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  1. I would say that they've stayed static while other, more dynamic parties have entered the scene. That said, the party has just changed hands to Joe Lectr, and should be getting more worthwhile. In addition, I know of: Boardwalk Badness Weekend in Atlantic City. In my opinion the best party but also the most expensive. Lone Star party in Houston. New but very well run. Texas All State Spanking Party (TASSP) in Dallas. And the previously mentioned Shadow Lane and Chicago Crimson Moons parties. (Note - Crimson Moons will be discontinued after this year, but a local young lady will be starting up another party in Chicagoland to replace it.) Tasha and I keep kicking around the idea of starting up a party in Estes Park, Colorado, and maybe some year something will come of it.
  2. First, let me give my cred. I'm a personal friend of Michael Masterson of Real Spankings, and I've been to over a dozen national spanking parties. I personally know a number of spanking models. 1. Real Spankings used to advertise in local college campus newspapers, looking for women to be in fetish movies. No sex, but nudity required. I believe that these ads are still running. 2. There has been speculation here that underage models were somehow used. That's irresponsible unless there's proof. I know one young woman who was told that Real Spankings would love to shoot with her, and to come back when she was 18. She returned a day after her 18th birthday with proof of age. After the Traci Lords scandal, I can't see any company not being very careful. 3. Likewise for speculation about greedy producers taking advantage of young drug addicts desperate for their next fix. I don't know of any cases of this happening in the spanking video world. 4. There are some professional models such as Alex Reynolds, Stevie Rose, Adrianna Evans, etc., who depend on spanking for their livelihood. Almost all of them shoot videos in order to make a name for themselves, so they can charge more for paid spanking sessions, where the real money is. 5 There are some models like Erica Scott, that have full lives outside of spanking, and treat videos just as a hobby that happens to pay.
  3. First off, there's no reason that a spanking couldn't use more than one implement. There's really no "right" answer. It depends on a lot of situational factors. And I believe that it will be a "game time" decision based on how things play out, not all of which are known ahead of time. Generally, though, I'd recommend use of the hand for the warmup period with perhaps some leather added in. After that, likely a lot more leather. I generally wouldn't recommend the use of wood (brushes, paddles) on a first spanking.
  4. Good for you, Phil. Keep the communication open, and keep checking in on how she's feeling.
  5. Excellent. You've already gotten him spanking. Set aside an hour or so, and ask him what things he may want to explore sexually (I know, it's not the sexual aspect in your mind, but it is in his). When it's your turn, explain to him that you find it comforting and sexual to submit to him for discipline spankings. I'd suggest a trial period to see if it works amd to tweak it. Good luck!
  6. Ni, AnnieMia! They'll be given at my house, just south of Denver. But your post makes me think that Youtubing them may not be a bad idea.
  7. Hmmm. Interesting. I am about to put together a series of talks on spanking, and figure that I could get maybe six mini-lectures from it. The idea of having hands on workshops and a certificate hadn't occurred to me.
  8. You're a 34 year old man. It shall pass, or at least you'll gain more control with time.
  9. Directly under your name is a search box. Click on the word Search. "All content" comes up. Click on "Members". Then click on Advanced Search and, if necessary, "Member search". Then specify "location". Note that "kansas" and Kansas" are two different search terms. Also, try "topeka" and "Topeka", etc.
  10. First Name: Steven Age: 61 Sex Orientation: Male Spanker/Spankee/Switch: Spanker Country you are from: USA State/Providence: Colorado
  11. A few suggestions. 1. Lecturing and scolding. 2. Corner time. Facing the wall, hands by your side holding what implements will be used on you next. No talking - you are to focus on what you did. After, I ask, "So, how will you avoid this in the future?" 3. Wood. Bathbrush or hairbrush.
  12. Hi, Jess. Fancy meeting you here! Let me take a look at my list of Colorado based spankers and see if someone might be suitable. Shout out to obafgkm!
  13. Well, I'll be darned.  Hi, jelena!

  14. No. The spanking was to be for punishment. As such, it should not have been pleasurable. By making it sexual, the spanker totally messed up the spankee's headspace.
  15. You can spank without serious pain. Light swats, followed by caresses. Squeeze and pinch the buttocks. Lightly impact his back, Pull his hair to emphasize control. Try to use the spanking to emphasize cpontrol rather than pain.
  16. Hi, Alex. You might be interested in the Chicago Crimson Moons party in July. https://fetlife.com/groups/624
  17. Plenty of pro spankers in California. Off the top of my head: Dana Specht. https://fetlife.com/users/755168 Stevie Rose.https://fetlife.com/users/1169814 Alex Reynolds. https://fetlife.com/users/618064 Lily Starr.https://fetlife.com/users/63744 Harley Havik. https://fetlife.com/users/4547422 Mistress Cyan. http://www.mistresscyan.com/ Sanctuary LAX has several pros as well. https://fetlife.com/users/1186168
  18. If you message a complete stranger with a message pertaining to spanking, don't whine if she doesn't respond.
  19. Ask "What kids of things do you like in bed?" I actually go about this differently than you do. I belong to several spanking related groups on Fetlife, including one local one. So I have the luxury of attending local spanking parties. If I meet someone there and talk with her, I already know she's a spanko. Hayden, who don't you attend SCONY parties?
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