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OMG yes...especially when they create their own problems, wont do anything about it, then make me out to be the ‘bad-guy’ when I lay the truth on them. Exhausting to say the least!?

Hmmm. Not yet, exactly. But I do get frustrated when I invest myself in a clear plan to help someone, and they bail because they don't really want discipline at all. i mean, if all someone wants is a good spanking, I can be up for that as a 1x thing and even enjoy it for myself. But the lack of honest communication is frustrating. I've even come right out and said exactly that, to no avail. But I think a never-ending stream of drama for fun could definitely be tiring.

So Im interested in having a section here dedicated to the younger age demographic on this site. Mainly anyone between 18-30. I find I have similar interests with people in this age range. Anyone else interested?

I'm not sure I'd call my reaction "tired" but there was a time that I ended a disciplinary arrangement for exactly that reason--she said she needed discipline to work on some issues, but didn't actually do any work on them. In effect, it seemed like she just wanted an excuse for a regular spanking, which didn't fit with my goals, which were to actually help somebody improve. And, yes, she definitely considered me to be the "bad-guy" when I told her that and ended our arrangement.

Not yet.

I'M GOING TO BE A MOMMY...AGAIN. YES, I'M OLD.

I don't believe I'm just seeing this. Thank you Poison for being you as always ?. Well, I'm also guilty of a lot of things you've mentioned. I wish i could be a little more interactive on here than i currently am but real life matters won't let me sometimes. Yes, SN is totally different from what it used to be and it sucks but i'm grateful for the few friends i have here and my mentor. I miss hardhanded (HH) alot too because i always had a friend in him. On my own part i can promise to be a little more welcoming and open to meeting more people because you all are amazing.

Bruising I'm not a huge fan of but I love certain marks. Different shades of red outlining where a swat happened are my favorite, almost like it tells a story so you remember the entire event and can tell which swat was which. The other ones I've found I enjoy are welts. We have a light, holed paddle that leaves these circular welts and when it's all said and done I can rub and feel each one. And they will stick around even if the color faded even a few hours later if I check my bum may look well, but i can still feel those small raised spots where the holes hit acting as a reminder. Giv