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  1. It's not nude, or even a great pic, but there you go. My bottom.
    20 points
  2. Personally, I love submissive men. It needs to be pointed out that submission does not make a man a wimp. The men I personally know who are subs are very strong, powerful males in their everyday lives. In fact, it's often the most alpha men who make the best subs. They're so used to being in charge and handling whatever comes their way that they have less of a need to constantly prove themselves. These guys are confident enough that they're comfortable handing over the reins and letting someone else take the lead for a little while. That, to me, shows great inner strength.
    19 points
  3. Require the spankee to maintain eye contact with you during the lecture. End the discussion with something like, "Do you know what's about to happen to you? Why don't you tell me....." Make sure he/she uses the "s" word. It is painfully embarrassing for the spankee to have to look you in the eyes and utter, "You're going to give me a spanking."
    18 points
  4. SN Terminology and Definitions ● 24/7: A power exchange relationship that is in effect at all times. ● A/S/L: Age/Sex/Location ● ABDL: Adult baby diaper lover. Adults who role-play as a baby wearing diapers. The degree of it may extend anywhere from wearing diapers to wetting, and being seen/exposed in them. ● AFK: Away from keyboard ● Aftercare: The period of time, after a session, where special attention is given to the physical and emotional needs of the spankee. ● Age Play: A form of role play in which a participant assumes the role
    16 points
  5. My boys 'helping' me decorate the tree.
    15 points
  6. I had always been a very quiet, respectful, obedient little girl. But one day, when I was about ten years old, I really messed up. I disobeyed my mother, then lied about it. Daylight was just breaking as I headed to the barn to do morning chores. As I stepped out the back door, my mother told me to grain the bucks (male breeding stock of our dairy goat herd) that morning. I first fed and watered the horses and mules, then gave the does (female goats) hay. I would grain them later, when I milked them. The bucks, however, were in a pen of their own. I took them hay, but noticed that their g
    15 points
  7. The house has been a-flow with family for the past couple weeks. The man who died was a husband, a father to two sons, a grandfather to three, and a second dad to me (we were very close)-- so his passing hit me hard. And right after that, I lost a close friend over a falling-out. Two significant losses in one week was a lot to contend with, and I had put my own grief aside to be strong for everyone else. Finally, I needed to get away from our loving but crowded home and take some solo time for myself. There's nothing that does this for me better than a road trip, so I hit the highway for Darby
    14 points
  8. My bottom, ready as always
    14 points
  9. My boys are two years old ❤️️.
    14 points
  10. 12 points
  11. Welcome to the site. I know many of you are new and looking for a spanking partner. I also know it probably took you a lot to join and say hello. So, congratulations. Now, assuming you are about to post a message that goes something like “looking for someone to blister my bottom in ny.”, May I make a suggestion? if you are a woman, you will get lots and lots of people telling you that they will drive to wherever you are and do whatever to you they want to do, but maybe not what you want done. If you are a man, you’ll probably be ignored. If you post this in the middle of a disc
    12 points
  12. Well, I guess since you posted this publicly you're inviting comments. Mine goes to the "a woman should be obedient" remark. My version: "A woman should be what she wants to be." It makes my skin crawl when people use this wonderful kink to subvert consent and impose their tough manliness over other people. I should probably not bother because I won't be changing many minds, but sometimes I have to speak out. Women are not lesser creatures to be ordered around. Nor are men. If a woman chooses to submit and be obedient, then groovy. But to suggest you're inherently superior to "a woma
    12 points
  13. Some days I just long for a man to see that when I’m grumpy or sad, or sassy and out of control that a spanking would make me feel so much better and I would much more likely behave if this were done on the regular. To be pulled over his knee and have him warm my bottom and then to pull my panties down so they are just below my bottom, to remind me who is in charge and that I’ve been a naughty girl. And to give me a long, hard spanking on my bare bottom until I can behave like a good girl again. And then to have me stand in the corner with my panties down and my naughty red bare bott
    11 points
  14. Need is need. Desire is desire. Men should not be hampered by societal stereotypes or outdated norms. To each their own, M/f, F/m, F/f. M/m. As long as it works for the two of you, go for it! Personally, I have met some absolutely wonderful guys. It seems a damn shame that so many fellas have to go without because of fear of being judged or from lack of Tops willing to engage.
