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  1. I have a few- 2 hairbrushes (1 wooden, 1 plastic) A ruler A Slipper A Wooden bathbrush A belt, only used for spanking The wooden hairbrush and the bathbrush seem to be ones for the more severe spankings. I like having items that can 'fit in' wherever they go around the house, and all of these do.
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  2. You know it’s been one of those days when you notice at 4 in the afternoon that your shirt is inside out. Luckily tomorrow is Friday 126
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  3. “Please! I’m sorry, I won’t do it again!” Emma pleaded as Mark led her back in the house with a firm grasp on her upper arm. “I’m gonna make sure of it!” Mark said sternly. They had been outside working in the yard of their newly built home when Emma had earned herself a spanking. While she was submissive to her husband, she always found it hard to hold her tongue when he wasn’t doing things the way she thought they should be done. She’d been spanked for nagging and nitpicking many times before. This time Mark was fed up. He was determined to teach his wife a lesson.
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  4. I answer to a Sir and a Ma'am who are life partners. They live about a hour from me in a different state. The pandemic and the lockdown have been very hard on us, in part because I live with a relative who is a health care worker and at high risk of getting covid, and they live with Sir's dad who is elderly and has health conditions that put him at high risk. I realize that staying apart is the right thing to do right now, to make sure everyone stays safe and healthy. Even still, I am badly missing the love, structure, and discipline I get from the couple who cares for me, and I know they
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  5. 124 - My weekend has started!!
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  6. wow very well written disiplined hard to get the point across and then remorse and forgivness as it should be
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  7. I have a friend who wants an opinion on a spanking story he just wrote. Please leave your comments below. A STORY: A GIRL NEXT DOOR WHO FOUND Tabitha, a young looking girl in her early 30's spun gravel as she backed out the driveway and peeled down the road in front of her house. " He just doesn't understand me and he's always pissing me off” she exclaimed as she kept on down the road, barely missing a red light By this time Carl, a new neighbor next door had gotten to the window, but all he saw was the dust settling at the end of t
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  8. Hello, I am interested in sincere, non-sexual, motherly discipline. I live in Michigan and I am relatively new to the lifestyle.
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  9. We were often threatened with being "spanked to within an inch of your life" which I thought meant "nearly to death". Clearly an exaggeration but it still meant a really severe spanking!
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  10. It works like this (with the right partner). You do some outrageous misbehavior or major rule break that gets your partner really pissed off at you, something that at the same time makes you feel guilty and stupid for having done it. Then perhaps whatever dom component your partner has will emerge and straighten you out with a mega-painful ass-on-fire spanking. You will find it in you to submit because deep down you know you deserve it and also know you will feel better after the deed is done. Retribution and atonement can work both ways. Is it easy to learn to submit when you are mostly
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  11. Yup, been there done that. Scrubs. And not one of my fart knocker co-workers said a thing!
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  12. Yes I do! And we've all been there... 124
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  13. How would that be? We don’t use our email addresses to communicate here.
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  14. I bought the first two off Amazon, but they broke so quickly. Maybe I'm not getting the right kind or they're made of the wrong type of wood or something? I'm also in Canada so the online selection is unfortunately not quite the same. I'll give eBay and Etsy a look. Thanks for the tip!
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  15. I found this unexpectedly today. It’s a couple of years old, but another example of how there’s been lots written about spanking in traditional media publications. i’m confident that we get so wrapped up around worrying that someone will find out, that we become a self for filling prophecy. There’s so much out there about spanking now that I’m beginning to think if someone has a problem with it, it’s their problem, not mine. https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a28396/spanking-therapy/ Here’s another from the same magazine, entitled, “ I Hold a Ph.D. in Psychology, but I Hel
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  16. Amazon has got a heck of a nice selection of wooden hairbrushes. eBay and Etsy do, too.
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  17. I have 7 implements at the moment: A leather strap, a leather paddle (both from Cane-iac), a leather belt, a wooden spoon, and a bamboo paddle with holes. I also have a plastic ruler, and a... sigh...'love paddle'. You know, the kind you get from a sex store with the word "LOVE" actually cut out? 🤦‍♂️ I don't really use these two, especially the paddle which does nothing for me anymore. I mean, you could spank me for hours with it, and I'd probably still be bored. I also had a riding crop and a wooden hairbrush, but unfortunately broke both. I then replaced the hairbrush and bro
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  18. I just "culled the herd," reducing my collection from 14 implements down to 3. There were some beautiful oak and walnut paddles in that collection, but every once in awhile my spirit needs to purge my earthly possessions and start anew. (Never met a minimalist? You have now-- ha! ) Imagine the shock the employees at the thrift store must have felt when they unloaded my donation box of clothes, only to find, buried at the bottom, wood paddles, silicone paddles, a leather paddle, a belt, and a big, stout 3-finger tawse... I now have two Miss Rose wooden implements-- a 1/2"-thick Bubi
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  19. Back to the original post. Anytime a spankee wants to walk away from a session for any reason, she should be able to. That's absolute. I don't care if she's given her spanker complete control or whatever term is used these days. She should get up and walk away, and there should be no trouble from the spanker. He has the right, of course, not to deal with her in the future if he so wants. But it's real, there's no question about that.
