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  1. 3 points
    A good spaghetti. Goes well with the wine and candles. And they can have a good spumoni for dessert. If your friend still wants to know, do the thing that spanko kids do so well: get out the dictionary and open it to that page. You'll see all the other sp words. Surely there's something you can convince her you meant....
  2. 2 points
    It was about challenges that she and her boyfriend are having. I said, "Well you know, the one thing that could work wonders as a stress relief for both of you would be a good sp--------." Not my smoothest move. Then, naturally, she was pushing me to tell her what I was about to say. Even replaying it in my head makes me want to hide in a hole. Point taken. Though I, for one, am glad that you're known as a guy "who's always mentioning spanking." πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
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    Thank you for the welcome and most definitely thank you for commenting on my writing. Its long being a passion and I hope to one day attend Oxford University for an English degree. 🀞 Would I be over stepping my introduction if I spoke a little more? I've being looking around the forum and learning a little more. For as I said in my previous post, this is the first time, I've ever giving considerable thoughts on revealing this part of me. And as such, I've learned a lot more reading about other experiences spanking on this forum. Please in no way feel obliged to read this. Just after the last post, I thought I wouldn't post again. Yet I find myself dipping my toes into the pool and thinking about wading in a little more, both with questions and thoughts of my own. After considerable reading to understand my desire, I have the understanding that, spanking is definitely sexual for me. At least from being the one administering the spanking. The control of having a woman trust me enough to lay over my lap and to give up control is insanely arousing. The feeling of my finger tips gently stroking her bottom building up the anticipation before I start warming her up with soft spanks, with every few getting harder and harder until I find the rhythm she likes, is exactly the fantasy I picture. But it can never be for punishment, or maybe I should say serious punishment. It has to be mostly for pleasure, especially for her, I'm empathetic to a greater deal then most so I find the most arousing experiences from shared pleasure. I wonder is that normal? Now, I'm not one hundred percent sure that I want to do more then just write about it. I definitely don't want to experience it with a complete strange, I want to know someone on a greater level first and it's incredibly important that there is a lot of trust built up. But for now it was just nice to write my thoughts down πŸ™‚
  4. 2 points
    Poor girl doesn't know what she is missing.. I want both! πŸ‘‹πŸ˜°πŸ˜˜πŸ·πŸŽ‚
  5. 1 point
    Do you have different desires, or different standards, when it comes to who you'd consider having sex with vs who you'd consider being spanked by or giving a spanking to? When it comes to sex, I'm deeply monogamous and decidedly hetero. I can't do casual sex. I can't do friends with benefits. I can't do polyamory. I respect people who make those choices, but they're not for me. I really need to be close and committed to a partner. And while I don't find the idea of sex with another woman repulsive, it doesn't do the trick for me. I need something only a man can give me. I've only experienced adult spanking within one of those deeply committed, monogamous sexual relationships, but I realize it's probably not realistic to pin all my hopes for a future spanker on that hypothetical someone who meets all my partnership needs. On thinking about it, I don't think I really have quite as many standards for a spanking partner as for a sexual one. Even though spanking is a thoroughly sexual act for me. I can see myself having multiple spanking partners. I probably should, in fact, because everyone who spanks does it differently, and it would be good to experience more than one style. I don't necessarily need my spanker to be a man. I can see it being someone of any gender, if it's someone I just do spanking play with and not genital sex. I wouldn't expect them to be committed to me beyond what we're doing together. I would need to know my spanker(s) well enough, before we start playing, to feel I can trust them to spank me, but not necessarily at the level of emotional intimacy I need for sex. Anything unusual about that?
  6. 1 point
    Those of you who use a hair brush to discipline their wives or daughters .Here is a 4 step method I find very effective . Step #1 in a traditional otk spanking instead of using the flat side entirely start that way then turn the brush over and use the bristles to "polish " the naughty bottom.This is done between sessions of flat bottom spanking . A ratio of 10 to one works well. When the young ladys bottom is the desired color rub a good quality liniment on her cheeks . Go slow being sure to get in between the cheeks . Next have her put on rubber panties she will ask before too long to put on "Good girl " panties. If you feel the liniment has been on long enough send her to shower . Next administer a light enema ..Give her 3 to 5 insertions with a small bulb type syringe . After she is allowed to use the toilet the session is over when she thanks you for attention to her behavior .
