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  1. I have never heard of nerve injury if applied to the buttocks. However, it can be dangerous like any other implement if not used correctly. If you hit high with a paddle, for example, you can break a tailbone. I suppose if you want to get crazy with a cane and beat someone to a bloody pulp you could cause nerve damage. But I have caned people reasonably hard before with no ill effects other than a sore bottom.
    4 points
  2. OTK Spanking Perfectly perched across my lap, she offers herself. My Fingertips run across the back of her thighs, mapping her body, taking in her perfection. Plotting a masterpiece as I survey my canvas, I begin to lay the foundation. Placing even slaps across her corpulent cheeks, that ripple with every impact. Blushing her bottom a delicate rose pink. Rubbing her bottom with the palm of my hand, the skin on skin creating a connection between the two sharing the experience. Feeling her warmths as it radiates, acknowledging her readiness for more. So relaxed as she enjoys my attention. Me, soaking her in, her smell, her sounds, the erotic sensations that dance on my hands as I punish and sooth her ample cheeks, absorbing her completely. She is more than just a body. She is my instrument, dependent on the conductors abilities to make a symphony of experiences. Composing a voyage that takes her to her favorite places and to some never experienced before. Eventually landing her in her personal sub space, to savor the odyssey. DFWSpanker I tend to find spanking to be erotic as you can read. What is your experience with spanking?
    3 points
  3. The best role plays are the ones that the players feel the most comfortable in the roles. The best I ever done was with a 29 year old girl when I was 49 or 50 years old. I will call her Jane. She was not spanked growing up but had a few friends that were. She told me a story about a friend who got a severe hairbrush spanking for something they did together. To the best of my memory, she was 16 years old at the time. It does not matter what they did, but both were guilty. Her friend got spanked inside their house while she waited on their front porch. The friend later told her she got spanked bare butt with a hairbrush and Jane could hear it happening from outside the house. Then the girl's Dad drove Jane home and told her parents about the trouble the 2 girls had caused. She only got yelled at. Of course Jane was interested in spanking. That is the reason we met, but she also felt guilty because her friend was punished and she was not. So our role play is Jane at her present day age of 29 and I play the part of her friend's Dad. She comes to my house (actually we are in a motel) and asks to speak with me. Then she asks if I remember the incident I had spanked my daughter for before taking Jane home that day. I say I remember and what about it. Jane tells me how guilty she feels because she was never punished and asks me to punish her just like I had my daughter that day. I decline at first, saying her discipline was not my responsibility, but she quickly changes my mind, saying she was not an adult and pleaded with me to finally relieve her guilt. What is a middle aged man to do when a young lady is begging for a spanking? So I let her know I only spank bare bottom and if she agrees to go over my knee, the spanking will not be over until I say. She agrees and reminds me I had spanked my daughter with a hairbrush and says she wants the same. So I sit in a desk chair, have her drop her slacks and go across my lap. This girl had a high tolerance and although she usually cried after a discipline spanking, it was not usually until the spanking was over and I cuddled with her. This time, the water works came before I finished her spanking. This was my favorite all time role play because having a girl ask for a spanking was one of my fantasies and she got the emotional release she needed.
    3 points
  4. I was reeeeally busy with work...so this took forever to finish It's the second short story from my graphic novel about my spanko experiences in college...this one's about the first Little I met and how it sparked my own Little tendencies... The PDF versions are on my web site http://www.ruderumps.byethost7.com/index_cts.html You can also read it on the spankingartwiki https://spankingart.org/wiki/Rude_Rumps
    3 points
  5. UPDATE: If anyone here needs to reach me, I am on FetLife, under the same username, Chawsee. While I am also a member of Jillian Keenan's Patreon group "Kinking Out Loud," and I really enjoy her videos (when I have the time to watch them), I don't find that site to be the interactive community that I thought it was. Or perhaps I just don't know what the heck I'm doing? 🤔😁
    3 points
  6. Ahhh the tummy flip @ the notion of “Don’t make me pull this car over.” This is a fun topic. 😁
    3 points
  7. My b f when we were teens kept a board like a paddle in his truck he would spank me with-it if i sassed him or did something he didn't like it was usually right in his truck since i am a small girl but a few times he went tothe woods took me out of truck for a even harder paddling
