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  1. At least as it relates to spanking my story is little different from many of yours: fixated on the topic from an early age, keeping a sharp ear out for any mention while also feeling acutely uncomfortable when it is mentioned, looking it up in the dictionary, looking for stories or accounts where it is mentioned, etc. It has both fascinated and disturbed me. Disturbing because I immediately knew I was vulnerable to it and that threatened my pose of autonomy and also disturbed me because of how obsessed I was with it. I'm one of the many who was comforted by the internet making it clear ho
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  2. Welcome, Wide_Eyed! So much of what you said here resonates with me, and with many others, too, I'm certain. So glad you joined us.
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  3. Cheater cheater pumpkin eater!!!!!! That is not One word!!! Shame on you for getting on HannahKae and u try to do the same thing. Hers can be considered one word with the hypen. Dermit for AG hehehe Long
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  5. So, work is pretty quiet during this social distancing thing we are doing, so I thought I would try my hand and writing a story. Hope you like it: THE day has finally come. As you wake up, it’s the first thing on your mind and you wonder how much sleep you got as the thought of you being over my knee kept you up thinking about it last night: how will it go, will you have the nerve to go through with your first spanking, will you like it after all this time thinking about it, so many things racing through your mind… As you make your way to the coffee shop where we first met yo
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  6. I know the feeling, I went to bed early as well and actually slept for 7 hours. First time I have slept over 4 hours in weeks!! 112
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  7. AG is banned because if he thinks his sentence gived the next person anything to work with he is mistaken.
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  8. I almost posted a number, but it might have been too soon. So I harrassed the EE above me instead.
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  9. Mostly no, though I have told 2 of my closest friends... They didn't quite understand our dynamic and thought I was just talking about "getting freaky in bed" but it felt so good to tell them. My mother accidentally found out I call my husband Daddy😬 but she doesn't know the exact dynamic or anything. Other than previous ER's and one night stands though, no one else knows. But I'm not against people knowing. I'm not really ashamed or embarrassed by it.
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  10. I guess we are a bit different. Perhaps because it is my second 24/7 DD relationship and combined it is about 20 years. Some of our friends have 'discovered' our lifestyle and have been indifferent about it, which is good. In this current relationship (over 11 years) we do not broadcast our lifestyle, but if someone finds out and asks, we are OK in discussing it. None of my family knows, but I think one of my brothers has a idea. On her side it is different. That family were BDSM and spanking toy makers and vendors at shows. I worked for the family before I met my current life partner w
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  11. If we’re honest with ourselves... ... unless we’re getting to know a person, and what their needs and desires regarding discipline/spanking are, and where the come from— then we’re really just talking in code. Over the years I’ve chatted with people on line who either asked for what amounted to brutality— or offered it. Yes, some people play hard, and some people want and need that, but it’s not even about severity. You can tell because the language is all about pain. Nothing about the social or psychological aspects of discipline. They are talking around those aspects. It’s really a
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  12. No, I’m not. I keep this part of my life private. Friends / Family are very likely not to understand. Some come out to others, for me personally, this is private for me. Spanking is not sexual to me. But as an example, people don’t usually discuss their sex life with family/friends in detail (some may lol). I’m a believer in, as long as things are consensual, what goes on behind closed doors, belongs behind closed doors.
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  13. It’s really nobody’s business. It is like talking about what I do with my lady love in bed— there has to be a very good reason... or else it’s just really ugly. But there are reasons. Spanking, discipline come up. Even BSDM, which I am not into. Other kinks. Sometimes it’s really helpful to put oneself out on a limb. Hey man, I did that— got any questions? The other thing, it was was often not in my primary committed relationship. So one can be risking “outing” somebody. Outing anybody for anything isn’t cool.
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  14. I would not enter into a dating relationship with some one who was not a spanker now. In hind sight, I should have done that in my previous marriage. If I had gotten my bottom blistered along with some other discipline, things would have been much better. Also I am not adverse to giving a spanking if needed
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  15. Gravano comes the closest to answering this question the way that I would. With all due respect to Michael Masterson and other disciplinarians who "spank for punishment", it is STILL the spankee who calls the shots. Unless I woke up in a country where slavery is legal, spankers have NO power that their spankee doesn't give them. None. Zero. Nada. I spank, and it is solely non-sexual/sensual. Platonic service top, if one likes those clinical terms that are so often used to classify people. But, even when delivering a blistering spanking intended to be felt for days, there is always a
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  16. My Daughter-in-law tested negative for the virus so I finally got to see my grand kids today. I'm one happy Grandma.
