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  1. 5 points
    Hello, everyone, I love this community. I've been a member of this site for 6 years and truly love our discussions and the resource that this site provides to members interested in spanking. I'm humbled to announce that I have purchased the site and am looking forward to working with and hearing from all of you in the days, weeks, and years to come. I bought the site to help ensure that our community is supported and that everyone feels welcome and supported when it comes to discussing spanking between consensual adults. To this end, I want to assure you that I'm going work collaboratively to ensure that any change is fully considered and opinions are collected. My first order of business is looking at the underlying software that runs the forum. I know many of (including myself) have been taken back by the change last week. Change can be a good thing but it needs buy-in from the community as well as a good underlying reason to support it. I will report back to you all next week with an update here. I understand that many aren't able to login or register and that is something I'm looking into ASAP. Please note this is a top priority. Again, I'm humbled to be apart of such a vibrant community and I'm looking forward to our journey together. Please don't hesitate to ask any questions. Have a great weekend, Updated post about this weekend further in the thread here.
  2. 5 points
    An inner idiot moment 😂😂😂
  3. 5 points
    So true 🤦‍♀️
  4. 5 points
    I have been struggling with a way to say this because I don't want to upset anyone, but if I do, I apologize in advance. I see a lot of people complain about the quality of chat in the main room, most of whom don't come to chat or if they do its only briefly. I have seen periods of intense bratting, plenty of drama (which I have sometimes been a part of if you can believe that) and plenty of nonsense and goofing off. But for the past year at least this has been almost nonexistent compared to the past. It's mostly a blank page at this point which is occasionally broken up with greetings and talk about the weather. Instead of just saying that chat isn't as good as it used to be, too much bratting is going on, etc. why not spend more time there trying to stimulate the conversation? Besides, it's pretty obvious that anyone that thinks bratting and role-playing are hindering on topic chat hasn't been there in quite some time because it rarely happens these days if at all. The drama is at the lowest it's been since I joined in 2015. If you want on topic chat now is the time, it's a blank slate so do something to help foster productive spanking discussion instead of just staying away and saying how terrible it has become. If it's not what you want then help to steer it that way. There are actually some very good on topic conversations in there from time to time but you have to be around for more than a second to see them. Ask someone a question about their situation, or tell about yours. Tell how you were able to make spanking work in your relationship, etc. Some people may not feel comfortable enough to participate but they may still get something from the conversation even while observing. That is my take on the chat situation, do with it what you will.
  5. 4 points
    His gentle side makes me weak while his dominant side, brings me to my knees ❤️
  6. 4 points
    I'm amused by the posts I see that say something like: I'll be in your town tomorrow and I need a spanking! lol as if Dial-a-Spanking were a thing, I so wish!
  7. 4 points
    Happy Friday! Hope everyone has a great weekend 😂
  8. 4 points
    I don't think it's really ethical to charge for something your benefiting from too. I would not charge for a spanking, nor would I charge someone... that's just.... Maybe ladies should charge you for the privilege of you spanking them?
  9. 4 points
    Having been a member of one of CoL's sites before, I can say this site is definitely in good hands! I've been a member here (off and on) for nearly 10 years, and I look forward to the future of the site. Congrats, CoL!!
  10. 4 points
    I'm going to give my reasons why I'm not as active in main chat these days for whatever it's worth. I may have been a spanko since birth I'm not 100% sure on that as I've had the interest since I can remember at a young age. However, there have been a few instances that have cemented the desire in my mind. These instances I'm not allowed to discuss because I was underage so I can't really talk about my past. Spanking in the present for me has hit a wall so there isn't much there to discuss either. Sure I can talk about what I'd like it to be but that seems like perpetuating a fantasy with zero chance of it becoming reality which doesn't seem healthy to me, or at least not very beneficial. So the end result is I'm basically removed from any real conversation about spanking. I'm not saying we shouldn't have rules but at the same you're removing people from the conversation who may be perfectly capable of talking about situations in an appropriate manner because of a few who push and cross the line.
  11. 3 points
  12. 3 points
    New day with a new outlook. I got this!
  13. 3 points
    When I ask to do something that I want to but know it's against my rules... and I hear the words yes.... but than followed by this........Not very much a 'yes' than, right?!!!
  14. 3 points
    For me (that is...)
  15. 3 points
    I just want to say a quick thank you to those who participated in chat last night until the early hours. Definitely gave my mind a break!
  16. 3 points
    Let's see what others think -- but this sounds like a good idea and could enable a whole new set of interactions on the site and in the community. I'll talk with @SpankingNeeds (our Dev); to see exactly what can be technically done. Where there is a will there is a way!
  17. 3 points
    It's amazing how a nap, a light spanking and some fun with my guy takes the restlessness away. I feel calm and peaceful.
  18. 3 points
    I'm guessing that you mean an ER making his EE count aloud as they receive swats? Or do you mean having a set number of swats? In my understanding, you have directed spankings, so if you're talking about that, it makes more sense for an ER to assign a certain number of swats or a certain length of time. For me personally, when I've been spanked in person, only one time has someone given a set number of swats, and it was an arbitrary number, she didn't make me count them aloud, but it was kind of helpful that when I was reaching my limits, that it was "only x number more". That is of course why some ERs do not like them, as it gives a finite time to look forward to the spanking being done instead of the dread of not knowing how much longer they're going to go. When it is a directed spanking, for me, time limits work better. I have a bit of OCD and if I'm counting swats, I need it to add up to certain numbers or it drives me crazy (and not in a good way), so when assigned a time limit, I concentrate on NOT counting, so I have no clue how many and no need to adjust to that amount. (I'm a bit nuts though.)
  19. 3 points
    I can't agree with this statement more! I guess in a way, I would be one of those serious members Shy speaks of. I can't remember the last time I was in chat to be honest, merely because of how much it has changed. The few times I have popped in, all I see is playing. Didn't we have a section for that or has that since been removed? Many of us wonder where all the "creeps" come from, correct? I suppose some enjoy it but, I for one do not! There are reasons that those annoying type members do not leave. By the way some choose to behave, they are encouraging it. The tone of how things of this site have changed is a turn off for many and is quite sad. Anyways, congratulations Child of Light!!! For those of you who do not know me (many new people here), I'm Poison's. Feel free to call me P. Child of Light joined this site less than a year after I did and we quickly became friends. She's been wanting to purchase this site for several years now. She has the experience to do it and is well respected around here by the people that do know her. If you don't know her, I encourage you to reach out. Child of Light is extremely easy to get along with and laid back so to speak. I believe she will continue to improve this site and possibly bring it back to what it once was!
  20. 3 points
    Many thanks to all involved in the hard work of community support. On the children issue, I hope management proceeds with good sense. It seems to me that if someone's own formative experiences include being punished as a child or seeing it happen to someone else that may be important to the context of a discussion and there should be nothing wrong with briefly including it. H.
  21. 3 points
    In my so-far very limited experience as an ER, I have spanked one man, and there wasn't the slightest thought of sex on my part or his. He was there to get spanked and I was there to give the spanking.
  22. 2 points
    I wouldn't have to manage my anger, if people could learn to manage their stupidity.
  23. 2 points
    At times TTWD is seemingly impossible to indulge but it's also impossible to forget.
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  25. 2 points
    Omg. I feel like Marty waking up in 1985, after a week in dystopian future! Nice to see the familiar site. Thanks to all that worked on it.