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  1. Trouble always seems to find me. Funny, I didn't think I left a forwarding address. ?
    6 points
  2. It can be hard sharing your interest/need/desire in spanking with vanilla friends/lovers. Sometimes they just don't get it. Sounds like you have a tough choice. If she loves you maybe she will incorporate spanking in your life together. If not, then you have a tough choice. If it is not meant to be, then it is best to find a partner who likes to spank, but this can be a difficult find. This is a good place to meet like minded spankees/spankers - good luck...
    1 point
  3. That is a shame, but you’ll see there’s more than a few, yours truly included, who have had relationships go south over this. You have to be true to yourself. There’s no getting around that. You can try to say you’ll just give it up but it’s like trying to change your eye color. Same goes for her. She might just be incapable of understanding. If neither can find a compromise that works, better to find out now. Wish I had happier words.
    1 point
  4. I think it's only natural to test the boundaries, especially in the beginning. Partly, you're trying to see how he reacts so you know what to expect in the future. I think a large part of it though, is that you want to make sure he's someone that you can trust when the chips are down, to catch you. If you're spiraling, you want to know there is going to be someone there to stop you and break your fall. Doesn't mean it won't huty when he stops you short but hurts a lot less than crashing to the bottom. And yes, waiting to confess something sucks and can really eat away at you. I know it's
    1 point
  5. My favorite thing about being spanked is having my bums warmed up with a good amount of soreness and redness all around.
    1 point
  6. Well, to me I think #3 because being over someone's knees is something that at least, the person who is spanking my bums is someone who cares.
    1 point
  7. I remember finding those in tourist shops until the late 80s both in Vermont, and at Stuckey’s stores when deiving South to visit my Grandmothers. When EBay came out, I bought a bunch, but parted with most when I moved South myself.
    1 point
  8. Go to the profile page of the person you want to unfollow. There should be a green rectangle at the top that says "Following Member." Click on it. A pop up should appear that gives you the option to unfollow that person.
    1 point
  9. As a self spanker, it is less the intimacy with another and all about the sensations of the spanking, the sound of the brush or belt on my bottom, knowing I can take what ever this spanking will be, I try to randomize implements, amounts, time, etc.Finally it is the sense of relaxation, calmness, peace I feel during and afterwards. I also like the after effect, the lingering soreness reminds me of that peace I felt earlier. Needless to say I spank for stress relief and relaxation, and I just plain enjoy it.
    1 point
  10. @Edouard, Nice play on words, lol. I'm sure most ERs would enjoy a gift such as that from an ee. M.
    1 point
  11. As someone who has recently started going to counsiling and therapy... its certainly a relief to find someone who doesn't outright judge you for your beliefs or for your participation in extra-extra-curricular activites. It's always been one of my major fears, and it did come to pass with my first therapist who started outright judging me for my decisions, for my lifestyle and for the choices that had been made for me, with or without my consent. I am a Spanker, and a Top, but lately, I certainly haven't felt like it lately. Trying to open up is hard, and having a medical professional who
    1 point
  12. So, as a medical professional I can assure you the whole 'everything ok at home?" Is a typical question. Also, FYI, when being admitted to a hospital, we are required by law to assess home safety, suicide ideation and alcohol consumption. Don't worry about fessing up, *most* of us are nonjudgmental. All we care about is the safety of our patients. If you assure us that you feel safe, we're good and move on.
    1 point
  13. I came across this interesting article today, of a lady's journey to find that special somebody to meet the need of spanking. It is quite an interesting read, and I know for one I can relate to much of what she dealt with when searching. http://www.nytimes.com/2012/11/11/fashion/modern-love-a-spanking-fetish-is-not-revealed-easily.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
    1 point
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  15. I've been interested in being spanked since my teens. I think some of us are just wired that way to be honest.
    1 point
  16. Is spanking the only way I can become aroused? No... but I would say that 95% of my fantasies involve spanking in one form or another.
    1 point
  17. I've been spanked in many motels while traveling. I've never been overly worried about the noise, but I am also very open about who I am and the lifestyle I choose to live. We usually ask for an upstairs corner room. We do try to be respectful and bring lower impact implements, but there always seems to be one paddle in the bunch. I have gotten some odd looks and smiles from the hotel cleaning crew or our neighbors, but I just smile and don't worry about it.
    1 point
  18. It is not in my personality to embarrass or humiliate people. I just won't do it. When spanking my sub I do take down his underwear for 2 reasons. One, because it is more effective on him physically, and two, to make sure no damage is done.
    1 point
  19. How come no one answers me? Am I doing something wrong? Is no one there? I'm pouting and sad now
    1 point
  20. Any cop that EVER shoots one of my dogs will be dead before they reach the E.R. And I dont care what the consequences are. This is where I strongly adhere to "AN EYE FOR AN EYE.
    1 point
  21. I've known I needed to be spanked since I was 7, but the youngest age on the poll was 11
    1 point
  22. Male ee's have hard times finding spankers/punishers of either gender, especially if they live in the middle of nowhere.
    1 point
  23. A fresh, green switch. Hands down! I am at my limit for holding still before five good swats with one. But, always looking for more experience, that just makes me ask to be restrained. Ow! Ow! Ow! I may or may not be crazy, but I am certainly spanko!
    1 point
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