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Survivor

I woke from a night terror and posted elsewhere. So I hope this makes sense. The journey to healing from emotional, mental, physical and or sexual abuse calls for us to change our thinking about relationships, self-love, and self-respect and self- kindness. Abusive relationships often serve as the channel for shocking change and have the capability to motivate us towards freedom and strength, should we take advantage of a new thought process. Here are some life- altering truths I try to emb

Marysboy

Marysboy in Survivor

The button that seeks to be pressed

I have a lifelong fascination with spanking and discipline. I am not sure why but it is there in my head like a blinking red button asking me to press it. Sometimes it is a short cut to eroticism but sometimes it is a nagging and demanding red light that keeps moving into view and wants to be pressed. It feels hard wired, deep in my psyche. I cannot rationalise it not can I negotiate with it or avoid it. I felt bad about it for a long time. I like and respect women. I work in an industry which h

Public Spankings/Getting Caught in the Act

I was reminiscing about spanking earlier today and a specific couple of times came to my mind. Which was times when we've been caught in the act. The one that came to mind first, happened whilst with an ex girlfriend in my family home when I was around 19 or 20. It was a hot summer day, we were fooling around in the bedroom and she soon found herself over my knee. Caught up in the whole thing as we were, we didn't realise that the window was wide open and next thing we knew we heard, "

Am123

Am123 in Spanking

Step One: The New How of Spankings During Covid

You know how it is. The desire rises up in you, after a period of trying to ignore it or being distracted by life. (And vanilla relationships.)   But it becomes something you can’t ignore any longer and you can’t easily suppress.  You start watching all the spanking porn again ... pulling up your favourite saved videos, pouring over pictures of perfect posteriors, allowing yourself to think again about what you so deeply need and crave and WANT.   When the feeling rises up like this, it’s

Do or Do Not...

" ..."There is not try." -Yoda" -My disciplinarian. For privacy's sake, lets call him E. bonus points if you get the reference from "The Office"   I've slipped a bit recently. I made some very important commitments for work that I have slacked on in addition to losing touch with my own personal commitments/sight of my own goals. Anyways, I felt like today was such a productive day compared to recent weeks. "E" had me write out a schedule with some time allotted specifically f

scarlet

scarlet in General

"Good Night, Sleep Tight, Tomorrows Spanking Will Bite"

E and I agreed on a bedtime. A consistent sleep schedule definitely helps me and if I do not have a bedtime.... I am any word that is antonymous for consistent. It got so bad before we began our dynamic that I was late to work... TWICE. During the school year, I am in bed at 9:30 with lights out by 10. We added the "lights out by 10" part because I complained about having the same bedtime as his son. That really put things in perspective for him, haha! Now that it is summertime, we agreed on a l

scarlet

scarlet in General

It All Evened Out

x100   E was... less than satisfied when I admitted to driving a little too fast for the 4th time since February. This all goes back to my own disorganization, though. I swear- WHY does it always take so much longer than 43 minutes to drive forty-three miles??  I had the most amazing Saturday recently, meeting up with some of my best friends (who, yes, are in my little COVID bubble-- safety first!) to celebrate a birthday and exchange Christmas presents. We chose to meet up for th

scarlet

scarlet in General

Last Night I Got A Spanking

It had been quite some time since my last spanking. Life had gotten so crazy over here that many things were pushed aside, discipline included. I went in to take a shower and found a paddle waiting on the bed when I got out. I knew that meant there would be some discipline before bed. I dressed appropriately in anticipation then went to watch some TV. Not a word was said about what I knew was to come when I joined my wife in the living room. It was so quiet we actually both dozed off for a

Busted4fun

Busted4fun in Long Overdue

MY FIRST TIME - PART 2 of 2

I pressed the door release button and had about 90 seconds to my thoughts while he walked upstairs. And, I'll be honest, one of those thoughts was: what have I done! Then came the knock at the door. I slowly went to let J in.   We had our usual quick embrace but it obviously felt different. He nicely asked me how I was feeling, to which I replied "really nervous" - he responded that that was normal.   We walked through to the open plan bit of my apartment. The three implements

