@LeighOTK That makes sense to me. I do daily spankings if I can, sometime more then 1. I love a good relaxation spanking. Sometimes, many times, mild is fine. Yesterday and today my body/mind said I need HARD spankings. Thanks.

I’ve had (many) times where, after a spanking I was surveying my bottom (in secret?) and would think, “Oh my!” I’d be certain that I’d be seeing and feeling marks for at least a couple of days, if not longer. Then I wake the next morning to find my tush nearly (if not fully) pristine. To be honest? I chalk it up to being a “born, hard-wired spanko”. My body knows I need to be spanked hard as often as humanly possible, and makes allowances for such. 😂🤣

Everyone is different. I had a spanking partner once who would get really nasty marks that would be gone by the next day. I know others where marks last for a week or longer.

I find after a good self spanking by bottom is sore and quite red. The redness fades quickly however, after several minutes? Do other find that to be the case or is it a sign I am not spanking hard enough?

I'd like to know more about this group as well. Could you share a bit more, please?

I do the same! Works ok when you can’t find anyone local.

I have a discipline school for bad behavior on discord. It's a totally self-spanking environment. Very strict

I am having a busy day early meetings, a HR problem with a person in the team, etc. Had another coffee, took a 10 break and walked around outside (working from home) ... but it did not work. I felt like I was in a weird funk. So rather than struggle with this feeling to set myself right walked over to the garage. Locked the door. Grabbed a paddle ( I love and hate) about 1 1/2” wide, 3/4” thick, the contact part about 8” long .. with a nice handle. Walked over to a stool in the garage, dropped my pants, partially bent over the stool and decided I needed 25 as hard I could give them across my bottom to straighten out my mood. I started doing my best to get as full a swing as possible, hard as possible, with a clear smack sound and contact across both cheeks. Starting at the bottom just on the top edge of my thighs and working up and then back down. I applied the strokes as fast and hard as I could while still maintaining power, accuracy and speed. At 15 I really wanted to stop, but started with the commitment of 25 so I pressed on. I could feel myself start to tremble and hint of beginning to perspiration. I knew I was making a point to myself now. When I reached 25 , I wanted to give myself the hardest and best swat yet. I missed doing that, so to be true to my plan I tried 2 more time, get that particular swat on number 27. Now back at my desk, tingling and twitching with a slight throbbing sensation. I feel much more motivated. Just wanted to share.. Have a great day.