    11 points
  15. All for Men being spanked. Especially for punishment. Especially fm
    11 points
  16. Debbie I met Debbie when I was in 9th grade. She was an awkward 7th grader, and just beginning to bloom into adolescence. She had a sparkle to her brown eyes and was friendly but not especially outgoing. We did time together in the junior high choir at the First Baptist Church in Dallas, where both of our families were regulars. We found out that we both lived in a fairly new neighborhood in North Dallas called Farmer's Branch. We became better acquainted on a choir trip to Austin one cold January day. We happened to sit together on the ride down, and after our recital at the U
    11 points
  17. On this and another site I am on, the topic of fake accounts has come up recently. We all know that this being the internet, fake profiles pop up. And on sites focused on spanking, that definitely happens. We've all seen it, tried to watch out for it, and tried to be aware and safe. But it made me want to bring up another issue somewhat related...people who will accuse someone of being fake as a method of manipulation. It's happened to me a couple of times. Someone messages me, introductions turn into a friendly chat. Whether or not it's come up, I am very upfront early on about if consid
    11 points
  18. Emma was busy in the kitchen mixing a fresh strawberry cake when Mark approached her from behind. He placed both hands on her hips and kissed her neck softly before swatting her ass firmly, just enough to sting. “You’re going to mess me up!” She said playfully, glancing up over her shoulder at him. Mark slapped her ass again, this time harder, and pulled her hips back to meet his. “Whose girl are you?” he growled in her ear. “Yours!” She said dramatically and halfway sarcastic, turning and pushing him away with one hand, still holding the spoon
    11 points
  19. I haven't been very active on here for a long time...almost a year!! One of the big reasons is I've been working really hard on a new project...an autobiographical graphic novel about being a spanko! I've done 48 pages so far...up to age 11.... I'm planning to go all the way up to now...but it takes a loooooong time to illustrate (and I have a paying full time job too)...so I may be 90 by the time I finish I'm taking a bit of a break from it for a little while to recharge...before getting into the next part...including 6th grade and all that awkwardness Anyway I think some people on her
    10 points
  20. We went christmas shopping last week and Mr.Hubby-Daddy-Sir grabbed a blue plastic bath brush when I wasn't looking. Now.. I very nearly grabbed a big wooden one in that same trip but decided to hold off until we could talk about it... But there we are at check out and and I see it... Excitement and a tiny bit of disappointment and a little dread all hit at the same time... But my kom is there so I say nothing. We finally get home and are putting everything away and out comes the bath brush... "Ohh yeah baby!" I'm thinking... "Oh yeah, I got myself a new back scrubber, I'm excited to go ta
    10 points
  21. Hi! My name is Lauryn and I am a 20 year old college student who is still spanked. Growing up I was raised by my older brother who was a believer in the effectiveness in spankings, which he was right about because they definitely kept me in shape! He spanked me up until I was 17/18 years old so by the time I was an adult in college, I really missed being held accountable by him. I was surrounded by partiers and people drinking excessively which even got me in trouble with the school a few times, as I am not of legal age to drink. I was honestly a mess. My grades sucked, my attitude towards sch
    10 points
  22. This is a scenario which has happened many times, even before we were in a relationship. My boyfriend does not need a reason to spank me; in fact I have communicated to him that I have a need to be spanked fairly regularly in addition to any discipline I might earn. When I go over his lap, he usually has me lie down over one leg and places his other leg over my legs, which will likely soon be kicking, trapping them in place, and firmly presses down on my lower back. In all honesty, I like to be over his lap. I like that in our relationship, he is dominant and I am submissive, and tha
    10 points
  23. It is absolutely normal. My body's reaction to ANY spanking is the same - I "get wet" - and it does happen every time. It does not matter why or how I am being spanked. It could be a severe punishment spanking that I do not enjoy at all, but I still get wet. I am a spanko. Spanking, in general, just turns me on. That does not make punishment less effective for me, but I learned long ago that spanking is my sexuality and I can't help what happens.