Naomi

Naomi in experiences

Getting started

I was chatting earlier about my beginning into spanking and thought I would write a short blog on it. During my early 20's I was good friends with a group of 6 and we used to spend a lot of time in each others company. Normally starting at the pub and always finishing at someone's house. ( for those who remember the 80's pubs closed at 10.30 then ).  One evening we ended up back at Val's house and continued drinking and chatting.  She for some unknown reason had lots of Jelly in the fridge

Tate999

Tate999 in Party

MY FIRST TIME - PART 1 of 2

MY FIRST TIME - PART 1 of 2   So this the first part of my account of my first experience of spanking and discipline, which happened last Sunday. Some of you have kindly asked how I’m going – it went well, if that’s right word for what was still a really painful, chastening, and cathartic experience. I’ll get to that part in part 2 because I don’t have time to finish this today I’ll tell the story of how I got there – some of this might be familiar to those of you who’ve read my

Naomi

Naomi

Why do I spank?

A follow on to my previous blog on the aspects of spanking. I wanted to talk a bit more in depth about the reasons I like to give a spanking, something which I do get asked quite a lot. I enjoy all aspects of spanking, discipline, most roleplays and it's release of stress. But I've often found myself wondering what I gain when I'm on the spanker side of things - which is most of my sessions, I'm going to go through some of the reasons.  Sexual Here me out here, I do find spanking sexua

Am123

Am123

Spanking Process Capability Study

Notice! This will probably go down as the most brilliant literature ever written on this site and in a few years, it'll be common place for everyone to be demanding that their spankers process have a CpK value of at least 1.67!  Actually....I'm very aware that this will most likely be considered the most pointless and boring post ever made on here.... I also just realized I should have used Cp Upper but it's fine, it wont matter for the sake of this example.....  Find out if your spanking a

DisobedientMIboy32

DisobedientMIboy32

Things to NEVER do around your ER/EE

Surely this kind of information is common sense, but it's probably the only thing of substance I can contribute to the site... Never engage in the following behaviors Don't schedule a session and then forget to show up  Don't take them for granted  Avoid at all costs discussing any of the following items  at any point in your relationship - especially the first few days Clinical Depression Anxiety Your dysfunctional family Chemical dependency 

DisobedientMIboy32

DisobedientMIboy32

Tried and True Methods to Get Out of a Spanking

I have been a stable and consistent member on multiple spanking sites for the duration of the last year (without intermission) and for years before that (on and off). Collectively, I have years of experience being threatened with all forms of corporal punishment, and in my lifetime of experience I have been seriously threatened with the most severe and unpleasant forms of corporal punishment  on thousands of occasions, and on every single occasion, I managed to get out of it. The one and only ti

DisobedientMIboy32

DisobedientMIboy32

Meeting a Spankee online - My Experience

I've been a spanko for most of my life, and have known and accepted it for a long time now. However it wasn't until last year that I "came out" so to speak and began trying to find a spanking partner online. I have recently made an amazing friend on this site and I wanted to share my experience of how that happened.  I began by registering on a spanking dating site. This started off very exciting, a brave new world! Unfortunately, I found limited success here due to a combination of my bein

Am123

Am123

Mental Health to Spanko

That big taboo subject that nobody likes talking about, the one that makes you feel all cringy inside and you're scared to admit to having problems with. Yet, in the world we're living the statistics for Mental Health Problems are shocking, causing drives such as Mental Health Awareness. We're more then comfortable to complain of our awful cold (man-flu), yet can't admit we have anxiety and so I am here to open up some discussions and hopefully freedom about this topic.  STATISTICS How

leighaddyTiH

leighaddyTiH

The Wonderful World of Switching

The topic of switching (being both a spanker and a spankee) comes up quite a lot here and I've been asked about it and talked about it a fair bit over the years. Thought it would be interesting to take a look at it and share my thoughts on the matter in the same space. One thing I've been asked is "How can you be both? You're either submissive or dominant and there's no inbetween." I think this does have merit, spanking is ingrained into who we are and it's entirely possible to have your mi

Am123

Am123

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