  7. 1 point
    So many shows have spanking involded in it for humour. Makes you wonder. For example Family guy has a scene where lois stand up drops her pants and brian spanks her on her butt. There is also a scene where stewie gets hit and begins to like it. There is a scene where Tom tucker becomes peters dad.. LOL and spanks him. There is one where stewie spanks chris in the back seat of the car. There is a scene where donna (clevelands wife) puts chris over her knee and spanks him. There is a scene where lois telld peter to deal with chris but he is busy and tells chris to do it himself so he spanks himself. There is another scene where Tom Tuckers paddles Diane Simmons when the think the news is not airing. All Family guy. Then made by the same people American Dad has a scene where steve is spanked. Then francine gets spanked and in another one she gets spanked numerous times on the softball team and enjoys it. Maybe they are trying yo make spanking more mainstream and normalized. There is many other shows and movies that have stuff like that in it. It just surprises me how often I will have various random shows/movies on and something about spanking comes on.
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    Hello πŸ™‚ I hope nobody minds me posting here. This is actually the first time I've ever thought about speaking about this. I'm 29 years old and I've always fantasized about spanking a female. I'm not sure sure exactly when the thoughts first strarted. My earliest memory was being at a hairdresser and seeing a beautiful woman having her hair washed. She was being pampared but at the same she had giving up control and was being completely looked after by this man. To my young mind that was completely erotic and arousing. And I remember having thoughts from then on of the damsel in distress and looking after her and keeping safe a woman so completely. But eventually those thoughts started to include spanking. How they came I don't remember. But I remember being about sixteen years old and having a spanking fantasy. I kept picturing myself being gentle and loving and slowly lowering a woman over my lap spanking her and then when it was done I'd gently lift her up and tell her how proud I was of her. So for me the fantasy is to care so much and look after a woman so much that she can feel safe and loved with me, but when she's naughty or needs a release I can take control and spank her. That's my main fantasy. To this day I have not acted upon it. But sometimes the longing gets so strong. So I thought I'd share finally. Thank you for reading
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    Thank you @Bramblewine, I see what you mean. I think it would be the same for me. Though I don't know about spanking someone I wasn't in a relationship with. Though maybe if I get the chance to really know someone first πŸ€” When I was a little younger, I remember playing ping pong with a woman I was seeing and we started betting clothes when she said that if I won I could spank her. I remember being very excited about this. Alas we never finished the game I think that's the play and the pleasure, well that speaks for itself. Thank you for sharing.
  10. 1 point
    A Question of Friendship You said ask, but, Only when you are comfortable Did you know then, what it was I would ask? Because what I want, Is what I need. Are you able to give that to me? Are you ready? Willing? No more subtlety (well at least I’ll try). Command me to talk straight I will listen. I will listen, that is, if you are able. Can you? Can you be that friend I crave? The friend I trust? Implicitly? I’m sorry, I play games right now. Don’t let me. Please. Okay, I’ll ask it. 1…, 2…, 3…, Can you be there to console me When my world gets to dark. Let me rest my weary head Near a confident lap. Run your fingers through my hair Just so I know that someone is there. Can you be that comforting friend? Would you be there to scold me When I get to bratty. You know I am spoiled and mischevious And sometimes need a firm hand. I may be somewhat resistant, But don’t let me get away. You see, I know it is discipline that I crave. Can you, can we, separate work from play. Can you? Am I scaring you away? Can you trust that in return I will be there for you? Can we develop a different type of friendship? That trust I seek. Trust that none of this falls through. I don’t believe in all the rules society has placed My wants are different, more intense. Are you understanding me? In you I saw a spark, in you I saw a friend. In you I saw something My heart has always craved. Twice before this has surfaced, Twice before it was lost. So here I end with this final plea And wait and see. I ask for a friendship that goes beyond the norms. Can you be that friend to me. If I crossed the line, I apologize. I guess I read it wrong this time.
  11. 1 point
    Maybe she's already moonlighting as one.
  12. 1 point
    Wishing everyone a Fun and safe filled weekend.
  13. 1 point
    BINGO! This about sums it up with regards of women spanking men or f/m, doesn't work because spanking is about control, women grow up seeing men as authority figures and for them to get spanked just doesn't compute. Plus the other prior comments, in that its weird, abnormal, etc. I am so tired of reading this kind of thing that is certainly borderline abusive and is absolutely disrespectful. This is clearly a troll. Why are we even responding to it?
  14. 1 point
    What you wrote makes it look like you think F/m is weird or abnormal. If that' not correct, I'd be delighted to hear I misinterpreted your statement. If you DO feel like that, well, I guess I'd like to know that, too.
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    This is NOT what our forum is about. If you are going to come here to bash those who don't agree with you, we urge you to take your biased opinions elsewhere. This violates our forum's policies and will not be tolerated.
  16. 1 point
    *sigh... do I really have to get on my high horse again?! I feel like I'm doing a lot of scolding lately, and not in a fun way! But... and maybe I'm not reading this right... for a member of the spanking community to label any variation of spanking as "weird" because they're not into it is not cool. Look, maybe F/m doesn't compute for YOU, and that's fine. Ain't no one forcing you to engage in it. But to come here as a spanko and call me "weird" and "abnormal" because I like to go over a strong woman's knee is insulting. And wrong. Just stop it.
