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  1. The Entrance Hall

    1. Board News & Updates

      News and information about the board, as well as rules of conduct.

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    3. Ask the Staff

      Need help posting or something moved? Whether it is a simple question of where to find something, name change request, a concern about another member - feel free to start a private thread here that only staff members can read and reply to. 

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    4. Introductions

      Welcome to Spanking Needs! Come introduce yourself in this forum. Don't be a stranger!!!

  2. The Study

    1. General Spanking Discussion

      Discussion area for all those needing to give or receive spankings.To find friends or a Spanking Partner please check out our Meeting Hall section to see which best fits your needs.

    2. Spanking Safety and Advice

      This is the place to share advice and safety tips for those that may be new to the lifestyle or a refresher for those who have been around a while. 

    3. Roles

      Maybe you're not sure, maybe you’re a Spanker, Spankee, Switch, or another title (or even no title); if you want to talk about your role in this lifestyle and how it makes you feel this is a good spot.

    4. Relationships

      Discuss your relationships and your adult spanking needs. These can be non-sexual, platonic, intimate or romantic relationships. Success stories? Frustration? Advice? Do you have a "Vanilla" partner? Struggling with understanding a Spanko partner? Do you need help discussing your needs with a family member, friend or medical provider? Discussions of your needs in a healthy and appropriate way. These are posts of "coming out of the closet" so to speak. Do not be ashamed of who you are.

    5. Spank Me, Oh Yes! (erotic)

      Forum for those who have a sexual interest in spanking and being spanked. You can be both emotionally AND sexually attracted to the belt or paddle, so here's your place to talk about it.

    6. ... In the news

      Spanking Therapy and Spanking in General in the news.

  3. The Foundation

    1. Creating Structure/ Guidelines

      This is a spot for talking about how we create the structure of our various arrangements. What works for you. Perhaps you don’t have a set of rules for your arrangement and that’s OK too. But do you have boundaries or hard limits you want to talk through? What implements make you tick?

    2. Reflection Circle

      Sometimes you just want to (or have to) tell other people about the punishment you got (or gave). Come here for commiseration, or as a way to process through your experiences. What punishments have worked for you? Which made you (or your partner) feel frustrated or resentful?

    3. Inspirational Box

      A lifestyle such as many of us live can be very lonely and frustrating at times.. Seek, give and support one another in this section. (Music, quotes, prayers, songs, etc, all welcomed!!) This can also be used to talk about our religion and our desires.

    4. Our Health

      A place to talk about our emotional, physical, and sexual health -- without being judged.

  4. Meeting Hall

    1. Daily Banter

      Got something to share that is unconnected to spanking discussion? Talk about it here.

    2. Polls and Surveys

      Get to know each other!

    3. Regional Directory

      Find friends and connections. This is not a sexual posting section.

    4. Local Groups and Events

      Post your event idea's and your local events you have planned. 

    5. Pen Pals/ Online Dynamics

      If you are looking for online only please post here.

  5. The Library & Media Center

    1. Music, Paintings, Photographs & Videos

      Post all your art here. Please keep it tasteful! :)

    2. Writing Desk

      Fictional and non fictional writing. An outlet for your creative side of spanking, or life experiences, Stories, poetry. etc. Share it!

  6. The Game Room

    1. Forum Games

      Chatty fun. Good old time-wasting fun stuff!

    2. Role Playing Discussion & Recruitment

      For discussing role playing and recruiting participants for a role play of any sort (including age play and ABDL that includes discipline).

  7. The Outside World

    1. Debate Section

      Controversial subject matter. No flaming! NO DEBATES ABOUT CHILDREN!!!!

    2. External Links

      Links to other websites of interest to our community.

  • Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • gentle51sp

      I am a mature middle aged male disciplinarian who gives non sexual motivational spankings to those who need it and feel they could benefit from the experience.
      · 0 replies
    • Zhal

      Punishment spankings are effective even for people who like being spanked.
      · 1 reply
    • spankguy777  »  rubyredd

      Hope you were able to eventually read part 4  
      · 2 replies
    • Spankmered57

      I have been involved in spanking since I was a teenager.  Growing up I would always get a spanking by my dad and when I was bad at school and they always pulled my pants down and spanked me naked.  I loved that burning and that on fire feeling especially when my butt was cherry red.   I would deliberately do bad things and smart off to my dad so I can get that spanking that made me feel really good.  I also would get a huge erection when I was spanked and would cum during the spanking.  When I was waiting in the principles office to get a spanking I would get a huge erection while waiting and anticipating that spanking that would make my butt 🍒cherry red, 🔥burning and on 🔥fire for days afterwards. 
      This continued into adulthood, the more I try to get away from this desire to be spanked 2 to 3 times a week, the stronger the urge.  My wife is totally against spanking because if her Pentecostal upbringing.  If I tell the church they would say that I am going to he'll.
      For the last 10 years I have been self spanking because I have yet to find anyone that will meet my spanking needs.  
      I am looking for a male or female spanked or switch who will spank my naked butt and make it 🍒cherry red 🔥burning and on 🔥fire for days afterwards!!! I am willing to do the same with my spanking Partner.
      I like to be spanked with paddles, switches, belts, razer straps, whips, gairbrushes, wooden spoons canes, tree branches or anything that will make my naked butt 🍒🌸 cherry red, burning 🔥and on fire for days afterwards.  I like my butt to be red with a little blood and minor bruising, as long as it hurts to sit down for days afterwards. I like to be spanked to crying and tears, this will help me to change my negative behavioral paterns!!!
      Anyone is interested you can inbox me, email me here or email me at rmiles2057@gmail.com 

      · 1 reply
    • michgal.k

      So, found the perfect stocking stuffer for my ER. I'm sure they'll be VERY excited when they open it! 😏😏😏

      · 0 replies
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