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Trust is what makes it all relationships tick.

Trust is something that is important in every relationship.  Both are in such a vulnerable position. We must do everything in our power to gain the trust of another. If we can do that, we lay the foundation for a successful relationship. To truly have a strong relationship, whether it is a Vanilla, FLR - SSP - DD- CDD- TIH, one needs to trust you with my or her life. This sounds dramatic until you realize this is just about what I personally think...  I am not a relationship specialist.  I
Top Six Thing To Remember about Seeking My Domestic Discipline Long Term Relationship

Top Six Thing To Remember about Seeking My Domestic Discipline Long Term Relationship

I am writing thing to myself, if it helps others also, great.. However, writing this to myself. 01. You are seeking a special, unique individual. This is a unique relationship.  You are a raindrop in an ocean seeking unique raindrop.  Your partner is there but you need to tread in the ocean till find each other.  02. Be honest with yourself. Take an honest look inside yourself, what exactly do you need. There is a difference between want and need.  I am a dry drunk.. I may really, real

momma_s_boy

momma_s_boy

 

What led you to be a Spankee as an Adult

What led me to be a Spankee? I started self medicating with alcohol as a minor to deal with childhood trauma. The self self medicating continued though adult hood.  I hit rock bottom for me in my twenties.  I did the detox and rehab. After third try, it took. Then came the dealing with PTSD., The night terrors and Flash Backs again. I could not reach my A. A. Sponsor. He had fallen off the wagon.  i knew if I drank again I would loose my sobriety,  my wife, my soon to be son,  my world. I s

momma_s_boy

momma_s_boy

 

What are your thoughts, is it better to be spanked immediately or made to wait a day or weak for a spanking?

Can this be as bad as the punishment itself? One thing about spanking as a punishment is that it can be all over to some extent swift, especially if it's doled at the time of the offence.  While the pain is being inflicted, it's potentially possible if you are one of the lucky ones and if she does not believe in severe corporal punishment over her knee, some can endure it till she is finished. Then it's all over. Some give a spanking at the end of the day, just before bedtime, no matter wha

momma_s_boy

momma_s_boy

Why is it so difficult to find a FLR-DD LTR

Why is it so difficult to find a FLR-DD LTR

Why is it so hard to find a mature woman that can see past a wheelchair. That is wanting a gentle hearted man. A mature woman that believes in Corporal Punishment and Correction for him. A mature woman that this is as part of bdsm play, but an actual need for actual accountability. A mature woman that will be able to accept that he will not relocate though he lives on disability he take pride that he own his home and will not relocate.

momma_s_boy

momma_s_boy

 

Share your experience

What is your interest in younger and older spanking?  Have you had real life experience being spanked by an older or have spanked a younger?  Is there a special mystique about a wide age span? Do tell....

Red Hiney

Red Hiney

Dragula a story of overcoming shame.

Dragula a story of overcoming shame.

This is a long one. it is how I was able to overcome shame.   Ok... this I've been thinking about for sometime. I started my journey in DD very young. Like many I was a prepubescent spanko obsessed with the idea, I do not use that term lightly. I'd do anything possible with the exception of ask them to indulge my fetish growing up. One thing I found very common with most the act itself as among friends was retaliatory not disciplinary. punitive incentive rather then corrective.
 

The Cabin in the woods

Set in a secluded part of the Green Mountain state the cabin became a get away for a few couples with special interests . They arranged weekend get together s for other young folks with similar interests The maim one of these  was the spanked wives club, a name adopted by the four woman and their husbands .The four  couples .each in their early and middle thirties we Frank and Gina  from NJ Tom and Lilly from CT John and Leann from NY and were Diane and Mike . at each get together the ladie

StrictM67

StrictM67

 

男房东与女房客 ---大姐的故事之得罪客户的后果

刘孜大姐其实挺聪明的人,就是读书时候家里没钱给她继续读下去,所以高中毕业后就从事销售工作,当时中国的房地产刚刚开始从政府分房到商品房买卖阶段,那时候卖房子,可是要挨家挨户拜访的,这女人能吃苦,业绩做得相当不错,经过几年的努力,在那个小公司里也算是高层了,但是公司不久因为资金周转不灵,被另外一家锦华的大公司给并购了,这家锦华公司可是业界翘楚,薪水是通常房产公司同样职位的2倍,工作量比别的公司稍高,但是管理制度非常严厉,不管是谁,老总苏谨之下,只要犯了错误,就要被处罚,处罚方式主要是打屁股,大家都舍不得这份工作,故一般会屈从。 刘孜知道这个规矩,但是她被并购后,被任命为公司市场部总监,她工作认真,一直都是她处罚别人,从来也没想过自己也有朝一日会被这种规矩处罚。 搞房产需要拿土地,拿土地就需要政府的批文,所以跟政府人员打交道,并搞好关系是至关重要。 这次,总裁苏瑾要带刘孜一起去见一个人,是市长的秘书胡进,他要通过这层关系拿到土地的批文,所以这次会面至关重要。 锦华选的是一个五星级酒店跟胡进会面,刘孜这个33岁的女人打扮得可谓成熟得体,一身干练的office lady的装束

gentle_sp

gentle_sp

 

Debby, my first spanking girlfriend in high School

Debbie   I met Debbie when I was in 9th grade.  She was an awkward 7th grader, and just beginning to bloom into adolescence.  She had a sparkle to her brown eyes and was friendly but not especially outgoing.  We did time together in the junior high choir at the First Baptist Church in Dallas, where both of our families were regulars.  We found out that we both lived in a fairly new neighborhood in North Dallas called Farmer's Branch.  We became better acquainted on a choir trip to Austin