    9 points
  24. I love to spank a man. Having that power over him is exhilarating. A man being spanked and put in his place by a woman is indeed very sexy.
    9 points
  25. Remember, some of us have no interest in men who AREN'T spankees! I'm one of those individuals, a dyed-in-the-wool spanking fetishist who has zero desire to spank other women. So thank God for you guys!!! Remember, to some people, spankee men are the cream of the crop.
    9 points
  26. I have lived in several states as an adult and I don't think spanking was necessarily more or less common in any of them. I think people in the South talked about it more openly. I am glad for the shift away from it and would be happy to see spanking kept in the adult-consensual realm.
    9 points
  27. Hello everyone~ It's been a few years since I've been around here, and I'm sure there are a lot of people here I don't know, and perhaps some old friends have become inactive for awhile, like I myself did... But I'm going to just jump right in and act as if I've never left.... Mostly because I have some thoughts or reflections related to spanking and discipline, I feel a need to discuss or share, and I've been away so long, I feel like I'm going to lose my nerve if I wait too long, and I'm feeling oddly hesitant and anxious! Since I was last here, I had actually made a whirlwind of pr
    9 points
  28. I'm not sure how to approach this but I need to warn others. No names will be mentioned because I need to protect myself. I got a message from a female account asking me to consider a Daddy. This person told me how good this Daddy was and gave me his phone number and tried to get me to call him. A few weeks ago I was told by the same account that this Daddy had died. Yesterday I get another message that he had passed away- when I start to ask question this person got very defensive and disappeared. The cause of death would have been all over the local news on online ( all I'm going to say
    9 points
  29. I keep getting asked if I'm back to stay, so I need to clarify this. I had no intention whatsoever of returning. It was literally the outpouring of members' support, both publicly and in private, that touched my heart so deeply. I felt awful for abandoning those who depend on me and others who were really sad. I had no idea that my posts meant that much to folks. I will do my very best to remain worthy of this honor. God bless each and every one of you who made the effort to pull me back from my albatross. Yes, I'm here to stay. Chawsee
    9 points
  30. I was 19. I’m not going to say what for but it was deserved.
    9 points
  31. I always use SpankingTube because, like you said, it's free and has a good assortment. Like you, my favorite to watch are more "just because"...a spanker and spankee engaging in a spanking together because they both just like it. That's my favorite because that's the type of spanking I enjoy personally, and what I would want in a spanking partner. I like watching content I can at least somewhat relate to. And while I'm not into being spanked as actual discipline myself, I do enjoy watching disciplinary spanking. Not family or school fantasies, or anything highly produced. Just a gene
    9 points
  32. This was from a party I went to, about a year ago now.
    9 points
  33. This methodology seems to work for your marriage, and I certainly respect that. For me, as long as a man's behavior is respectful, (something he can control) I am not offended by his body's involuntary reaction (something he can't control), nor would I want him to feel shamed because of it. I find it best to just quietly ignore any arousal. For most guys, it dissipates after the first few swats anyway, so "no harm, no foul."
    8 points
  34. I will always have a physical, uncontrollable reaction to being spanked. But, I have had punishment spankings that did not turn me on (mentally) during the act. Afterwards, though... definitely.
    8 points
  35. It' s always the older ones who claim they don't do social media etc... then you find out that they are on every social media site out there! They put us youngsters to shame... like I have hardly any social media. They LOVE social media hence why they are on every site. Maybe it's a ploy to gain sympathy. If an older person tells you that they don't do social media, don't fall for it... they are lying to you😂 I have met several people too. Chat in main, contribute to the forums then people will know who you are and what you are about. If you pm women: Don't do Hi babe, nau
    8 points
  36. I totally think any man who submits and wants to be spanked is sexy. He is just as masculine as any other or as he wants to be. He should not be shamed for it. It is sad that a lot of men at first make like they are total tops and then after a relationship is built they admit or it is apparent they are submissive. I don't want any man to feel that way around me.
