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  1. Cause Mommy knows just what you need...
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  2. I'm curious if there is anyone here who is effected emotionally and sexually by the actual act or even just the thought of being spanked/punished? There have always been scenarios in my mind in which I envision someone becoming very emotional, perhaps even crying as they think about how much they deserve to be spanked/disciplined....and the intense arousal they are feeling as they think about this causes them to become intensely aroused. So there becomes this powerful marriage of intense emotions and burning arousal which causes them to masturbate feverishly. I love the thought of seeing someone reach this state, where even just the thought or description of the punishment he or she deserves bring them to a powerful, emotional climax. If this sounds like you, maybe we can share thoughts. Perhaps this is a connection you've needed to find for a long time.
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  3. I thought that everyone would enjoy this random punishment generator go here.
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  4. Mainly I expect honesty and respect. I expect them to disclose if they broke a rule. To be addressed as Ma’am, when/if we are discussing serious things. (Rules, during lecture). I expect them to listen, because I would never ask anything unreasonable of them. I’m not the type that wants someone to serve me , sexually/non sexually. If they want to just help me with something or do something nice , that’s appreciated. Just as I believe rewarding them for good behavior is something I should do.
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  5. There is definitely no need for frontal exposure for a spanking. An Er should respect an EE enough to use full discretion. If the couple is in an intimate relationship, that’s different. Exposing a bare bottom is embarrassing. I think spanking bare bottom helps the ER to watch the bottom for marks, they would not see otherwise. I would be fine spanking someone who didn’t want their bare bottom exposed. I believe their limits and rules should be respected above all else. They could always wear a thong, or underwear could be pushed towards middle, if they are ok with that. If they absolutely want their whole bottom covered, I would spank lighter, since I couldn’t see if they were marking/bruising. Not all spankings have to be all that hard to satisfy some people’s needs. Others need a hard spanking to be satisfied. All of this should be discussed, before the first spanking ever takes place. A spankee should NEVER feel pressured to do something they aren’t comfortable with, just to feel they are making their ER happy. We must remember, the Spankee holds all the power, regarding who they choose to spank them, who they submit to, and they also choose their limits, which should ALWAYS be respected.
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  6. Lots of bottoms in the NE need and get attention. I'm a switch. You might try the search button, upper right on the page, for folks near you. Good luck. I've met a lot of good people here. I've met 'ees here and found my 'er.
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  7. Welcome to the site. Stay safe!
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  8. That’s very true, good point!
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  9. Pain wise probably but spanking also involves emotional and mental connection and energy as well as physical... soo short answer...kinda CP
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  10. I have had some success using the "silver daddies" website. It is a gay dating site and 99% of the people on there are not spankers. It just takes time culling out the prospects. I tried fetlife for a couple years, going to the munches, sloshes and the like. My problem was my age. There are very few seniors on fet in this area and the kids don't want to play with people who are their fathers age.
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  11. For our female *south paw* spankers out there.
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  12. I'm not sure that the scolding actually requires raising ones voice. In fact I believe it's more the tone of delivery that gets the point across best. There is a sort of maternal tone that causes naughty ones to sit up and realize they screwed up that goes much further than yelling or raising their voice.
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  13. For me, scoldings and spankings go hand in hand. I've had just scolding and it's done nothing. I've had just spankings and its done nothing. Both together they just do the job for me.
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  14. Thanks for sharing your personal situation. I would fully agree that there is a particular marriage of that psychological component which I'm sure stems from your childhood, and the physical burning, stinging pain of the spanking you're receiving. You need to experience both together in order to really fulfill what your heart is yearning for. It's not even that you want to intentionally do things which would cause you to deserve a spanking, but you know that there are reasons why this is something you deeply deserve. There's a very particular process by which the embarrassing punishment you know you deserve will unfold and all of the components must be there. I am most fascinated by the idea of seeing you in every stage of this process and being able to see clearly how it's all effecting you. What a powerful release it would be for you to lovingly accept what you know you deserve, by someone you know loves you...and to feel comforted by the fact that it's all right for you. As embarrassing and shameful as it is for your private parts to be fully exposed and your bottom lashed with a belt or a paddle....you know that you're in the hands of someone who is lovingly correcting you....and all of this touches you so deeply that you can only surrender as the semen starts pouring out of your penis.
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  15. For me there has always been a strange fascination in seeing someone become electrified with emotions and arousal at the same time, as a result of their anticipation of their spanking, during the spanking or even after it. These various stages of the punishment process each have their own unique elements which I believe contribute to the overall experience for the person being spanked. I personally have never had an interest in angrily or forcefully spanking someone, as it is much more intriguing for me when I know the person I'm spanking (or witnessing being spanked) is actually yearning for the experience. They're yearning for the vulnerability, the nervousness, the embarrassment, the exposure....all because these emotions have the greatest effect on them. To be a part of this process in which a spankee reaches the pinnacle of emotional arousal is a very powerful and memorable experience. My only experience thus far with this has been with my husband....who lovingly asks me to help him relive his childhood spankings, and the storm of emotions he feels will cause him to become so overwhelmed and he will eventually start ejaculating.
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  16. Hi Christy, super interesting question. Yes, I definitely relate to what you describe, at least my perception of what you are asking/describing. Spanking and discipline carries a very emotional reaction for me (not crying) - in the form of wanting or craving, embarrassment, trepidation, dread and nervousness with intense physical arousal - even when simply discussing the topic. It’s like all senses go into overdrive at the mention of spanking in general. Both simply mentioning a possible spanking session or threat, and discussing the topic in general. My feelings about spanking as a topic for me, are very emotional and sexual in nature. However, the emotional piece is the most important part of the entire subject. i hope that answered your question NB50
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