another.

I knew that....just enjoy pointing out mistakes!!!