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Maybe you're not sure, maybe you’re a Spanker, Spankee, Switch, or another title (or even no title); if you want to talk about your role in this lifestyle and how it makes you feel this is a good spot.
Discuss your relationships and your adult spanking needs. These can be non-sexual, platonic, intimate or romantic relationships. Success stories? Frustration? Advice? Do you have a "Vanilla" partner? Struggling with understanding a Spanko partner? Do you need help discussing your needs with a family member, friend or medical provider? Discussions of your needs in a healthy and appropriate way. These are posts of "coming out of the closet" so to speak. Do not be ashamed of who you are.
This is a spot for talking about how we create the structure of our various arrangements. What works for you. Perhaps you don’t have a set of rules for your arrangement and that’s OK too. But do you have boundaries or hard limits you want to talk through? What implements make you tick?
Sometimes you just want to (or have to) tell other people about the punishment you got (or gave). Come here for commiseration, or as a way to process through your experiences. What punishments have worked for you? Which made you (or your partner) feel frustrated or resentful?
A lifestyle such as many of us live can be very lonely and frustrating at times.. Seek, give and support one another in this section. (Music, quotes, prayers, songs, etc, all welcomed!!) This can also be used to talk about our religion and our desires.
I have been involved in spanking since I was a teenager. Growing up I would always get a spanking by my dad and when I was bad at school and they always pulled my pants down and spanked me naked. I loved that burning and that on fire feeling especially when my butt was cherry red. I would deliberately do bad things and smart off to my dad so I can get that spanking that made me feel really good. I also would get a huge erection when I was spanked and would cum during the spanking. When I was waiting in the principles office to get a spanking I would get a huge erection while waiting and anticipating that spanking that would make my butt 🍒cherry red, 🔥burning and on 🔥fire for days afterwards.
This continued into adulthood, the more I try to get away from this desire to be spanked 2 to 3 times a week, the stronger the urge. My wife is totally against spanking because if her Pentecostal upbringing. If I tell the church they would say that I am going to he'll.
For the last 10 years I have been self spanking because I have yet to find anyone that will meet my spanking needs.
I am looking for a male or female spanked or switch who will spank my naked butt and make it 🍒cherry red 🔥burning and on 🔥fire for days afterwards!!! I am willing to do the same with my spanking Partner.
I like to be spanked with paddles, switches, belts, razer straps, whips, gairbrushes, wooden spoons canes, tree branches or anything that will make my naked butt 🍒🌸 cherry red, burning 🔥and on fire for days afterwards. I like my butt to be red with a little blood and minor bruising, as long as it hurts to sit down for days afterwards. I like to be spanked to crying and tears, this will help me to change my negative behavioral paterns!!!
Anyone is interested you can inbox me, email me here or email me at firstname.lastname@example.org