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Picking myself up

After reaching my 30 day goal of eating, I was supposed to do a reintroduction of foods. I never did that. I slowly started having sugar and off plan foods again... and now I am not eating well again. I made it 30 days, but my old habits came back hard when life got stressful. Little compromises led to bigger ones. So did it with my other goals too. Life got stressful and I slowly compromised my goals.  I’m struggling to get motivated again, to not let emotions dictate but rather make the c

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Bha

 

Day 11

I don’t have a lot to say other then reonizing how badly I want junk right now. Sugar anything really. Even craving cheeeeze... ugh. This craving seemingly came out of nowhere I read in the Whole30 it is normally day 10&11 which people quit. I’m realizing why today... I think what makes it harder is I’m not feeling well and I’d love just some crackers to make my tummy better, but then I’d have to start over at day 1...I also don’t want to face the consequences or guilt of giving up  

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Bha

 

Day 7 Stress Relief Spanking & Tough Love

Today I woke up sluggish and unmotivated.  Then I something else stressful happened and cravings hit hard.  I mean hard, I was ready to throw in the towel - the stress was triggering my habit of self soothing with food.  Plus the tension in my body just added up.  I am thankful to know where I can turn in the time of need.  I got a stress relief spanking from one person and tough love/encouragement from another.  My bottom hurts to sit, but I'm making good decisions, not self-sabotaging and moti

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Bha

 

Day 1 of Whole30

I am realizing sometimes all that is needed is someone to believe in you.  Believe that you can achieve something and encourage you to talk positive about actually achieving it.  Positive self talk is not something I've done well at consistently.  When I have done it, I found it helped.  I attempted positive self talk yesterday, but it was so mixed in with the fear of failure and worry...  Today I was told by my ER that worry is just a fantasy (something that hasn't happened).  This way of

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Bha

 

Purposeful & mindful choices.

Tomorrow I embark a journey which I am nervous for and afraid to fail- I will be beginning a new eating plan for 30 days. The goal for me is to focus on my health and habits.  By the end I will slowly add foods back in, which will help me figure out what food items trigger my health issues.  In this I will have to completely change the way I've eaten for my entire life.  The major area is with sugar- I will have zero sugar for these days... I've attempted to go without sweets, treats and su

Bha

Bha

 

Safety, Assault, and Respect in the Spanking World

I might be the only one who feels this way but my heart just sinks when I log into the forums here on spankingneeds and see somebody new says something that can be summarized as this: Young female, desperate, needs to be spanked, I live here, contact me. Now assuming the post is real, and some of them are, it is followed by a stream of good and well-meaning people saying SLOW DOWN!  However, when you go to the individual's profile you will see a list of men who have checked the pro

Somthingrandom

Somthingrandom

 

The Beginning

How We Met Daddy and I met online, via a spanking website, a year and a half ago. Neither of us were seeking a relationship at the time.. I was wanting a disciplinarian and he was looking for friends. I had recently discovered domestic discipline and knew this was what I wanted for my relationship, but many of the men I had met seemed only interested in sex. I wanted more than that, I wanted loving discipline.. I wanted the lifestyle. And one day the perfect man sent me a message that caugh

sammy21

sammy21

 

Upon Request - A discussion of CDD and "Christianity"

This subject keeps coming up so I will put my thoughts out there.  Feel free to not agree but please do make sure you read how I use terms to avoid fights to don't need to happen. First let us define terms as I will use them: Domestic Discipline – The husband or wife disciplines the other in the context of their marriage, may include physical and non-physical discipline.  I will not be covering cases where a marriage commitment has not been made as it will contain too many variations a

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Somthingrandom

 

How do you react when the spanker gets it wrong?

So it has been a couple weeks.  After a few distractions; no phone (internet) punishments, playing “King of Thieves” with my son (we are looking for guild members if anybody else plays), and some intense work travel I am finally back to getting something done. I had several things planned to blog about but since most of you all want a blog post and not a book I will focus on only one.  Although I have already started my next one. So every couple has struggled.  Incorporating discip

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Somthingrandom

 

How to get my spouse to spank or get spanked by me?

How to get my spouse to spank or get spanked by me?   This question seems to come up a lot.  It has been discussed ad nauseum with a variety of differing opinions.  Over the years I have read much of this advice and I know what worked for us.  In this first post on the subject, I am going to cover some broad strokes on the issue and hopefully help somebody move ahead on this. First, I will only be covering spouses and discussing with the assumption the couple is married and in a co

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Somthingrandom

 

The Process, Psychology, and Spanking Part II

I was trying to figure out the best way to structure this post, and as life would have it I have received two spankings for different reasons since the last post and have a third one coming tonight.  So let’s just explore these specific spankings. So we generally only spank for punishment right now.  We can for stress relief but our current agreement is it may be as hard as a punishment.  Right now all spankings hurt…no trips into any type of subspace planned.  However, we have this categ

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Somthingrandom

 

Our Process, Some Psychology, and a Spanking

So evidently people read what I am writing.  Not sure why sometimes but it gives me a creative outlet so let’s dive in. Last entry we covered some of the histories of how we got where we are today.  I will continue with that same line but through the lens of our process and my psychology.  We will finish with a description of the spanking I got last night and why. THE PROCESS: The process is fairly simple and is as follows: 1.       Confess the deed or get called out

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Somthingrandom

 

History and What We Punish For

Since I now have a follower and @ax013 told me to keep going we shall continue.   WHAT WE SPANK FOR AND THE HISTORY BEHIND IT: Before we were even married I disclosed in a very nervous manner my proclivity for spanking,, the first time I told anybody.  This was while she was visiting on spring break (she was a middle school teacher and I think they enjoy spring break more than the students) after we spent the day at the beach and she was in a good mood.  She took it well alt

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Somthingrandom

 

Giving this a shot

Never been one to blog but I figured to give it a go.  You all let me know if it is good or not. What I will attempt to do is explain how and what we do in our family, how we got here, and to let you all know how we are doing. THE BASICS: We have been married 12 years and had many of the ups and downs of most marriages.  Somedays good...some days we have to work at it.  We started spanking on a regular basis about two years ago and for punishment about a year ago at ly request.  I

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Somthingrandom

 

seeking a "whipping girl"

I don't have time to post a lot right now but I like the new blog feature and someone has to go first so here I am! I'm a happily married spanker in my late 40s, seeking someone I can spank on a regular basis for stress relief, fun, and friendship. I live in Bellingham Washington (about 2 hours North of Seattle, with traffic), and prefer someone within a reasonable driving distance. I'm fortunate enough to have had a few different spankees across my knee over the last few years, a

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