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  17. I have come to see discipline as a form of relationship. Two parties come together with their own experiences. We have histories that form us. In the context of discipline this might be the discipline received at home, or becoming aware of discipline as a "thing". Through shared stories, the media. Images. Once we start engaging in adult discipline we have more stories. Giving and/or taking. Successes, horrible failures. Even humor. As in any relationship, regardless of whether it is an intimate relationship or a friendship, we need to listen to eachother and honor and respect eachother's
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  18. Hi there! My name is Alice and i’m 23. Ive been looking for either someone my age, or someone older that can give me regular discipline and spankings. I am wanting a domestic discipline situation with someone my age or around my age. but if older, i would like a spanking only situation. i am looking for severe spankings! i am located in MD and my kik is alicem0606 if you want to talk more! can’t wait to chat!! Alice
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  19. Having been "married folk" for a long time, I did my dating in high school and college, at a time after the sexual revolution peaked and when we had not yet heard of AIDS (HIV), which was just being discovered by the medical community in gay men and IV drug abusers. For us the third date was likely to involve first sex, and was too soon to seriously discuss a long-term relationship. I never had "the talk" you describe, in fact the closest to it occurred quite a few years after I was married and several years after my wife started giving me serious discipline spankings! We addressed what had ev
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  20. I'm single with very little dating opportunity in my area, but I have definitely given this a lot of thought. For me, I want to disclose this within 3--5 dates in. On one side, I want to get to know the other person a bit first on other fundamental levels aside from spanking. I want to see if we even have the potential of it possibly going somewhere before I bring that into the conversation. On the other hand, while there are other more important factors in a relationship, this is a need that I won't make myself live without for someone else...I couldn't personally do that. It's a deep, i
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  21. hello everyone..another UK member here!
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  22. Thanks for sharing your personal situation. I would fully agree that there is a particular marriage of that psychological component which I'm sure stems from your childhood, and the physical burning, stinging pain of the spanking you're receiving. You need to experience both together in order to really fulfill what your heart is yearning for. It's not even that you want to intentionally do things which would cause you to deserve a spanking, but you know that there are reasons why this is something you deeply deserve. There's a very particular process by which the embarrassing punishment you kn
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  23. For me there has always been a strange fascination in seeing someone become electrified with emotions and arousal at the same time, as a result of their anticipation of their spanking, during the spanking or even after it. These various stages of the punishment process each have their own unique elements which I believe contribute to the overall experience for the person being spanked. I personally have never had an interest in angrily or forcefully spanking someone, as it is much more intriguing for me when I know the person I'm spanking (or witnessing being spanked) is actually yearning for
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  24. I thought some of you might want to see a photo of someone besides me. I’ve been getting some positive responses to my posts. Glad I can post something nice to look at. Looking forward to participating on the other forums!
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  25. I was feeling very sad and vulnerable after some posts on here that really got to me...even made me cry. So I kind of disappeared into my cocoon for a while. Eventually I felt better. I know I kind of overreacted but talking about my spanking interests on the internet with strangers is still very new for me and also I now realize I kind of regress when thinking about spanking so my adult emotions and judgment aren't totally engaged... Anyway I made some art about how I was feeling coming out of my cocoon...so here it is. And also I made a little FAQ to answer all your questions about this art
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  26. The effectiveness of a punishment isn't a good indicator of whether or not it's good. There are plenty of effective punishments. "If you don't want to do the time, don't do the crime" also isn't an indicator of whether or not a punishment is good. Anyway...I think writing can be beneficial when it really encourages thought. I also don't think there should be any opinions being expressed. If I ever found find someone I'm in charge of using drugs...I'm going to expect a balanced research paper on the pros and cons of doing those drugs, and (especially) the risks. What are the long-term eff
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  27. Hmmm an interesting idea yet so many problems could arise from it. What would the criteria be in order to be an instructor? There are so many different reasons people get spanked and different ways in which to spank. Various pain levels, emotional states, positions, the strength of the spanker, etc. I don't know how it would possibly all be covered properly to fit one group. Nor how you would cover the legal aspects of it all.
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  28. Ohh yeah. These sting a lot! But I love them xD
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  29. My wife also has an antique ebony hairbrush. It is definitely much scarier than it looks. It's so heavy, and she can swing it so much faster than most implements. Especially if she's angry with me.
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  30. My wife uses one similar on my bottom when either she or myself think a good long hard spanking is needed, and believe me she can reduce me to tears with it in a very short time, which of course she completely ignores and spanks on until she thinks it's a job well done.
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