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Lol breathing is my trigger

These are all fair points. You probably already know what I'm about to say; I suppose hearing (or reading) another say it is good reinforcement though. Just go slow, be honest with each other, and if either of you needs to just breathe; do it.

I get your point, but my gf is a quite creature. She is not used to being open and I've had poly relationships. They only work with honesty. I need to trust that shes being honest about her emotions. She needs to trust I'm being honest about my actions especially since I haven't always been (although nothing constituting cheating and we've gotten past that). That being said it could be a manifestation of my own insecurities surrounding our earlier relationship. Good food for the thinker. Thx

Niko is a truck driver and spanks women all over the country. Sometimes you can hear the engine running. For some reason, I can get a link to post properly. This may or may work: Watch SPANKING MISS ROSE - Otk, Otk Spankings, Fetish Porn - SpankBang

I grew up in Greensboro, NC - the home of Wrangler jeans. Or at least it used to be; not sure if they’re still headquartered there. Had a pair of Wranglers on daily as a kid/ young man.

I’m not, but I just had an idea - a mobile spanking service; traveling the highways and byways of America doling out punishments to all the naughty boys and girls along the way! ?

You have a good mind for explaining rationalizations and the faulty reasoning behind them. As always, your posts are wise and thought-provoking. Thank you for sharing.

My husband gets three types of spanking from me maintenance, punishment and role play/ funishment. Maintenance spankings a weekly discussion of what I expect from him and reminder who is HoH ( 50 percent). Punishment correction for not following rules that we established (30 percent). Role play/ funishment spanking for when he has been a good husband. ( 20 percent). I believe all three have been beneficial for our marriage. Ms L

Oh Chawsee...I must admit I too love seeing a strong man's butt in wrangler jeans..and even more so if they are bare chested...with a heavy belt on....OR...with his hands on his belt buckle. For me...it triggers my submissive spankee trigger...lol...butt...it also triggers my ...hmm.....sexual arousal too! I am thinking for you it triggers your spanker desires, but I bet it triggers you in "other" ways too....lol...whewww!

Great point, Steve!

I certainly do not look down on or think less of those engaging in funishment...and I think from me being on this site...many do enjoy funishments immensely...and. i am happy for them. But...I admit I do not understand the concept myself... I guess the closest I get to funishment...at least at this point in my life....is the occasional out of nowhere orgasm I sometimes experience during a spanking...so far only a few times while being bare butt spanked hard over his knee.

Someone on another site said that she handled this by giggling and saying "My husband and I got a little too inspired by 50 Shades of Grey," and left it at that.