I might be the only one who feels this way but my heart just sinks when I log into the forums here on spankingneeds and see somebody new says something that can be summarized as this:
Young female, desperate, needs to be spanked, I live here, contact me.
Now assuming the post is real, and some of them are, it is followed by a stream of good and well-meaning people saying SLOW DOWN! However, when you go to the individual's profile you will see a list of men who have checked the pro
This subject keeps coming up so I will put my thoughts out there. Feel free to not agree but please do make sure you read how I use terms to avoid fights to don't need to happen.
First let us define terms as I will use them:
Domestic Discipline – The husband or wife disciplines the other in the context of their marriage, may include physical and non-physical discipline. I will not be covering cases where a marriage commitment has not been made as it will contain too many variations a
So it has been a couple weeks. After a few distractions; no phone (internet) punishments, playing “King of Thieves” with my son (we are looking for guild members if anybody else plays), and some intense work travel I am finally back to getting something done.
I had several things planned to blog about but since most of you all want a blog post and not a book I will focus on only one. Although I have already started my next one.
So every couple has struggled. Incorporating discip
How to get my spouse to spank or get spanked by me?
This question seems to come up a lot. It has been discussed ad nauseum with a variety of differing opinions. Over the years I have read much of this advice and I know what worked for us. In this first post on the subject, I am going to cover some broad strokes on the issue and hopefully help somebody move ahead on this.
First, I will only be covering spouses and discussing with the assumption the couple is married and in a co
I was trying to figure out the best way to structure this post, and as life would have it I have received two spankings for different reasons since the last post and have a third one coming tonight. So let’s just explore these specific spankings.
So we generally only spank for punishment right now. We can for stress relief but our current agreement is it may be as hard as a punishment. Right now all spankings hurt…no trips into any type of subspace planned. However, we have this categ
So evidently people read what I am writing. Not sure why sometimes but it gives me a creative outlet so let’s dive in.
Last entry we covered some of the histories of how we got where we are today. I will continue with that same line but through the lens of our process and my psychology. We will finish with a description of the spanking I got last night and why.
The process is fairly simple and is as follows:
1. Confess the deed or get called out
Since I now have a follower and @ax013 told me to keep going we shall continue.
WHAT WE SPANK FOR AND THE HISTORY BEHIND IT:
Before we were even married I disclosed in a very nervous manner my proclivity for spanking,, the first time I told anybody. This was while she was visiting on spring break (she was a middle school teacher and I think they enjoy spring break more than the students) after we spent the day at the beach and she was in a good mood. She took it well alt
Never been one to blog but I figured to give it a go. You all let me know if it is good or not.
What I will attempt to do is explain how and what we do in our family, how we got here, and to let you all know how we are doing.
We have been married 12 years and had many of the ups and downs of most marriages. Somedays good...some days we have to work at it. We started spanking on a regular basis about two years ago and for punishment about a year ago at ly request. I