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  1. I just began reading Sex with Shakespear and can't put the book down. (Thank you to those here on SN who recommended it!) I like Jillian Keenan's insights and I agree with everything she said in the video above. I was born with a spanking fetish; my former husband was not. He got into the game with me because it aroused me so much that it made for dynamite sex. It did work for us, so it's certainly possible. If your mate enjoys it at least some of the time, you're not entirely doomed. But for me, spanking was/is a MUST. For him, it was something he went along with for the fringe benefit it pro
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  2. This is a guide I wish had existed before I got my first punishment spanking. I was very ignorant, and very terrified! I'm posting it here so I can link to it next time I see one of those "I'm going to get my first spanking--Halp!!" threads. If you want to copy and send it to a new ee or just post it somewhere, please go ahead. You don't have to credit me. So you entered into a power exchange relationship with someone. You agreed on rules and consequences. Maybe you thought those consequences would never come to pass, but here you are. Your top, dom, Daddy, or whoever you answer to
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  3. I took my 15 min's and broke it into 1 min increments just to cancel out your scores. My boss said that was a fine hobby 108
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  4. Each one has been tested very well
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  5. Hi Everyone! I'm grateful to have found you guys. Just joined and am learning my way around. (Sure hope I'm posting this in the right place.) Like many of you, I've kept this "secret" for most of my life (over 40 years), and it can feel lonely at times. I finally came to terms with my need to build friendships with like-minded folks. I've visited umpteen forums, but this one had a noticeably nicer feel to it-- wholesome, trustworthy, safe. I'm not into other forms of BDSM, just spanking. Hope to meet y'all. Thanks for accepting me. :)
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  6. An essential collection there John!
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  7. Ready for a late night, lets win this EE’s!
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  8. Think I am going to have to get COL to change my username. Thinking about Bestlittlegirlintheworld. This badgirl thing is to hard to pull off😂
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  9. LongTimeSpanking covered so many good points, and I agree completely with what he said. To add my two cents, even though some spankings are not intended to be sexual, there is always, at least for me, a sexual undertone (I won't act on it, but I'm feeling it.) I therefore have no interest in spanking or being spanked by another woman. As to answering your question, I can vouch that we women are capable of delivering a mighty disciplinary session. Some spankers, both male and female, are downright cruel. I'm not referring to the physical technique so much as the psychological coercion. A spanke
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  10. My only experiences with male spankers were in high school where our official school disciplinarian was a male, and I was also spanked by at least one male teacher. For disciplinary spankings outside of that situation, I have only had female spankers. It's never been sexual for me, but I am not interested at all in exposing my body to a male as an adult for purposes of being spanked. I do find that some female disciplinarians are very strict and can be quite intense. Anyone seeking a spanking should find someone to work with that they are compatible with on an emotional level, and
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  11. Ah this is the big conundrum in many relationship issues where one has a need that the other is reluctant or won't provide... I freely admit I was a spanko years before I got involved with my wife but reticence on my part and inability to come to terms with that part of my life I continued my self spanking practices. Neither my wife and I had had reams of partners prior to us falling for each other so early on we tried many things out as we found what turned each other on experimenting as we went! Prior to the arrival of our children we spent many happy hours together because it
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  12. OK, a huge IF here........... maybe a couple of IF's.......... IF you are good enough friends that you have already skirted around the subject without asking directly and had zero bad repercussions, and IF you believe that what she has said about nothing you could say or do changing your friendship, then it's time to cautiously kick it up a notch. Figure out a way to talk to her at a time when you are away from work and in a relaxed situation, and tell her that you are really feeling the need/want to be spanked is strong enough that you would like to act on it, and find a person who
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  13. Maybe he doesn' t want his walker squashed when he accidently lets her slip off his frail lap???!!!
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  14. You really believe that, FF? I think Granddaddy there wants a bit more than spanking. He might feel rather sprightly for 76! Good on him but he needs to be upfront if he wants more...
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  15. Probably a good guess. I’m a short guy with limited lap but not THAT limited!
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  16. Maybe he is a teeny tiny guy and he has a small lap ? 💁‍♂️ I dunno just surmising. 🤷‍♂️
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  17. @Jaded was thinking same thing myself. What does being fit have to do with Spanking?
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  18. I can't always cry Crying is a sign of truly giving in.............I've cried from a hand spanking and been barely anything from a paddle...........it's all about trust.......and I sooo crave the cry and stress release and .........power exchange........
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  19. It can work provided that both people are able to understand each other's viewpoints and respectfully talk about their differences. My wife is quite vanilla and doesn't like to be spanked, but she is willing to allow me to spank others, and she is OK being spanked playfully. I would never ask to spank her hard because I know she doesn't like that and she has made it clear that she doesn't understand why people would want to be spanked like that. However, she does accept that it's possible for people to want to be spanked and to enjoy it even if it hurts. She has spanked me on occasion, and ca
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  20. When starting a relationship, I think the ee should choose what they want to work on. Then I set the rules from there. As things progress, I think it’s fine to add safety rules that should be obvious (no texting driving (pet peeve of mine). Or health reasons (keeping important dr appts. Etc.) I’m not into micromanaging. Don’t have time for it, and the ee needs to WANT to change said behaviors, or it will never work.
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  21. I think it best when my female spanker tells me in a very stern, non-nonsense tone to "pull down your pants". Sure I could resist and say no, or turn and run , but its because she has me totally captivated and in her control that I don't. The fact that she make me complicit in this spanking by following her instructions and pulling my pants down in front of her on her command, knowing she is about to spank me, just adds to her authority and her right to spank me. It is over the top embarrassing and a testament to her power when she tells me in that direct way to "pull down your pants" in fr
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  22. I’m kinda weird about this. If my ER is a female, she can either strip me bare or tell me to undress. But if I were to go see a male ER, I wouldn’t want him taking off my clothes. I would have to do it myself.
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  23. Sorry I've just started singing the title of this thread to the tune of Judas Priests Breaking the Law ...
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  24. I've had both but the most effective version I had was being told to drop my trousers and then have the spanker pull my underpants down.
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  25. Dana Delany, as in Exit to Eden. Lousy movie, but it had a pretty hot 5 minutes.
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