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  1. It has been my experience that we have many spankos who are not ready or not looking for commitment. And they know it. If these so called "sceners" happen to contact you, you might tell them that you are looking for a real mentoring relationship or romance. Some sceners will respond, "Me too." When actually, they view spanking more in terms of "being in the scene" rather than spanking as domestic discipline. They are thinking more about just getting/giving a spanking, not about getting involved with any one person. I feel that sceners should be more upfront with others regarding thie
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  2. Hello, I am in Western NY and am recently single again. It has been a little bit of time since I spanked a man and am interested in exploring that part of my life again. I am your typical "girl next door", only with a hairbrush and a secret. If you would like to get to know me better, let me know.
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  3. I've been in a spanker for many years. I've learned alot, and still have a long way to go. One thing I've learned is, NEVER BREAK THEIR SPIRIT! Is it possible to go too far in DD relationship or mentoring relationship? Yes!! Here are a few clues to the 'ers, that you might just be going over line.... 1. Being too judgemental. 2. Jumping to conclusions 3. Yelling and/or screaming. 4. Punishing for first time infractions. 5. Talking down to, and/or patronizing. Here are a few clues that you HAVE gone over the line.... 1. Communication has ceased, and resentment has sent in. 2. Fearfu
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  4. I'm new to the site. I am looking for someone to punish me. This is not sexual in any way. I've got some things I need to be punished for. I'm looking for someone that can give me the punishment I deserve. This could involve bare hand, straps, belts, hairbrush, bath rush, switches, canes, or paddles. Definitely on the bare preferably ends with me in tears begging. Need you help!
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  5. Oh yes, I am well aware of the diversity of people's feelings toward my identity. Though I have to say, the reaction towards me as a whole in central Illinois has been good. I've really only had one instance where someone actually singled me out and yelled hate at me and it was the day after the inauguration so I wasn't that surprised. Where I was living prior was not a good environment to the point that I didn't feel safe there and basically couldn't be anywhere alone after sunset, which was frustrating. I think because what I'm looking for can be perceived as purely sexual is one of the reas
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  6. True, but I think being transgender probably isn't helping either. Sadly, that still freaks a lot of people out or view me only as a fetish, which is not something I particularly like. Generally I like to be seen as another human being.
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  7. Oh yes! It's not common, but occasionally - and I always wake up as soon as I realize it! I'm usually about to be spanked in the dreams (then wake up), but a couple times there were a few smacks received. Fewer dreams on the giving side...and in them I'm usually looking for a place to spank. Hopefully, this discussion prompts one tonight. ~Tina Sent from my SM-G920V using Tapatalk
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  8. redside68, It is uncanny how you described your interest. I would identify with your description, almost verbatim. I am hard-wired. I was from childhood. I never understood it, felt there had to be something wrong with me. (Thank you, years of Catholic schooling) After all, who likes the idea of spanking? I went through the typical: looking through books, magazines, and eventually online resources. It was a spur of the moment thought that led to me search "spanking." I came across another online community. It was as if the flood gates opened. There were so many oth
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  9. Being spanked in public has always been one of my fantasies, remembering being spanked that way by mom as a young teen growing up in the 1960s. For years I used a pro in the Houston area to spank me and I finally worked out a deal with her to meet my fantasy. We arranged with a fetish clothing store, DareWare, manager to let her give me a good spanking one day at their store. We arrived at the store and staged a fight and she drug me into a dressing room and had me strip naked, while she went into the store to get a leather paddle from a display rack to use on me. The store had t
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  10. Twice. Both times by Miss B. Once at a beach park on Chincoteague island, for a longer duration and once a few swats with a paddle in a parking lot in Seattle. It is unclear if anyone else actually saw either incident happen, but I imagine someone probably did. The park had bikers going past immediately after she was done with me and the parking lot was "fairly busy", if I remember correctly (although it was already getting dark I think). It definitively raises your heart rate when it happens (which is of course what we are all looking for - the thrill). Lot's of fun ...
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  11. Twice I have been spanked in restuarants. The first time was at Corky's, a BBQ place in Memphis. It was by MissB. We were about to leave and Ben really left in a hurry. Then I found out why ... MissB spanked me all of the way from our table into the parking lot!!! The next time I went to Corky's the seater gave me this very mischievious grin. Embarrasing? Yes. The second time was at an Italian place in Memphis. Again, MissB. This time she had me get up and put my hands on the table! Ben said there was a lady with this expression on her face: ! Then he said that there was a waiter tha
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  12. I am not necessarily fond of counting swats because it seems to distract from the reason for the spanking, however for punishment spanking that is intense, I find it useful to the spankee when I am topping, and also for me as a spankee, to be able to get through a challenging series of swats, by allowing them or me to see when the end is in sight to the noxious pain currently being endured. For serious behavior modification spanking, I think that if the spankee doesn't feel any need to know how many swats are left, the mentor may not be spanking hard enough to to deter the problem behavior.
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  13. An intro spanking is a first spanking specifically for the purpose of establishing a normal medium moderate baseline so that you know what to expect relative to that if you have misbehaved in away that warrants actual punishment. I would wait until the next spanking to address any behaviors you want to modify with punishment. I would have you call out pain levels on a 1-10 scale, for the intro at least, and I would adjust intensity to get you to around 5-6. This kind of spanking can also be done as maintenance just to motivate and focus you and keep clear in your mind what to expect if you ge
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  14. I believe anal play is a way of increasing submission and getting to the next level. I prefer to use a ginger root while I have my ee over my lap. As her anal juices mix with the ginger root it will burn inside her/his anus. That's when I like to ones on no movement for a solid 5 minutes across my lap. Once I pull it out I give a long hard hand spanking while rubbing the anus at times. It works well and gives the ER complete control.
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