    8 points
  37. I kid you not, that actually happened to me once. I was married and working at a small, old-fashioned dairy. One day a man came up to the cash register where I was standing and announced in a smiling, playful way that he'd like me to spank him. One of my coworkers was a large, goofy-humored fellow in his 30s who was working the ice cream counter to my left. He laughingly piped up, "I'll spank you!" This fellow replied, "Nope, I want her to spank me." I was mortified, so embarrassed that I don't remember even responding. Once home, I told my husband about this incident. He turned from chee
    8 points
  38. Howdy All! For those who may not know me, I'm Chawsee. I am technically a switch, as I enjoy both roles. But for anyone interested in a session with me, I am a disciplinarian only. I don't bottom for anyone whom I'm not in a committed relationship with. But my experience from both sides of the hand/paddle/strap gives me a clear perspective from the spankee's viewpoint, as well as from the spanker's. I will reopen my doors to a few select fellows after Covid. I accept males only.
    8 points
  39. I ran a spanking booth at an event several years ago and we had a blast. We had a roulette wheel to spin and if you won, you got to choose whether to give or receive a spanking. We had a couple of ERs and EEs standing by for the winners to choose from. Our "marketing" guy was ringing a cowbell and he had a megaphone promoting our booth, calling out "GIVE A SPANKING, GET A SPANKING." I love living in North Carolina.
    8 points
  40. I was 15 when I was last spanked my father. Panties down, over his knee. I was MORTIFIED.
    8 points
  41. It's unethical from my point of view. There are probably some rare examples out there that fall into grey areas--the person with the spouse in the decades-long coma, for example--but usually those are just rhetorical. I've never met somebody whose partner has been in a decades-long coma in real life, but I've met quite a few who lied to their partners for the same reason we lie about sneaking into the cookie jar as kids: we want what we want, but we don't want to pay the consequences for it. Like Adek, my problem with it isn't based on religious principle. I see it as stealing the in-the
    8 points
  42. I’m married to a vanilla who has given me a few good spankings in recent weeks. I wouldn’t say she’s a convert but she can see how strong my need to be spanked is and does it for me. My biggest tip would be for you (the spanko) to carry any stigma related to spanking. Allow the vanilla the space to be a vanilla indulging their spanko. If we try to convert them we are also placing the guilt and weight of being a fetishist onto them. I think this is almost more difficult for vanillas to manage than the mechanics of spanking. Of course over time they may progress from a vanilla who spanks to a va
    8 points
  43. The power of spanking...the need, the addiction A similar topic instigated me to think again about the powerful draw and effect that spanking wields over many of us. Although the percentage of persons interested in spanking may be quite low, even a small percentage amounts to a large number of persons. If the population of the United States is 328,239,523 (2019 census estimate), one percent would be 3.282 million persons. If only 0.1 percent (a tenth of a percent) of the USA population is interested in spanking, that is still over 328 thousand persons, or theoretically about 6,500 persons
    8 points
  44. Just a quick story. Last night I was texting with a spanko friend. I wasn't multitasking on my phone, wasn't switching between screens or any thing. He said he had spanked someone at a club. I asked "did you enjoy spanking that girl in front of an audience?" and hit send... It somehow went through to my mother! I just stared in horror for about 15 seconds... Then showed my hubbs, who looked as horrified as I felt lol. In less than a minute she simple sent "?". I told her "just ignore me, my phone is apparently up to shenanigans" and she left it alone. Still, today when we took her
    7 points
  45. I've been interested in receiving a bedtime spanking. Ideally, changing into a nightshirt while my spanker waits for me in the bedroom. A regular spanking that would be taken over the knee with the spanker sitting on the edge of the bed. A spanking that gradually builds in intensity with an objective to relieve stress. Afterwards I'd be tucked into bed where I could cuddle on my spanker until I fall asleep. For those of you who have experienced bedtime spankings, can you share how they were administered? Are they received regularly? Do you sleep more soundly?
    7 points
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