    3 points
  8. My wife spanking me may have very well saved our marriage.
    3 points
  9. lol...nice... one great F/M spanking scenario I read about (am sure it wasn't true) was of a husband or bf getting pulled over for speeding by a female police officer... his wife/gf was furious that he had been speeding and told the officer she was telling him to slow down, but he wouldn't listen.. she pleaded though for the officer not to ticket him, and said she'd deal with it at home by giving him a sound spanking on his bare bottom... the intrigued female officer chuckled and said 'why wait til you get home, and not just do it here and now?'... next thing he knows, he's standing by the passenger backseat door, getting his pants pulled down by the angry wife/gf as the police officer looks on with a smile... then over her knee for a sound spanking.. LOL as I said, I doubt it happened for real, but while at it, why not have him come out and stand with his hands on the car roof while the police officer uses her belt on his rear end to sear the lesson home as well my guess is there are some counties in the US where such a thing may still fly LOL
    3 points
  10. Not in the back seat, but in the passenger seat, with the door open and my legs sticking out. It was a bright Yukon summer night and we had just left our friends' house, where we had dinner, and Madame was quite tipsy. I was sober and driving. Near the end of the their long dirt road driveway, about a hundred feet fromt he highway, she told me to pull over, and come around to her side. I had to take my belt out and give it to her and then down came my pants. It wasn't a severe spanking, but it was memorable for the circumstances.
    3 points
  11. I think I'm in a spanko hotel, found this hanging in the closet!
    2 points
  12. This is horrible news
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  13. Try https://thelondontanners.com/ H.
    2 points
  14. bending over their knee and presenting my bottom. doesn't matter I feel helpless like I know whats coming
    1 point
  15. We're in our mid 30's. Maybe closer to pushing 40 if I'm being honest. And we've been together since our early 20's. I've always had a spanking fetish. Every fantasy I've ever had has involved me getting spanked. I remember asking a boyfriend to spank me for the first time in my teens. Little taps. Other boyfriends gave a few wimpy slaps. A good spanker is seemingly impossible to find. I fully confessed my desires to my husband shortly after we married. Spankings. Real ones. Hard. For punishment, not sex. It's a weirdly sexual but not sexual fetish. I don't quite understand but that's the way it is for me I like the before and the after, not the spanking itself. At least not when receiving. But you can't get the before or the after any other way. He obliged the best he could. Finally I had some marks. Lovely bruises. Sitting sore for a day or two. One time I even cried. But it never amounted to anything consistent and that's what I wanted. A DD lifestyle I suppose. Sometimes I'd get angry and frustrated. He's so much larger than me, by a foot and about a hundred pounds. He just looks dominant. Intimidating even. He should be dominant. But deep down I knew that wasn't the case. Because I ran things. Our household. Appointments. Finances. Outings. Everything. So I gave up. He couldn't even spank me unless I told him to. Disappointing I guess but there's porn. Even most of that isn't right though. Oh well, nothing I can do about that (but read on, there is!) Fast forward a decade or so to get right up to the present. Or the very recent past if you want to be specific. My husband and I had been quarling every night after I got home from work. (We work different shifts). The house wasn't getting picked up. We have young kids, it's hard, I know. But when he comes home from work the house is in order. When I come home it's a disaster and there he is snoozing away leaving it for me the next day. So this is the fight we'd been having for weeks. Maybe months. I'd start bitching at him until he got out of bed and picked up. I tried telling him so many times how important it was to me to have the house in order. Not perfect, just not a disaster. I became a nag and he resented that and just started tuning me out. I resented him too I started thinking about how he comes across as so dominant. And I don't know what made it finally click but my husband is not dominant. Ignoring me, Rudeness, Snottiness and Laziness aren't dominant traits. They're immature and unacceptable. And begging for a spanking. If anyone should have known that it's me. How could I have been so blind for all these years? My husband is a brat. I texted him while he was at work and told him that I was going to spank him. He balked. No, no, he would spank me for the mere suggestion. Again I told him I was going to spank him. That I was tired of the messy house. That he was tired of the nagging. That I didn't like the nagging myself. I was going to spank him and after it was over and done with it would be a win-win situation for us both. A clean house for me and no more getting bitched at for him. He agreed but said he was going to spank me 10x what ever he got. I reminded him he has always had my concern to discipline me if I need it and that won't change but I was going to spank him because he deserved it. I promised I would go easy on him and use only my hand... this time anyway. He's kind of a baby. When he got home I shut the curtains and told him to drop trou and bend over the arm of the couch. My husband who towers over me, who can be such a (dearly loved) asshole, who put up such a fuss in our texts over this, did exactly as I instructed during a blink. I didn't even get to see it. And so there he was, just like that, bare bottom in the air. I've never seen a view like that before. The porn I watch is of a female bottom because that is what I relate too. But okay, I can do this because I know exactly how it should be done. I've been imagining the perfect technique for decades. Just never did I think this is how I would experience it. I started spanking. Not too hard at first, mostly just stinging. I increased the intensity and