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  1. The Entrance Hall

    1. Board News & Updates

      News and information about the board, as well as rules of conduct.

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    3. Ask the Staff

      Need help posting or something moved? Whether it is a simple question of where to find something, name change request, a concern about another member - feel free to start a private thread here that only staff members can read and reply to. 

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    4. Introductions

      Welcome to Spanking Needs! Come introduce yourself in this forum. Don't be a stranger!!!

  2. The Study

    1. General Spanking Discussion

      Discussion area for all those needing to give or receive spankings.To find friends or a Spanking Partner please check out our Meeting Hall section to see which best fits your needs.

    2. Spanking Safety and Advice

      This is the place to share advice and safety tips for those that may be new to the lifestyle or a refresher for those who have been around a while. 

    3. Roles

      Maybe you're not sure, maybe you’re a Spanker, Spankee, Switch, or another title (or even no title); if you want to talk about your role in this lifestyle and how it makes you feel this is a good spot.

    4. Relationships

      Discuss your relationships and your adult spanking needs. These can be non-sexual, platonic, intimate or romantic relationships. Success stories? Frustration? Advice? Do you have a "Vanilla" partner? Struggling with understanding a Spanko partner? Do you need help discussing your needs with a family member, friend or medical provider? Discussions of your needs in a healthy and appropriate way. These are posts of "coming out of the closet" so to speak. Do not be ashamed of who you are.

    5. Spank Me, Oh Yes! (erotic)

      Forum for those who have a sexual interest in spanking and being spanked. You can be both emotionally AND sexually attracted to the belt or paddle, so here's your place to talk about it.

    6. ... In the news

      Spanking Therapy and Spanking in General in the news.

  3. The Foundation

    1. Creating Structure/ Guidelines

      This is a spot for talking about how we create the structure of our various arrangements. What works for you. Perhaps you don’t have a set of rules for your arrangement and that’s OK too. But do you have boundaries or hard limits you want to talk through? What implements make you tick?

    2. Reflection Circle

      Sometimes you just want to (or have to) tell other people about the punishment you got (or gave). Come here for commiseration, or as a way to process through your experiences. What punishments have worked for you? Which made you (or your partner) feel frustrated or resentful?

    3. Inspirational Box

      A lifestyle such as many of us live can be very lonely and frustrating at times.. Seek, give and support one another in this section. (Music, quotes, prayers, songs, etc, all welcomed!!) This can also be used to talk about our religion and our desires.

    4. Our Health

      A place to talk about our emotional, physical, and sexual health -- without being judged.

  4. Meeting Hall

    1. Daily Banter

      Got something to share that is unconnected to spanking discussion? Talk about it here.

    2. Polls and Surveys

      Get to know each other!

    3. Regional Directory

      Find friends and connections. This is not a sexual posting section.

    4. Local Groups and Events

      Post your event idea's and your local events you have planned. 

    5. Pen Pals/ Online Dynamics

      If you are looking for online only please post here.

  5. The Library & Media Center

    1. Music, Paintings, Photographs & Videos

      Post all your art here. Please keep it tasteful! :)

    2. Writing Desk

      Fictional and non fictional writing. An outlet for your creative side of spanking, or life experiences, Stories, poetry. etc. Share it!

  6. The Game Room

    1. Forum Games

      Chatty fun. Good old time-wasting fun stuff!

    2. Role Playing Discussion & Recruitment

      For discussing role playing and recruiting participants for a role play of any sort (including age play and ABDL that includes discipline).

  7. The Outside World

    1. Debate Section

      Controversial subject matter. No flaming! NO DEBATES ABOUT CHILDREN!!!!

    2. External Links

      Links to other websites of interest to our community.

  • Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • rubyredd

      What is the "just right" amount of time for corner time after a spanking? 

      · 11 replies
    • goodboy_will

      The Meaning Of Misbehavior Revisited
       There should be consideration given to the realization, that the word, misbehavior may not always mean that somebody is bad or naughty. This considered thought process,  may possibly eliminate a raised eyebrow, or possibly a "Do you want me to take you over my knee?" gesture and/or comment, with a wooden spoon, hairbrush, or some other implement possibly mentioned in the conversation.  I think it's kinda like misplacing something. So it sounds like it could just be an honest mistake, and you just temporarily misplaced your behavior. Eventually you or someone else should find your behavior, and then you shouldn't be accused of mis (missing your) behavior So all should be well without somebody having to get that nervous eyebrow twitch, getting upset and on the other end of the spectrum somebody not ending up with a well spanked bottom (no pun intended). So to sum all of this rhetoric up, the word misbehavior should not always be considered as naughty or bad , but be more accurately classified as Misunderstood And Alleged (unproven) Misbehavior, or MAAM for short, and that should create a less tense atmosphere, and make all parties involved happy again.  😊 😇
      · 5 replies
    • DaChief

      Alduting sucks. I wish I was a lobster. Then I could just walk around pinching people's bottoms all day. 
      · 1 reply
    • badboyotk47

      Happy Birthday to my amazing beautiful wife. I'm so blessed to have met you on here and got to know the wonderful person you are. You came into my life at the time I needed someone the most, and you've been there for me ever since. I"m here for you too!...Happy Birthday my love!  I love you with all my heart..!!
      · 2 replies
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