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Maybe you're not sure, maybe you’re a Spanker, Spankee, Switch, or another title (or even no title); if you want to talk about your role in this lifestyle and how it makes you feel this is a good spot.
Discuss your relationships and your adult spanking needs. These can be non-sexual, platonic, intimate or romantic relationships. Success stories? Frustration? Advice? Do you have a "Vanilla" partner? Struggling with understanding a Spanko partner? Do you need help discussing your needs with a family member, friend or medical provider? Discussions of your needs in a healthy and appropriate way. These are posts of "coming out of the closet" so to speak. Do not be ashamed of who you are.
This is a spot for talking about how we create the structure of our various arrangements. What works for you. Perhaps you don’t have a set of rules for your arrangement and that’s OK too. But do you have boundaries or hard limits you want to talk through? What implements make you tick?
Sometimes you just want to (or have to) tell other people about the punishment you got (or gave). Come here for commiseration, or as a way to process through your experiences. What punishments have worked for you? Which made you (or your partner) feel frustrated or resentful?
A lifestyle such as many of us live can be very lonely and frustrating at times.. Seek, give and support one another in this section. (Music, quotes, prayers, songs, etc, all welcomed!!) This can also be used to talk about our religion and our desires.
The Meaning Of Misbehavior Revisited
There should be consideration given to the realization, that the word, misbehavior may not always mean that somebody is bad or naughty. This considered thought process, may possibly eliminate a raised eyebrow, or possibly a "Do you want me to take you over my knee?" gesture and/or comment, with a wooden spoon, hairbrush, or some other implement possibly mentioned in the conversation. I think it's kinda like misplacing something. So it sounds like it could just be an honest mistake, and you just temporarily misplaced your behavior. Eventually you or someone else should find your behavior, and then you shouldn't be accused of mis (missing your) behavior So all should be well without somebody having to get that nervous eyebrow twitch, getting upset and on the other end of the spectrum somebody not ending up with a well spanked bottom (no pun intended). So to sum all of this rhetoric up, the word misbehavior should not always be considered as naughty or bad , but be more accurately classified as Misunderstood And Alleged (unproven) Misbehavior, or MAAM for short, and that should create a less tense atmosphere, and make all parties involved happy again. 😊 😇
Happy Birthday to my amazing beautiful wife. I'm so blessed to have met you on here and got to know the wonderful person you are. You came into my life at the time I needed someone the most, and you've been there for me ever since. I"m here for you too!...Happy Birthday my love! I love you with all my heart..!!