Chawsee, I just stumbled onto this topic and I hope this finds you in good health and in good spirits. I've found over the years that more women would be willing to chastise a naughty male than you might think, but that locating them and getting to admit their interest can be difficult. I see you haven't posted here since the pandemic "ended" but I'm finding that getting women to put me over their knee is harder now than it was. One told me she just became comfortable keeping distance from people and wasn't interested in resuming our play. I'm working on her.

Hi. I was spanked growing up mainly otk on m bare bottom. The cane was also still in use in school and I got that a couple of times. It became obvious I was a spanking during puberty since the mere thought was such a turn on. Over time I realised I wanted it with guys and met many over time. I do switch but prefer to receive. My preferred is hand, brush, plimsoll and the cane.

Checking in from Shelbyville, Kentucky. Its been 6 years since I had spanker in my life and I have really felt the need lately. So hard to find a female friend open to spanking me.

Hi Guys, How is everyone? Are you having a challenge you'd like to talk about? A question, maybe? Comments? Please chime in and share with us an update. Male spankees are a special class of men, and I'd like to hear how each of you is doing. Kindly, Chawsee

I'll try and keep this reasonably brief I grew up in the UK in the late 70s and 80s. I was spanked once as a child by a female teacher and came close to one from my Father when I was 10. Around about that age I started to become fascinated by it and for me it had become fetishized when I was in my teens. I had assorted mental health issues I had to work through from my 20s and coming to terms with my need/desire to be spanked was an important part of my recovery. I work part-time as a library worker, am training to be a counsellor/psychotherapist and in my spare time enjoy music ( metal, hard rock and punk ) and photography.