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  1. I would wager that most ees have said something bratty to try to get a spanking if they are in a place of craving or needing it. I personally wouldn’t let that cross a line of basic respect. And definitely not name calling. That said? Why would her being complimented by another man bother you so much to begin with? I’d think it would be just as much of a compliment to you that you are the person a beautiful woman has chosen to spend her time with. It could be an opportunity to say something fun or flirty or sexy instead of it becoming something awkward and uncomfortable. And she is open and honest enough to tell you about it, at least for now.
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  2. Well because she sent it to me. Its called a text message ..
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  3. Of course I have. It is bratting with the intent of getting spanked. She might be super stressed and unsure how to ask for a stress-relief spanking (rather than punishment). Sounds like your first step shouldbe talking to her. Moving in together is a big step and life is stressful for everyone. Take spanking out of the equation - how would you work through this as a couple?
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  4. Nice that you ran into another women who is in female led marriage.There are more of us out there then you think. Yes using brutal disciplinary methods is not needed and a good over the knee correction with hairbrush is a good deterrent for punishing her man . Hope your partner is feeling better and I hope she gave your partner some ideas on handling you. Maybe your partner will decide to take more control in your relationship. Happy Holidays! MS L.
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  5. For me getting spanked is quite emotional. That is part of the benefit for me and part of why it is such powerful experience. Spankings for me are for stress relief. It helps me get my emotions "in order", and "wrap by head" around what I'm feeling, and I deal with them subconsciously while the spanking is in progress.
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  6. For me, it's an emotional means to an end in a couple different regards. In an erotic sense, it has always been in my psyche. Before I was old enough to understand it, it was sensual. As it has "aged" in me, it has become an emotionally-laden form of communication. Sometime it says 'let go - right now you're not in charge of or responsible for anything anything". Sometimes it says "I love you". Sometimes it says 'I'm aggravated with you". Sometimes it says " I know you are a better man than what you did/said/thought". Sometimes it says "You can let go of the guilt, you've atoned". I was in a long term relationship with someone who did not communicate well, and who was an expert at hiding and repressing her feelings - both positive and negative. Eventually there came a moment when it became clear that years and years of seemingly small offenses, transgressions and frustrations had been stored away, repressed and planted deep like seeds of anger - rather than being communicated and dealt with. Discovering how significant my blindspot was impacted me heavily, and I've realized that I'm now paranoid about un-communicated and unresolved issues. As kooky as it sounds, a blistered backside allows one to feel without doubt that a variety of issues have been clearly, and decisively communicated...and that produces peace-of-mind.
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  7. Spanking for me is very emotional. I only partake in the discipline side of it. Every time I break a rule it makes me very sad and disappointed in myself. But after the spanking I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
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  8. Yes....I guess by most standards, my husband is very strict with me...but...I honestly have found I need that. I can imagine you doing the swats with your husband as you described. I think you have a wonderful dynamic going there with you two. lol...I think there are a lot of men who might need that in their life. For us, it is not a "daddy" daughter thing....I am his servant-wife....so I get his spankings and discipline as "his woman"... which....I am actually. I surrender myself and place my trust in his authority over me. Not for everybody, I know...but it has worked well for us 15 years and counting...lol. My husband has never grabbed my ear and led me to an imminent spanking or corner...but he does on occasion grab my hair...and...please do not be offended, but just sharing here...he has on occasion also grabbed my hair "down their" or by my "mound" and led me while swatting me...to the place where the full force spanking would take place. I know this is kind of graphic maybe...but it does happen sometimes.
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  9. Hello Southern UK based mentor offering to help ladies who require guidance in post school guidance or careers advice. If interested get in touch.
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  10. I can relate to this. Though I am straight and spank only men, in some of my favorite fantasies, I've envisioned being a boy on the receiving end. Fascinating topic!
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  11. I believe it. I like M/M scenes. In fact, I would rather watch a M/M scene than a M/F scene.
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  12. Admire the honesty and strictness you hold yourself to.
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  13. From the album: Really big spanking paddles!

    A disciplinarian friend sent me this photograph and said he had finally found a spanking paddle big enough to give my bottom a proper spanking!
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