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  1. Hey All, I have a few questions in regards to the spanking community and what are the biggest issues to someone who is interested in spanking. I tried to add as many options as I could think up, but feel free to share any comments or options you can think of that are important to you. Personally, I feel like BDSM has encompassed most of the community and spanking is a niche within a niche, so it doesn't bring enough tractions. Do you agree or are there more pressing issues? Thanks for your help!
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  2. Wishing Everyone A Happy New Year. May 2020 be a great one for every one. Stay safe folks.
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  3. Ask them. Be honest. "I feel we are close to the end of this punishment- how many more do you feel you deserve? " "I dont want to push you too far, I need to you be honest donyou feel youve been punished enough?" Take a corner break stand here to think about what youve done and when I bring you out Id like to know if you feel youve been thouroughly spanked, learned your lesson, would feel better if we continued ect wct , bring them out, make eye contact and ask them.
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  4. Happy new years. Hope everyone have safe new year party
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  5. Ive never let them be seen on purpose but twice in the army it happened. (Once in a medical physical and once in morning pt when i didnt wear the biker shorts under my pt shorts) and once in a medical emergency recently because those damn gowns never stay closed. No one said anything and While i was dying inside of embarrassment I just went on with my day. But in 13 years of consistent real life adult "play" those are my only 3 experiences and even if anyone had something to say about it a simple wink and "it was consentual" would shut them up quickly. 😂🤷‍♀️
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  6. It would be acceptable to show these marks to others in the spanking scene but I see absolutely no benefit to show them to anyone who would not understand. It would be the same as forcing our lifestyle onto others.
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  7. I have no real advice on how to convince her to try, but I want to offer my sympathies for what you are going through. My now ex-husband asked me flat out if I would consider therapy to rid myself of the urge after I had finally worked up the nerve to share my needs with him, so I know how much that hurts. I hope you are able to come to a resolution you both are comfortable with.
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  8. She told her friends about your spanking fetish? That's horrible.
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  9. a good one https://www.spankingtube.com/video/90955/a-firm-correction-for-her-bad-attitude-pt-1
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  10. @Becka, I got you a paddle for all of us based on how much punishment we deserve. 1. @candyapplered 2. @shygurl 3. @michgal.k 4. @gingerlee
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  11. Often from the tops perspective it’s a mixture of a positive feeling from being in control and some other primal sexual energy. For some it seems to be more one of those than another. If someone tells you there isn’t anything sexual about it to them I would approach that with caution. Not that it isn’t possible but more likely they’re trying to lie to you to put you at ease. Better that you find someone honest about what they’re getting out of it on their end.
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  12. This seems like a good intro/explanation video:
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