  17. 1 point
    Cavs, it's all pretend role play. As it should be. I wish people would stop asking if this is OK, and others would stop encouraging. Trying to pull family members into your kink when it's not theirs isn't OK. There are a lot of consenting adults, including professionals, who will role play your mommy or aunt very convincingly and, it seems to me, if you want to experience a parental spanking badly enough to risk destroying a real relationship, then you can shell out a couple hundred bucks for a pro.
  18. 1 point
    I was also curious about the reference you almost let slip... I've not found myself in this situation. At work I never mention it in any form, not even jokingly, because things are so strict nowadays about sexual harassment. Plus, I don't want to be known as the guy who's always mentioning spanking. I think outside of work I could easily let slip -- I don't have any friends (I don't think) who would be instantly offended. I wouldn't want to out myself, of course, but an idle slip of the tongue could be turned into a joke with no harm done. I think.
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    I think that there are a lot of conversations that are easier to have these days in general. IMO the advances made in liberation movements, gay, trans, race etc.. have enabled a lot of people to look beyond prejudices and judgements they hold and adopt a "live and let live" approach. Those opposing these societal shifts are more vocal but they are also being seen as divisive, marginal and bigoted. This reduces the risks of speaking up and also reveals a wonderful tapestry of all the kinks and differences we each have. It's a good thing, your antenna are down because you feel more secure. You''re loved, you're beautiful and you're different - we should all feel this.
  20. 1 point
    A lonely or out of place car invites investigation, so our car spankings used to be at the edge of the herd at a mall or other large parking area... not really possible during the pandemic! My wife's solution is that our chick stuck back in the nest sleeps late, and to contain the noise I get spanked in the backseat of the car in our garage!
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    Thinking of Halloween costume ideas😁😏
  22. 1 point
    Welcome Harrow, Always good welcome another Brit onboard ! I agree with @ChawseeYou are clearly caring and able to express yourself very well,I'm sure you will soon be able to act out your fantasy with a lucky young lady. Have fun ! Foxy.
  23. 1 point
    You resemble Foghorn Leghorn, that explains alot
  24. 1 point
    Hey. I resemble that remark!
  25. 1 point
    I am becoming more open with referencing it, even said I think one of my co-workers could get rich being a professional disciplinarian. (She told the New guy she wss going to put him over get knee and she scolds people often lol) I still don't say anything about ME being into our involved in spankings, but I am trying to relax the walls a little
  26. 1 point
    Do you mean a "spare the rod" devout traditional Christian? Or the Christian Domestic Discipline type? πŸ˜‚
  27. 1 point
    I figure to link any CDD relationship with the obvious way to go is to bring in the 4 D's, now I know some say defiance and others say danger - but I figure defiance and disobedience go hand in hand so will include danger in here. So what does the Bible say about Christian marriage and God's view on marriage and relationships? 1) Malachi 2:14-15: "But you say, 'Why does he not?' Because the LORD was witness between you and the wife of your youth, to whom you have been faithless, though she is your companion and your wife by covenant." First and foremost we are companions, partners in life. We are there to build each other up, give each other strength and pull each other through. 2) Genesis 2:24: "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." "Hebrews 13:4 Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous,." Secondly, God made a marriage between one man and one woman. Becoming one flesh is having any form of sexual intercourse - whether married in a church or not, once that path is taken in the Spirit we are married. As we sleep with a partner we create a bond in them, a tie and therefore even a one-night stand and then move on creates ties within up, bonds that we take onto the next 'partner'. God made us as faithful beings who require trust, honesty and honesty from one another. 3) Ecclesiastes 4:12: "Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken." The third strand? Christ! A marriage without Christ is never going to be as strong, never going to have been built on a foundation of rock. Since right and wrong is defined by God, and all good points to God (God's not dead explains this wonderfully), it is only reasonable to state that the goodness in a marriage is going to come from God. 4) Ephesians 5:22-33 "Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word," Like any organisation, whether it be a country, a charity or a marriage there needs to be leadership. God doesn't lead by control but by example (Jesus, the perfect example) and he expects man to do the same. So bearing the nature of Christian marriage - does domestic discipline come into that? No, not necessarily - there is no place in the Bible where God says 'man shall spank his wife, and wife shall be grateful', but discipline is a natural and innate part of human nature - one that is quickly being forgotten - but is still there! All that in mind, how can we apply Biblical concepts to CDD then? Disrespect - God created a natural order - God is head over the church (group of people not a building), man is head over his wife and household and woman should willingly submit herself to her husbands leadership. To be submissive and to be rude and disrespectful is like to be a wall made of ice cream. God requires our submission, and our submission means that we need to have respect for the authority that He has given man over us. If we cannot respect our man without thought, we are not with the man God intended us