JonTx

JonTx

 

Fine Line

I wish I knew this from the beginning. As lifestyle enthusiast's most like myself are ashamed and enthralled by the same thing. I'd say spanking, but perhaps that's only part of it. Ideally from the perspective of those like minded the fear of the punishment, and the fantasy of that fear are one in the same. To be a spanko is to love it, until you hate it. Perpetuating your love for it even more. To some, the guilt from craving a punishment you are suppose to see as a deterrent, will create an i
 

The Spencer Spanking Plan

Everyone one has an idea on The Spencer Spanking Plan, like Taken in Hand, Domestic Discipline, and so on. This is my understanding on The Spencer Spanking Plan. It is an act of discipline given under carefully defined and controlled conditions. Brutality is entirely foreign to the idea. Revenge, oppression, force and violence are all frowned upon and do not enter into the Plan in any way. The idea of the plan is to administer a bared bottom OTK Spanking when it is needed then make up

momma_s_boy

momma_s_boy

after my spanking

after my spanking

ever since I remember , every time I am to get a spanking , I get a huge boner , just thinking of what's coming to me . When I'm getting it , I keep my boner for a while , than I lose it , cause of the pain , but as soon as I get off her knees , with  my burning butts ...the boner comes back , and I have to masturbate over it . Lots of you guys feels and act the same ?

ticlaude

ticlaude

 

If I Leave No Traces

If I Leave No Traces Where can I run Where can I travel Not sure where else to go I seem to be stuck in the middle of nowhere   My road seems to go nowhere But I know success is coming soon So hard to try and wait for it But here patience is the key   If I leave no traces Will you come looking for me Or will I be forced to live alone Is it forever my fate to be this way   Will you search for me through the mountain

Poet2007

Poet2007

 

Semi Retired Mentor

Hello everyone, my name is Poet2007, im looking to get back into the online discipline arena once again, I do mean online only because that is what I am comfortable with. if you are interested, please feel free to send me a message here, or if you just want to chat that is fine too. I urge you to look over my rules carefully on my personal page here so you understand what I expect of an ee, thanks yours truly Poet2007.

Poet2007

Poet2007

 

Spanking by number

In the past years, my girlfriend and I have always set some guide lines for the spankings I receive from her. Usually selecting about 4 spanking tools and then using each one for 2 to 5 minutes. She would mix light, medium and hard strokes and the experience was satisfying  enough, but was getting routine. She would always follow my suggestions on what tools to use and for how long. The last two spankings she has given me have been different though. I have nudged her in the direction o

Switchbott

Switchbott

 

Philippa Courtney: Pippa and the cane

Philippa Courtney - who preferred to be known as Pippa - was the nineteen-year-old daughter of Robert Courtney, the headmaster of Radleigh Hall School. She was studying History at University, but stayed at the school - which catered for boys up to the age of sixteen - during her holidays. Since universities are more generous with their vacations than schools, the teenager was often to be found at Radleigh during term-time.  Pippa was a good-looking girl, with a soft, delicate prettiness. Sh

ArtieKat

ArtieKat

 

Suzanne, for the high jump

″Ah, Suzanne! There you are!″ exclaimed the grey-haired woman behind the imposing desk. ″Come in, please, and close the door!″ she beckoned, peering over the top of her gold-rimmed glasses at the fresh-faced girl with glossy chestnut hair who had tentatively knocked and stuck her head into the room.      ″It seems it’s time for another of our little chats, doesn’t it?″ demanded the older one ominously.     The newcomer, looking meekly at the ground, nervously began to negotiate the acres of

ArtieKat

ArtieKat

 

Thomas, Susan (U6A): Caned for bullying

The main corridor of the school was wide, with an attractive terrazzo floor that curved up at the side to merge with the walls. Every door was solid oak, polished to a high degree, and sporting a brass plate informing the ignorant what lay beyond.  The girl walked down towards the end door where the particular plate was marked: “Head Teacher.” She was of medium height with that heart-aching slim attractiveness that some teenage girls have. Her uniform marked her out as a sixth former; the t

ArtieKat

ArtieKat

 

Safety, Assault, and Respect in the Spanking World

I might be the only one who feels this way but my heart just sinks when I log into the forums here on spankingneeds and see somebody new says something that can be summarized as this: Young female, desperate, needs to be spanked, I live here, contact me. Now assuming the post is real, and some of them are, it is followed by a stream of good and well-meaning people saying SLOW DOWN!  However, when you go to the individual's profile you will see a list of men who have checked the pro

Somthingrandom

Somthingrandom

 

The Beginning

How We Met Daddy and I met online, via a spanking website, a year and a half ago. Neither of us were seeking a relationship at the time.. I was wanting a disciplinarian and he was looking for friends. I had recently discovered domestic discipline and knew this was what I wanted for my relationship, but many of the men I had met seemed only interested in sex. I wanted more than that, I wanted loving discipline.. I wanted the lifestyle. And one day the perfect man sent me a message that caugh

sammy21

sammy21

 

Upon Request - A discussion of CDD and "Christianity"

This subject keeps coming up so I will put my thoughts out there.  Feel free to not agree but please do make sure you read how I use terms to avoid fights to don't need to happen. First let us define terms as I will use them: Domestic Discipline – The husband or wife disciplines the other in the context of their marriage, may include physical and non-physical discipline.  I will not be covering cases where a marriage commitment has not been made as it will contain too many variations a

Somthingrandom

Somthingrandom

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