he said "Wow, OK" which doesn't mean a lot to you but I know my husband and I knew he was expressing his surprise at how hard I was spanking him given his earlier threat of spanking me 10x harder. (That he's yet to make good on and I doubt he ever will) He stayed in position better than I've ever been able to but his hand came back a time or two. Any place he managed to rub got some extra attention. I put some focus on his sit spots and made sure he was getting rosy all over. It was kind of cute. I really didn't expect to be turned on. I was just about to finish up but he reached around to try and smack my ass. He shouldn't be feeling so playful during a punishment. I know enough to know that the top of the thighs are quite sensitive so when he did this I dodged and started spanking him there. He bucked and exclaimed that he's never spanked me there before. Well, he shouldn't have done that. Once he started to behave again I gave him a few more all over and let him up. And up he was. I let him know that next time there would be more, that from now on what he just got would be the warm up. That I'd not go so easy on him ever again. But that being said I'm a big believer in kissing and making up, no details there. I talked to him about it the next day, about how I wanted to do this as a from now on kind of thing. He first said that I shouldn't get used to it. So I told him how much I enjoyed spanking him. And even though it embarrassed him I told him I knew he enjoyed it too. And it's true. And it's something I never would have expected from either of us. Not once in all my years have I ever had the desire or thought to spank someone before. Not once has he ever expressed a desire to be spanked. But really I just had to say it again and he gave in all too easily to be anything other than a dead giveaway. I think he can see the difference it made too even if he doesn't want to admit it. There's no shame between us. And we both know how much he needed it. Heck, I almost can't wait until he needs another one. Fortunately (or maybe unfortunately?) he's a good sub. Our home has been kept in order while I'm at work. I had given him a couple other spankable offenses to start with and he's minded my word to the letter. His attitude towards me has totally changed and our interactions are different in the best of ways. I feel like all these years he just needed to be spanked even more than I ever wanted to be. So here I am, a bottom who became a top and I definitely like the view.
    1 point
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  17. Hi, I have been away from the spanking scene around 5-6 years. I needed a break due to the large amount of drama I was coming across. I am making a cautious return. I am primarily a spankee/bottom but have topped in the past with the right person I feel comfortable doing so. I enjoy spanking fun and do not want or encourage any sexual activity. I’m married….enough said:). Just here to meet people and I’m primarily looking for female spankers at this time but will consider male spankers in the future. Feels great to be back:)
    1 point
  18. Hi! Sorry for the delay in response. I think at the time when I was interested in making videos I was discovering my sexuality. I actually played quite a bit with others before I did the videos. I contacted the video producers via Myspace - that is how long ago this was!! Makeup and hair styling were provided, so that was fun. I like dressing up lol. A part of me is a little bit of an exhibitionist, so I find it exciting knowing others enjoy watching me be spanked and punished. The reactions to the spanking were real. It stung!! The spanker was skilled and had experience. Others can give it a shot, sure. Most people make their own content now. But if you're interested in being spanked on camera with a popular company, you can absolutely contact someone and potentially make a few hundred bucks for getting spanked. I was young and the cash didn't hurt.
    1 point
  19. Hello everyone! Thank you for your messages! I'm not ready to have an open discussion about this just yet with my boyfriend. I think the problem is that it's almost normal for a girl to get spanked by a guy, and to me there's nothing shameful about it. But this subject of gender change just shows how deep and confusing it all is and how much space it occupies in my mind. But that's fine with me😄
    1 point
  20. Oh my, don't getting me thinking of spanking experiences I know I'll never unfortunately have. You're making me jealous. 😃
    1 point
  21. Yes when I give my husband a spanking it is straight to the corner with rubbing not permitted. I caught him rubbing his bottom after a spanking when we were dating . I gave him a second round over my knee and I know he had a hard time sitting at work the rest of the week . Almost 20 years later my husband has never even attempted to rub away the sting until I tell him he can leave the corner. That goes for maintenance or punishment spankings. I am glad your wife believes the same as me. Ms L
    1 point
  22. Usually after a punishment spanking, my wife gives me corner time. Once she caught me rubbing my bottom and it was back over her knees for more of the paddle. I have learned to NEVER touch my bottom until she says for me to get dressed.
    1 point
  23. The only nerve injuries I have hard of with the cane come about (1) when the cane is not applied to the plump of the bottom downward and (2) when, of course, the cane is used too much in one place. The second case is a matter of reasonableness, and I hope that the practitioners on this site have no problem using discretion. The first case is one where the cane was applied too high, toward the bone. On the other hand, I've never heard of nerve injuries where the woman's thighs were the low object of a caning. Now that's just my information, but it makes sense: Aim toward the part that is supposed to be disciplined.
    1 point
  24. i just love spanking so much i can go from spanking to getting spanked in a heart beat. love the sound and sight of a bare butt over my lap being spanked and I like the sensation and feel of getting my bare butt soundly spanked. Guess I'm a pure switch.