to be with, we are not being truly submissive and we are not bringing honour to God and our marriage. Dangerous - 1 Corinthians 6:19 Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; If Christ is within us, why would we put ourselves or others in danger. God's temple is a place of respect, a place to be cherished and cared for. Whether that's physically dangerous behaviour, or dangerous thoughts against oneself - if God is within us, do we really have any right to pull ourselves down? Are we being truly loving to our husband, children, friends and family if we're willing to cause pain and grief to them by silly or unsafe behaviour? Dishonesty - Zechariah 8:16-17 "These are the things which you should do: speak the truth to one another; judge with truth and judgment for peace in your gates. Also let none of you devise evil in your heart against another, and do not love perjury; for all these are what I hate,’ declares the Lord.” Honesty is such an integral part of trust which is the foundation a relationship is built on. Honesty is declaring our love, honour and respect for the person we are talking to and dishonesty is showing our belittling of their feelings, trust and our respect for them. Lying often comes from fear, but when a relationship is built on Christ's values (love, honour and obedience) then honesty will naturally align itself. Disobedience - Hebrews 13:17 "Have confidence in your leaders and submit to their authority, because they keep watch over you as those who must give an account. Do this so that their work will be a joy, not a burden, for that would be of no benefit to you." Can I really say it better then that - nope. I think the Bible is a pretty good note to end on!
  28. 1 point
    Hello Harrow! From London, eh? Fantastic! You will soon discover that you are in good company here. First off, I must applaud you for your writing skills. It is nice to see this in the younger generation, as writing ability here in the US is in serious decline. It is disheartening how poorly many of our younger people express themselves. But you give us hope that this skill is still being taught in some parts of the world. As for spanking, you are what I consider the best kind of spanker-- the caring, nurturing kind. Some young lady will be delighted to find a quality man like you who will discipline her in a tender, caring way. It's so good to have you join us!
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    Aka how to poke the bear 😳
  30. 1 point
    Not into it. But different strokes....
  31. 1 point
    For me it's men, and men only. They're the only gender I'm attracted to. Beyond attraction, I tend to understand guys and I've always had more male friends than female friends. But as much as I enjoy male company, I do not engage in casual sex or friends-with-benefits situations. Some people can separate spanking from sexual arousal, and I admire that ability, maybe because I don't have it. For me, spanking is woven right into my sexuality, so the idea of spanking (or being spanked by) other women is repulsive to me. But that's just me. There are plenty of folks here who experience it differently, and who I respect. I require emotional intimacy with a man before I will consider him as a spankee. So building a friendship of connection and trust first is paramount, and as @OnlySolutions mentioned, there is a chemistry to it. Either this chemistry exists, or it doesn't. I've mentioned before that spanking, in some ways, is more intimate than sex. This is a sacred practice to me, so that's why I'm so particular about the partners I choose.
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    I love to feel my panties being taken down for me once I am over a man's knee rather than doing it myself as it helps me to feel like a naughty girl and know I am about to have my bare bottom spanked good and proper.
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    Could not agree more! Spanking and social distancing do not go hand in hand! This topic caught my eye because I believe that structure is so important. Ive never really had more time for exercise, yoga and meditation and not only am I taking advantage, Ive scheduled it in. Great topic!
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    Arm lengths is not good enough. It’s suppose to be at min 6 feet away. Which is why it’s not safe. So it’s just not safe right now buddy. When this all passes, I hope your able to find what you need.
  36. 1 point
    It was long due. Her ass was plugged during this spanking and she received it in her car. Wish I had a better angle for this pic when I took it lol. Her face was also covered with a bag. I do need a better camera for these because it looks a lot worse in person then it does in this pic. Her tears were icing on the cake.

    © Krrish

  37. 1 point
    My normal day to day life is structured in an unusual way as I work odd shift patterns and fit my music and studying around that. With this current situation I try to do a focused 2 hours work in the morning and then break up the day into little tasks and downtimes during the afternoons and weekends. I've had struggles with mental health ( depression and ptsd ) in the past so am aware of pacing myself but not procastinating too much.
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    We didnt have a D/S marriage, and sometimes I struggle to understand the specific dynamics involved. We had more of a playful, erotic relationship but that doesn't mean we didnt both surrender our hearts to each other and it was then that the walls would come down. He would never want me to surrender total control or will and I never wanted that from him. What made that beautiful entity called "us" was when we EACH surrendered our individual souls totally to the other. Poor example, but one I recently discovered: baking soda and vinegar alone does nothing; combine the two and say goodbye to Mr. Drano and Mr Plunger!!!
  40. 0 points
    Just because I seem confused doesn't mean I am confused.
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