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  20. Nice depiction of the battle between wills of an ee and ER, with the ee not ready to concede (yet).
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  21. Require the spankee to maintain eye contact with you during the lecture. End the discussion with something like, "Do you know what's about to happen to you? Why don't you tell me....." Make sure he/she uses the "s" word. It is painfully embarrassing for the spankee to have to look you in the eyes and utter, "You're going to give me a spanking."
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  22. (The following mostly only applies to folks who have intense, deep-seated needs related to spanking. If you just like a few love pats in the bedroom now and then, no one is out to get you. So don’t worry.) I am relatively out about my fascination with spanking, but for a variety of reasons, the potential consequences of exposure are comparatively slight for me. I am 100% a spankee rather than a spanker, and am therefore supposedly some kind of sick victim instead of some kind of sick predator. I am also not somebody—particularly not a cis male somebody—-whose livelihood or person
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  23. Some people want a “consensual non-consent” situation where the ee agrees to put themselves under their partner’s total control so long as the relationship lasts. Even then they have a choice, though—they can leave the relationship. So pretty much all of us have some way to stop a spanking—or at least exit a spanking relationship. Does that make our spankings not “real?” Well ... compared to what? Compared to your experience when you were 3 and your mom used to whack you, and you couldn’t leave home because without her caretaking you’d literally die? If that’s the experience yo
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  24. I am just ridiculously submissive. I can be put in a submissive space so easily that I really have to watch out for it. It’s a little like falling in love, but not necessarily with a sexual component. When I want to submit to someone, I want to be around them, I want to serve them, I want to just sit there and adore them. I will want to do just about anything they tell me to do. I’ve been like this as long as I can remember. You can imagine how dangerous it can be for a child or teenager to be like this, especially if they don’t understand their feelings or perhaps aren’t even
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  25. I am separated from my caregivers by the lockdown, and they are both so stressed they are not currently able to keep up with directing and disciplining me, even remotely. I know this is nobody’s fault, it’s just reality, but I still feel abandoned and heartbroken and aimless. Obviously it’s not just a lack of spankings that is the problem—although those do help me keep mentally stable and behaviorally on track. These are people I’ve been very involved with—dependent on—for over 2 years, and it’s like they’re just gone. I’m kind of devastated, actually. It looks like a former mentor can he
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  26. I used to be very, very embarrassed about my need to be spanked, and kept it as secret as I could manage. Then I got involved with my Sir, who enjoys telling people that he builds dungeon furniture in his parents’ driveway. He is not lying about this. We are in a 24/7 D/s relationship, which means I relate to him as “Sir” all the time. This is a thing people notice. There are also things I have to do or can’t do as part of my rules, and people notice that, too. So instead of letting people speculate and come up with something much worse than the truth, I just told everyone. I don’t actu
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  27. I’ve seen spanking videos where the ee broke down and shed obviously-real tears. It looks painful for the butt, but cathartic for the heart and soul. I wish I could do it, honestly. At times in the past I’ve felt real shame and remorse during a spanking, and I’ve certainly felt a lot of physical pain. But no waterworks. I love my Sir to pieces and he loves me, so it’s not that. I dunno. Maybe I’m a psychopath. 😛 Actually sometimes I wonder whether people are just wired for different emotional reactions. I can certainly feel very, very sad. I’m a lifelong depressive, actually. Bu
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  28. I haven’t done corner time in quite a while, but the few times I did it was actually before a spanking. It sent my anxiety absolutely through the roof—close to panic attack territory. It was awful, but I can see it being appropriate for more serious offenses, especially for things I’ve been punished for before. I admit that I’m curious about what kind of effect corner time might have on me in the middle of a spanking or at the end. Maybe I’ll try it out as part of a role play sometime.
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  29. Definitely. It makes me feel on the verge of exposure. There's this sense that I might reveal myself through how I say it, like my voice might unintentionally stress the word and make my fetish obvious to everyone. Much worse when I was a kid, I felt like I would have revealed both an obsession and my vulnerability to it. Why is "spank" so much more potent than "whip" or "paddle" or "belt" or whatever? Not sure, but the other terms seem a bit more limited to the physical act and the sensations, while "spank" somehow seems broader than that. It brings with it imagery of being emotionally o
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  30. I use an online journal and gave him access. For us it's where I can tell him what I've done when I can't say it directly to him. I write about whatever is on my mind. Sometimes my words hurt and we talk about it. Often he doesn't tell me if he's read it at all and I've made it a point to write as if no one is reading. I want to be ridiculously open with him and so far it's helped.
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  31. I journal and yes he reads it. It doesn't necessarily have to do with broken rules, punishments, etc. Its a way for me to unload and for him to know what's going on in my head. I write about every day things in my life, about problems I am facing, about happy things, things I'm excited about, things I need or want help with, etc. There is nothing I can't tell him or talk to him about so I just put my thoughts on paper and he reads it. Some times we discuss all of it and there are times when there is no discussion needed. I have used my journal to communicate difficult things with hi
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  32. I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole. Just gross.
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  33. She can come to my house to get that spanking she needs at any time.
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