    1 point
  25. @BatmanC did say there's a way for the spankee to stop the spanking: they can get out of position. That takes the place of a safeword in this case. They have a safe action instead of a safe word. As long as there's a safe something, I'd say it serves the purpose.
    1 point
  26. Yeah we kind of have one for that but I'm very intentional and watching and listening. I can tell the difference between distress of the spanking and something is wrong. One a few months ago she completely turned around and of course I stopped and fixed the issue. It paused the spanking but it was an issue with position we adjusted and continued. I pay close attention and respond to her.
    1 point
  27. For us, it's for emergencies ony.
    1 point
  28. I have one in my toy bag. Don't use it frequently but when I do it actually slowly, as I will also use the backscratcher on my upper back during the "lecturing" part of the spanking. 😈😂😜
    1 point
  29. Nice to meet you! I am in your area. Never been active in the scene, and I'm very nervous about trying any kind of in person meetup, but I'm starting to think it's time. If you have experience with it, I'd love to pm/chat and get some sense of what it's like.
    1 point
  30. medical scenarios are fun. step-parent scenarios. camp counselor scenarios -- overseer counselor and junior counselor. newlyweds in the 1950s on their wedding night or honeymoon can be a lot of fun. so many fun and exciting possibilities! I'm someone who really enjoys playing.
    1 point
  31. For me it usually involves -real- infractions such as shoplifting, speeding, bad grades and similar. I can spank for fun as well, but I feel it adds a significant amount of realism if there is an actual reason. for real reasons it’s easier to be in “character,” vs role playing. Atleast seems to me it’s easier.
    1 point
  32. 1) office boss/employee 2) grad school/college professor/student 3) doctor/nurse/patient
    1 point
  33. I was spanked by a stranger for trespassing and mischief on his property back when I was 19 one summer evening. I choose a spanking over getting in trouble.
    1 point
  34. Some time ago, I read an article about a place in England that runs an adult school. The reporter interviewed one lady who presents as female, sees herself as female and acts as female in every other part of her life. However, for a day every couple of months, she is a teenage boy. Sometimes she just has that need. It may be a very big step for your boyfriend - I know it would be for me - but the only way to handle things like this is with honest and open communication.
    1 point
  35. Agreed, shame there aren't more men like that.
    1 point
  36. Fully agree. I don't know why a lot more alpha males don't do this.
    1 point
  37. THAT WAS A FANTASTIC STORY THANK YOU FOR SHARING ! WE HAVE BBEN TRYINY TO LIV THE SAME WAY TO MAKE THE BEST OF OUR REALASIONSHIP TOGETHER
    1 point
  38. As a Spanker, I have spanked a few married women. As you have done, its important to make it clear that it is non-sexual. A couple of them wanted to keep it a secret from their husband and hiding a spanked bottom was certainly stressful to them. The other that informed her husband knew that her husband didnt like it, but went along with it. Your kinda damned if you do or damned if you dont - I wish there was an easy answer for you...
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  40. Yes, I admire spankers like BatmanC. But it's kinda terrifying if you're the one getting spanked. If BatmanC can overcome all the obstacles I put in the way and still deliver a hard painfull spanking then I'm helpless and defeated. All I can do is cry, I guess, and hope it ends soon. And it's great you enjoy it so much because you really deserve it.
    1 point
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  42. I can't help but do everything I can to resist when the paddling starts. I can't help it. It hurts bad. But when I do hop around and squirm on his lap I'm afraid I'm making him angry because he thinks I'm being a brat. But I'm not. It just hurts so bad. It's best when the ER is an expert. The experts are amazing! They can hold me totally still somehow on their lap and really paddle me hard. That way I can do nothing about it. At that point I turn limp and get what's coming to me.
    1 point
  43. People on here need to learn respect of others wishes! If someone says they are not interested...THAT MEANS THEY ARE NOT INTERESTED AND DONT BOTHER THEM NOR NEED TO GO ON WITH BS INSULTS!
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  46. I've seen so much of it over the years that I always give my established partners dibs on playdates over a n00b. And when I set time to meet a n00b I often remind my established partners she might not show. Truth is I always ask someone new to meet me at a place where I can at least go off and do some landscape photography if I get stood up. Good to have a plan B. I suppose panic and cold feet factors into this. The reality of actually meeting someone for impact play can be terrifying and trigger a "fight or flight" instinct. Some fight it, some don't. Comes with the territory.
    1 point
  47. Also being a substitute spankee works very well. That is, when someone treated the spanker badly at work or something I take the place of that horrible person later that night. I was surprised how therapeutic it was for the spanker. I even said the offending words. My spanker instantly jerked me over their lap for a thorough rapid fire spanking. But don't get me wrong..... I still deserved the spanking for other things.
    1 point
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